In relationship what qualities you look for in women/men?

For me, i'll be very happy with a average looking woman as long shes a kind and charming person. Beauty and Money is secondary to me in relationships. Maybe because i'm just a plain average guy myself.

wbu OT ? :)

OMG i see a K

*hides*

I guess I'd like her to be pretty. Of course that can be subjective. Also, decent smarts so I can actually talk to her, kind and understanding.

Back when I was on my secret date during Xmas night with an Indian woman, she was pretty to me, she had great personality, and I decent job. She was also sexy indeed and breasty too. Say that's the kind of woman I would like to be in a relationship and she kinda did ask me to be with her on that night, but that's another story.

First of there needs to be a friendship, brains and humor are first looks also important but not to harsh on that if she is great to be around.

as for breasts i love them in all shapes and almost all sizes (not bigger as DD maybe just even D)

and one of the most important things: Does she have skills?

Honesty, kindness, passion (as in being passionate about what she does), intelligence, hardworking mentality, sense of humour, a strong but nurturing personality and if she likes to cuddle all the better!

@dylandr: Skills you say?

ive only met one girl who had all the qualities i want in a woman and i blew it with her.

funny, smart, pretty, athletic, and fun.

@davillain-: ya know cooking, driving, CPR, maybe dancing or something things like that

@dylandr: Sounds good to me. Cooking works in both ways so I say, you'll find the one that matches your quality.

@davillain-: well thats bad... i am not much of a cook (yet)

Tits and arse

• First and foremost I want to be attracted to her. She doesn't have to be smokin' hot, but I at least want to actually tap her if I'm gonna be in a relationship with her. She wouldn't be anything more than a great friend otherwise.
• I have to be able to really have fun being with her, even if we aren't doing anything.
• She has to be a good person.

With those three things down I'll pretty much be in love with her, I guarantee it.

Honesty, intelligence, and loyalty.

Funny, sexy, ambitious.

Attention to detail.

Intelligence above all. I loathe dumb women.

She must also be sexy, goal-orientated, confident, etc.

I have all of this in the girl I'm with now. She's tall (6ft), slim, very smart (Masters in Chemistry), very sexy, etc. I swear I wont blow it with this one.

If i was a woman, you'd be my perfect kind of guy =P

@indzman: Well I do know a guy who did a transgender surgery if your interested.

Humor is the catalyst for everything else for me

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I've never been in a relationship and never plan to either.

I could probably write a book about that (and nobody would buy it). But I think first and foremost she has to be able to laugh at excessive words and sarcasm, because that's how I normally express myself. It's a part of my personality, and my friends like me for it, so she needs to have the same sense of humor otherwise she will probably go insane.

Looks in a woman is the most important feature for me.

I can't be with a girl if I am not attracted to what she look like.

Most people say that looks doesn't matter but I think they are lying.

Hot ! Lol ..

Guess it doesn't matter..

I like girls who aren't too clingy. Some girls seemingly have nothing going on in their life besides their boyfriend and job. She'd have to be okay with only visiting twice per week regularly. Usually what happens though is the girl I date wants to spend all of our time together - making me question if this person even had a life before I showed up.

Other than that, I'm open to all types of women - they usually all have something different to offer. As long as I find them attractive. And they have to be okay with me not wanting marriage or children.

@KHAndAnime: Oh yeah, those clingy ones. They make horrible girlfriends. I dated one of those last summer. Every time I had to take my leave and go home, she started crying. I'M DEAD F****NG SERIOUS -.-

You sound alot like me, I'll take an average looking female with a BEAUTIFUL personality and a good head on her shoulders anyday.

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A great personality, the ability to make me laugh, someone who is able to keep my attention with conversation. Being nice to look at doesn't hurt either

beauty, loveliness

Pink Tit$

You should make her your second baby mama , seems you had a memorable and great time with this fine indian lady :)

sounds like you want a cut friend not a girlfriend. your girlfriend wants to hang out with you... what is the world coming to these days.

Since I am in college, I guess what I expect from a girl in a relationship is mostly related to how she presents herself:

• Is she ambitious and driven in her studies? (does she want to do something with her life, set goals and achieve them, etc.)
• Is she calm and detached in the sense that I don't have to be with her all the time? (science programs really suck all the time and life out of you)
• Is she mature and professional? How does she dress? Because for me, nothing melts my heart more than seeing a girl dressed in a classy and cute shirt/dark jeans with a spritz of perfume. Beats out half torn leggings and t-shirts any day for me (too bad this is way more frequent than it should be)

Then, there are the stuff that isn't related to how I see her in school:

• Confidence
• Loyalty/Trust (can talk to them about what I am feeling and vice versa)
• Playful and talkative, but able to be serious when required

Then again, the girl in question also has to be pretty. Not a 10/10 or 9/10 model, mind you. I value someone who is a 6/10 but works hard to present themselves as an 8/10 much higher than someone who is 10/10 but who's personality and values just don't correspond with my own.

She should love me back.

this is the most important thing to me with any girl. does she actually care about me?

Whether man or woman, I gravitate more towards a more shy and sensitive personality type. Kindness is also a must for me. As it relates to physical attributes/characteristics, I don't have a particular preference. ;)

LOL she even mentions that we should be together, I don't know, I'm thinking about it but then again, I'm already settle and don't even feel like starting a new relationship again.

Somebody I find attractive (and I have a weird definition of what's attractive and what's not to many people) and someone who isn't going to bitch me out for being myself like my first GF did.

A girl that's a bit shy, geeky, strong-willed, open-minded (A must have), creative, athletic, a non smoker, honest, easygoing, dependable, not easily offended by what people around her say, has similar interests/hobbies, and has common sense (A must have)...

@tocool340: Nice =)

Your post conveys your pain man. :(

Oh Johnny...you must be the most intelligent and brilliant man I've ever seen. By far the most intelligent and brilliant.

she lets me jam, ja-ja-ja-ja-JAMMMMM IT IN!!!!

Awww, come on Erfan, cheer up...it's not like you're 80. Unrequited love sucks but the perfect girl for you is out there somewhere! =D

Man, you're really bear centered, aren't you? =D Can't say you're wrong though...if it's not huggable, it's no good.

I like to date people who are better/kinder/more generous than I am.