Is it ok to be relaxed all of the time?

i saw someone i have not seen for 5 years yesterday and they changed a lot, the person was just chill and completely laid back at all times for the 6 hours i hung out with him. This got me wondering is that a good way to live, should i be like that??

I feel like i should try to be like that but i feel if you are just never angry or upset ever you could just explode one day. Wat say you gamespot?

Stress is a good thing. It builds character.

Ideally, relaxation is a goal that we all strive for but in terms of building yourself up, getting a good job, a family, and a good house, stress is important.

Just don't over-stress yourself.

That actually happened to me. I used to be the typical react-according-to-situation kind of guy and I was pretty dramatic back in the day and I've changed like literally completely.

I'm calm and relaxed 90% of the time now (there are still things that get to me but instead of lashing out I just feel bothered by it on the inside) and when something that does bother me comes up I usually just breathe it out. It's good to vent sometimes but you realize getting upset and agitated is truthfullly not worth it. I used to live worried most of the time because of different reasons and it was just not healthy, you have to find a place where you feel at peace with yourself and that's where you'll learn to develop as calmer and more intelligent kind of lifestyle.

You can be relaxed and angry or upset at the same time, right?

It's only bad if it has a significant, negative impact on things like productivity, motivation, and your sense of responsibility.

That actually happened to me. I used to be the typical react-according-to-situation kind of guy and I was pretty dramatic back in the day and I've changed like literally completely.

I'm calm and relaxed 90% of the time now (there are still things that get to me but instead of lashing out I just feel bothered by it on the inside) and when something that does bother me comes up I usually just breathe it out. It's good to vent sometimes but you realize getting upset and agitated is truthfullly not worth it. I used to live worried most of the time because of different reasons and it was just not healthy, you have to find a place where you feel at peace with yourself and that's where you'll learn to develop as calmer and more intelligent kind of lifestyle.

It's only bad if it has a significant, negative impact on things like productivity, motivation, and your sense of responsibility.

ghoklebutter

If you haven't seen him in 5 years since high school or something that is normal. Everyone teenage boy is pretty fvckin stupid and nuts.

no i'm laid back almost all the time and hardly take anything serious. and i enjoy it that way

also tc just be yourself

I know someone who changed that way. You can't be like that all the time unless you don't care about how well things go in your life.

life's to short to be serous,sit back relax and enjoy the ride.

You can't just sit down and relax all the time. there are lots of work to do you know.. lots of things need to be done around the house.

Most people that really know me, know that I'm always relaxed, cool, and barely ever sad, worried or stressed. That doesn't mean I'm not always sad, worried or stressed. Those same people that really know me, know when I feel like that.

Being like that isn't a problem, but I think being like that would make people take you for granted at times.

I get ragged on all the time for being totally relaxed. I have been accused of not caring, not having passion for anything and very very often have I been accused of being depressed simply because it is nigh on impossible to get me excited about anything.

There are very few things In life that I have control over outside of my daily work, sleep, bills, more work routine. I could fret the details and worry or get anxious about things but it won't help so why bother?

I actually find it nearly impossible to "worry" about things like normal ( by social standards ) people do. I genuinely don't understand that mechanism or how it works.

Life is pretty much "meh" for me but not in a negative way. I just don't think about much past the point where I manage to keep myself relatively happy and entertained one day at a time.

I get ragged on all the time for being totally relaxed. I have been accused of not caring, not having passion for anything and very very often have I been accused of being depressed simply because it is nigh on impossible to get me excited about anything.

There are very few things In life that I have control over outside of my daily work, sleep, bills, more work routine. I could fret the details and worry or get anxious about things but it won't help so why bother?

I actually find it nearly impossible to "worry" about things like normal ( by social standards ) people do. I genuinely don't understand that mechanism or how it works.

Life is pretty much "meh" for me but not in a negative way. I just don't think about much past the point where I manage to keep myself relatively happy and entertained one day at a time.

Stress is a good thing. It builds character.

leviathan91

He's probably trying very hard to increase his lifespan.

I'm relaxed at least 99% of the time. I don't like getting stressed as it doesn't accomplish anything so even when it's busy I try and keep relaxed and just do what ever it is I'm doing.

dat weedlloveLamp

Stress is a good thing. It builds character.

Ideally, relaxation is a goal that we all strive for but in terms of building yourself up, getting a good job, a family, and a good house, stress is important.

Just don't over-stress yourself.

leviathan91

i saw someone i have not seen for 5 years yesterday and they changed a lot, the person was just chill and completely laid back at all times for the 6 hours i hung out with him. This got me wondering is that a good way to live, should i be like that??

I feel like i should try to be like that but i feel if you are just never angry or upset ever you could just explode one day. Wat say you gamespot?

FPSunionOWNS

stress is a good source of motivation, unless it prevents your progress.

I get ragged on all the time for being totally relaxed. I have been accused of not caring, not having passion for anything and very very often have I been accused of being depressed simply because it is nigh on impossible to get me excited about anything.

There are very few things In life that I have control over outside of my daily work, sleep, bills, more work routine. I could fret the details and worry or get anxious about things but it won't help so why bother?

I actually find it nearly impossible to "worry" about things like normal ( by social standards ) people do. I genuinely don't understand that mechanism or how it works.

Life is pretty much "meh" for me but not in a negative way. I just don't think about much past the point where I manage to keep myself relatively happy and entertained one day at a time.

Absolutely not. In fact most people like to be around exhuberant, boisterous, loud, rambunctious people and tend to stay away from the reserved quiet and subtle ones. They especially love the guy who gets the drunkest first at a party and asks all the ladies to dance. They love that guy.

Absolutely not. In fact most people like to be around exhuberant, boisterous, loud, rambunctious people and tend to stay away from the reserved quiet and subtle ones. They especially love the guy who gets the drunkest first at a party and asks all the ladies to dance. They love that guy.

lo_Pine

i saw someone i have not seen for 5 years yesterday and they changed a lot, the person was just chill and completely laid back at all times for the 6 hours i hung out with him. This got me wondering is that a good way to live, should i be like that??

I feel like i should try to be like that but i feel if you are just never angry or upset ever you could just explode one day. Wat say you gamespot?

FPSunionOWNS

[QUOTE="lo_Pine"]

Absolutely not. In fact most people like to be around exhuberant, boisterous, loud, rambunctious people and tend to stay away from the reserved quiet and subtle ones. They especially love the guy who gets the drunkest first at a party and asks all the ladies to dance. They love that guy.

chaoscougar1