Is it bad that i keep thinking about her ?

Recently i broke up with my girlfriend after a 2 year relationship. We talk and see each other around college but obviously aren't as close anymore. I chose to broke the relationship up as i wasn't happy anymore and the relationship seemed to be taken a toll on both of us. When i'm with my friends i'm okay and don't really think about it too much. But when i get back home i'm constantly thinking about her all the time and just want to talk to her. Another boy has seemed to have attached himself to her ever sine the break up and again it doesn't bother me when i see them when i'm with my friends but when i see them when i'm by myself it bothers me and i seem really jealous. I don't want it too cause it seems to be making me miserable which of course i don't want. My feelings towards this girl are mixed with positives that we had but then negatives as well such as not being happy and walking around with a grey cloud over my head. So i was just wondering if you had any advice on what to do about this situation i seem to be in? Thank you.

The best way to get over a woman(or a man for that matter). Is with another one... Usually.-Big_Red-

yes, you are more familiarized with getting over men then?

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]The best way to get over a woman(or a man for that matter). Is with another one... Usually.Colin1192

yes, you are more familiarized with getting over men then?

[QUOTE="Colin1192"]

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]The best way to get over a woman(or a man for that matter). Is with another one... Usually.-Big_Red-

yes, you are more familiarized with getting over men then?

so since that is how you get over guys, you think that is what he should do to get over his former girlfriend

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="Colin1192"]

yes, you are more familiarized with getting over men then?

so since that is how you get over guys, you think that is what he should do to get over his former girlfriend

How much did you buy her? These kind of products sure are defective sometimes. Order a new one. They're like 20 bucks used.rockinplanes

[QUOTE="rockinplanes"]How much did you buy her? These kind of products sure are defective sometimes. Order a new one. They're like 20 bucks used.-Big_Red-

the OP is incoplete,you didn't mention whether she was hot or not.

the OP is incoplete,you didn't mention whether she was hot or not.

VaguelyTagged

She is pretty hot, well i think that she is and she does seem to have boys go after her most of the time and did when we was going out.

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="rockinplanes"]How much did you buy her? These kind of products sure are defective sometimes. Order a new one. They're like 20 bucks used.rockinplanes

[QUOTE="VaguelyTagged"]

the OP is incoplete,you didn't mention whether she was hot or not.

sambo2011

She is pretty hot, well i think that she is and she does seem to have boys go after her most of the time and did when we was going out.

[QUOTE="rockinplanes"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"] :|....Whaaaaaaaaa???-Big_Red-

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="rockinplanes"] I'm just saying that unused ones are mostly illegal and are really hard to find.rockinplanes

[QUOTE="sambo2011"]

[QUOTE="VaguelyTagged"]

the OP is incoplete,you didn't mention whether she was hot or not.

cd_rom

She is pretty hot, well i think that she is and she does seem to have boys go after her most of the time and did when we was going out.

haha i'm not that evil and i don't have any to post. It was a funny thought though

[QUOTE="rockinplanes"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"] I'm almost afraid to ask what you're talking about exactly.-Big_Red-

[QUOTE="sambo2011"]

[QUOTE="VaguelyTagged"]

the OP is incoplete,you didn't mention whether she was hot or not.

cd_rom

She is pretty hot, well i think that she is and she does seem to have boys go after her most of the time and did when we was going out.

[QUOTE="cd_rom"][QUOTE="sambo2011"]

She is pretty hot, well i think that she is and she does seem to have boys go after her most of the time and did when we was going out.

sambo2011

haha i'm not that evil and i don't have any to post. It was a funny thought though

I'm sure you could find some on facebook or something.

She broke your heart, now you must break her. This is only the 1st step

[QUOTE="cd_rom"][QUOTE="sambo2011"]

She is pretty hot, well i think that she is and she does seem to have boys go after her most of the time and did when we was going out.

sambo2011

haha i'm not that evil and i don't have any to post. It was a funny thought though

[QUOTE="sambo2011"]

[QUOTE="cd_rom"] Then do what every ex-boyfriend does and post pictures of her on the internet.Colin1192

haha i'm not that evil and i don't have any to post. It was a funny thought though

I'm sure you could find some on facebook or something.

