Is it ok to have sex with other poeple while you are in a relationship?

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#1 BenedictArnold7
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We all have needs that our partners sometimes cannot meet. I think if you requrie more sex than your partner is giving you... it should be acceptable to sleep with other men/women granted you don't leave your partner for said men/women. I think having multiple sex partners can help you build a stronger and healthier relationship with the person you are dating.

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#2 Chow_Mein_Kampf
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Well, if you and your partner(s) don't mind, then have at it......................

Most people would frown upon it, though...................

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#3 Pirate700
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This is a joke topic at its worst. Congrats.

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#4 BenedictArnold7
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This is a joke topic at its worst. Congrats.

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This is not a joke. It is a serious matter that requires consideration.
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#5 MonsieurX
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Nope.
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#6 konvikt_17
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nothing builds a strong relationship better than sleeping around with other women.

SMH

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#7 Nengo_Flow
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We all have needs that our partners sometimes cannot meet. I think if you requrie more sex than your partner is giving you... it should be acceptable to sleep with other men/women granted you don't leave your partner for said men/women. I think having multiple sex partners can help you build a stronger and healthier relationship with the person you are dating.

BenedictArnold7

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#8 Shottayouth13-
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Yeahhh, that doesn't go down too well.
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#9 Omni-Wrath
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Ask your partner, not us. Why would we care? It'll matter to your partner, not us.

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#10 deactivated-5b1e62582e305
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what a dumbass

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#11 Engrish_Major
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Why are you asking us?
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#12 helwa1988
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We all have needs that our partners sometimes cannot meet. I think if you requrie more sex than your partner is giving you... it should be acceptable to sleep with other men/women granted you don't leave your partner for said men/women. I think having multiple sex partners can help you build a stronger and healthier relationship with the person you are dating.

BenedictArnold7
dude if your girlfriend doesn't mind then it would be acceptable. but most people dont want their spouse having sex with other people. even men like you who want sleep with other women wouldn't like their woman sleeping with a bunch of dudes. you would get jealous eventually especially if she starts calling the other guy's name out during intimacy.
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#13 LZ71
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If she hasn't explicitly told you not to do it, then that means it's completely fine.

That's how relationships work, right?

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#14 michael_1234576
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other people no, plants yes.

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#15 coolbeans90
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If she hasn't explicitly told you not to do it, then that means it's completely fine.

That's how relationships work, right?

LZ71

I just wanted to stick the tip in.

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#16 Namgis
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Unless it's been agreed upon by both parties, open relationship, then no. But go right ahead and tell her your thoughts on the matter and see how that goes. I'm sure it'll be fine. After all, aren't we all a little open to STIs?

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#17 rilpas
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unless you have an agreement: no, its no ok as for having an agreement there are usually two paths to that: either you both agree that you can sleep around or she's bi
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#18 deactivated-5cd08b1605da1
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I would love to have sex with other people but I certainly wouldnt want my gf to sleep with other men, so I wont do it

Human hypocrisy at its finest

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#19 Blue-Sky
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OT virgins.

Awww, so cute.

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#20 metroidfood
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Figures that someone unfaithful would choose the screenname Benedict Arnold.

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#21 Zeviander
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Self-stimulation should be sufficient. If there is an agreement of fidelity between partners, it would be extremely harmful to violate it. Asking the partner for permission to sleep around is fine, but do not go behind their back. No amount of "needs" could supersede a desire to honor such an agreement.
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#22 Lucky_Krystal
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Open relationships?

No thank you.

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#23 LJS9502_basic
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No. Most people want a commitment. Unless you can find someone willing to have an open relationship....and they generally don't last very long.....you might as well stay single and unattached.
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#24 dagreenfish
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If your partner says it's ok, then it is. If not, then no.
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#25 Philokalia
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Co habitation is bad enough.

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#26 mrbojangles25
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if your significant other is not providing you with the level of physical love you desire, and refuses to do so, then yes, it is ok to have sex with other people.

To be honest, though, you should have the balls to break up with them first. In the end, it is cheating, whether or not it is justified, and that is emotionally harmful. But so are blue balls.

