Is adding a girl...

Is adding a girl on site like facebook that you believe has a crush on you too stalkish? I have multiple reasons to believe she does crush on me but she lives in the city next to me so i dont seeher much and facebook seems like the only way to get ahold of her.

Also i shut her down twice not knowing that she seemed to crush on me, i honestly thought she was just a annoying customer but she was actaully just trying to engage conversation.

I feel like a dumb dumb man

Is adding a girl on site like facebook that you believe has a crush on you too stalkish? I have multiple reasons to believe she does crush on me but she lives in the city next to me so i dont seeher much and facebook seems like the only way to get ahold of her.

Also i shut her down twice not knowing that she seemed to crush on me, i honestly thought she was just a annoying customer but she was actaully just trying to engage conversation.

I feel like a dumb dumb man

optiplex7

If she has a crush on you, she will accept. Time to find out. Send a request. :)

pics eh.. dunno that seems even more stalkish

pics eh.. dunno that seems even more stalkish

optiplex7

pics eh.. dunno that seems even more stalkish

optiplex7

No.

That is all.

pics eh.. dunno that seems even more stalkish

optiplex7

You don't have to. It'd awesome if you did post pics, though. :)

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pics eh.. dunno that seems even more stalkish

mattpunkgd

i guess i ill see tomorrow after work if she accepts maybe if so ill show a pic...

Eh.........Facebook just adds another dimension of awkwardness to an already awkward situation like you practically shunning her from conversation. Now you'll just look desperate.

i guess i ill see tomorrow after work if she accepts maybe if so ill show a pic...

optiplex7

She better accept!

:P

(Hope she accepts, for your sake, too, man) :)

How do You even manage to conceive the idea that she might find You to be a stalker, if You add her to Your facebook, when You have multiple reasons to believe she has a crush on You?

Talk about a non-issue.

It would be fine. People will add you on Facebook even if they've never ever talked to you before. I'm sure she won't think it's stalkerish.

Why do you all have to be so different in your opinions! gah!do you think you have free speech or something?:D

Why do you all have to be so different in your opinions! gah!do you think you have free speech or something?:D

optiplex7

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pics eh.. dunno that seems even more stalkish

You don't have to. It'd awesome if you did post pics, though. :)

It's a Facebook friend request not a marriage proposal.mikegtfc

How do You even manage to conceive the idea that she might find You to be a stalker, if You add her to Your facebook, when You have multiple reasons to believe she has a crush on You?

Talk about a non-issue.

BiancaDK

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How do You even manage to conceive the idea that she might find You to be a stalker, if You add her to Your facebook, when You have multiple reasons to believe she has a crush on You?

Talk about a non-issue.

GHlegend77

[QUOTE="GHlegend77"][QUOTE="BiancaDK"]

How do You even manage to conceive the idea that she might find You to be a stalker, if You add her to Your facebook, when You have multiple reasons to believe she has a crush on You?

Talk about a non-issue.

Deihjan

Is adding a girl on site like facebook that you believe has a crush on you too stalkish? I have multiple reasons to believe she does crush on me but she lives in the city next to me so i dont seeher much and facebook seems like the only way to get ahold of her.

Also i shut her down twice not knowing that she seemed to crush on me, i honestly thought she was just a annoying customer but she was actaully just trying to engage conversation.

I feel like a dumb dumb man

optiplex7

pics eh.. dunno that seems even more stalkish

optiplex7

dude its fb whats the worse that can happen you add her she declines shes a stranger you may as well take a chance you have nothing to lose

If you know the person in real life... then I see no harm in adding her, showing an interest isn't creepy.

[QUOTE="Deihjan"][QUOTE="GHlegend77"] I have the strangest feeling you aren't Bianca.GHlegend77

What's the worst she can do, deny it? Grow a pair. The reason why jerks get tons of women, and why guys like you post on these forums about your girl problems, is that the jerk tries to hit on 100 women a month. Of those 100 women, at least one will fall for his lines. Ever heard the saying you miss all the shots you don't take?

There is certainly no problem in doing that.

nope seems like her profile says add a friend instead of "awaiting friend request" now that im back from work. im guessing that means no facebook for me! O well either she didnt like me in the first place or i pissed her off when she gave me signs 3 times.

It's a Facebook friend request not a marriage proposal.mikegtfc

If you don't know the girl at all, then yes, uber stalkerish

What I don't understand is, if she is into you like you say she is, then why didn't she add you on FB instead? And what are you trying to accomplish by adding her on FB if you find her annoying? Just to confirm that she's into you?

go for it, adding people is no big deal online