She broke your heart, now you must break her. This is only the 1st step

its seems like your all urging me to come to the darkside haha i will find one of her if your really interested

[QUOTE="sambo2011"]

[QUOTE="cd_rom"] Then do what every ex-boyfriend does and post pictures of her on the internet.cd_rom

haha i'm not that evil and i don't have any to post. It was a funny thought though

you seem to have this well thought out, it could possibly work also maybe.

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="rockinplanes"] Wait, are we talking about women?rockinplanes

[QUOTE="rockinplanes"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"] I hope so.-Big_Red-

I still have passing thoughts on a daily basis about a girl i have not been with for almost 10 years. I dont wish that i was still with her and i no longer get depressed when i think about it.

I mostly just wonder what shes doing, if she is happy, where she ended up in life and things like that. I also sometimes wonder if she thinks about me as much as i have thought about her over the years.

I could probably find the answers to these questions if i wanted to. I wont though. I am at peace with it finally and i am not sure if sating the faint curiosity i have would be healthy. I would probably just end up regressing to where i was 5 or 6 or 7 years ago when i was heartbroken and convinced that it would never get better and that i would never be happy with anyone but her.

I have never even googled her name or checked for a facebook or myspace page in all those years. I doubt that i could resist contacting her if i knew how so i just dont even look. I want to be able to imagine that she is happy and has found someone better than i was ( i was a total ass btw ).

I'll always have that part of myself that wonders if there could ever be anything between us again and another part that wishes the same. I have come to grips with the fact that those parts of me will never go away.

end rambling.

Edit : I guess what i was trying to say ( if i managed to say anything at all ) is that it does get better. My hands have ADD and keep going long after my useful input has been exhausted.

I just got out of a 1.5 year relationship for similar reasons and to be frank, I don't seem to care. In fact, I'm looking forward to the opened opportunities in the future. Does this make me cold or "bad"? I don't care.

Just think about it this way, you might find something better than her in a lot of aspects. Emotions are a tricky thing to deal with.

I just got out of a 1.5 year relationship for similar reasons and to be frank, I don't seem to care. In fact, I'm looking forward to the opened opportunities in the future. Does this make me cold or "bad"? I don't care.

Just think about it this way, you might find something better than her in a lot of aspects. Emotions are a tricky thing to deal with.

I just got out of a 1.5 year relationship for similar reasons and to be frank, I don't seem to care. In fact, I'm looking forward to the opened opportunities in the future. Does this make me cold or "bad"? I don't care.

Just think about it this way, you might find something better than her in a lot of aspects. Emotions are a tricky thing to deal with.

You say you weren't happy and you think the girl's the reason, that being the case there probably weren't too many good times ahead. Maybe it was for the best breaking it off before things got worse. Hopefully if it is the girl you'll feel better as time goes on.

I Still think about my first crush and that was like 5 years ago.. :( Feels bad manSolid_Tango

You say you weren't happy and you think the girl's the reason, that being the case there probably weren't too many good times ahead. Maybe it was for the best breaking it off before things got worse.

mowcher

I just got out of a 1.5 year relationship for similar reasons and to be frank, I don't seem to care. In fact, I'm looking forward to the opened opportunities in the future. Does this make me cold or "bad"? I don't care.

Just think about it this way, you might find something better than her in a lot of aspects. Emotions are a tricky thing to deal with.

[QUOTE="Solid_Tango"]I Still think about my first crush and that was like 5 years ago.. :( Feels bad man-Big_Red-

Either get back together with her and try to fix that reasons you broke up with her in the first place or you move on.

The holy trinity heals all heartaches:

-Time
-Alcohol
-Strippers