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#27 SaltyMeatballs
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No, but do it anyway :D
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#28 XilePrincess
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Not if you're in a monogamous relationship, where the expectation is that you are only having sex with each other. If your partner has a different level of sex drive than you, knock one out by yourself more often. OP sounds like a 15 year old boy who has never had a real relationship before.
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#29 TrainerCeleste
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If you require more than your partner is giving you be a man and break up with her don't be a puss whose like oh well blah blah blah i cheated blah blah blah. I hate those who cheat, if you're not faithful and honest in your relationship honestly you have nothing. If you're a woman Be a woman and break up with him I don't care what gender you are, what your situation is. Be faithful or tell them it won't work out.

Why should I care? I have 5 sister and scumbag guys they brought home with them all cheated on them, and now I have no respect for ANY person who cheats on the signifigant other. It's like they can't grow up or haven't evolved passed the screw anything with bewbs phase.

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#30 coolbeans90
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Do it, OP, and let us know how it goes.

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#31 THE_DRUGGIE
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Only if they're the same gender as you.

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#32 coolbeans90
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Only if they're the same gender as you.

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I think someone called OP a mean word.

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#33 TrainerCeleste
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

This is a joke topic at its worst. Congrats.

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This is not a joke. It is a serious matter that requires consideration.

There is no consideration, if you do it you're on a one way track to forever alone ville, or you can have the open relationship that won't really last. Up to you but if you cheat expect everyone to know because it travels fast. Then who will want to date someone who is known to cheat? :P
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#34 TrainerCeleste
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Only if they're the same gender as you.

THE_DRUGGIE
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#35 tagyhag
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If your other partner is ok with it then go for it. If they're not then break up with them and then go for it. No reason to go behind their backs.
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#37 TrainerCeleste
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[QUOTE="tagyhag"]If your other partner is ok with it then go for it. If they're not then break up with them and then go for it. No reason to go behind their backs.[deleted]
What if your partner is not only okay with it but wants to be a part of it?

OP wouldn't be pussing out over telling his girlfriend if she was willing to do things like this :P
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#38 THE_DRUGGIE
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[QUOTE="THE_DRUGGIE"]

Only if they're the same gender as you.

coolbeans90

I think someone called OP a mean word.

Gender?

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#39 SPYDER0416
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

This is a joke topic at its worst. Congrats.

BenedictArnold7

This is not a joke. It is a serious matter that requires consideration.

Must be why you are talking about it on the off topic section of a videogame forum.

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#40 Chemistian
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This rarely (read: never) works in a serious relationship. Nothing good can come out of it. Everyone has different needs. You should apply the same standard to other needs, and ask yourself whether infidelity would fit in those circumstances. For instance, you stated that you may have a stronger sex drive than your partner, therefore you feel the need to sleep around. What if your partner has stronger emotional needs? Are you ok with him or her finding those needs elsewhere? There are countless other topics that come up in a serious relationship. Strong relationships require sacrifice.
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#41 SilentFireX
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No. Go back under your bridge.
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#42 soulless4now
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If you possibly want to catch the krusty, burns, skinner or itchy & scratchy, then go for it.

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#43 -Renegade
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If you don't mind spreading STDs to your partner and other people sure.
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#45 kalparun
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If your girl doesn't ride you proper it ain't going to be a healthy relationship
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#46 FMAB_GTO
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NO!
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#47 VaguelyTagged
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...and they generally don't last very long...LJS9502_basic
it's not necessarily a bad thing. quality > quantity

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#48 indzman
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How would you feel to be cheated on? so no.

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#49 GazaAli
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According to GreekGameManiac it is progressive and intelligent to have multiple sex partners while in a relationship. It all comes down to who you want to take relationship's advice from.
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#50 MannyDelgado
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What is this 'HURR IF YOUR PARTNER ISN'T SATISFYING YOU THEN BREAK UP WITH THEM' sh*t? It makes about as much sense as responding to people holding conversations with people outside the relationship with 'IF YOUR PARTNER ISN'T ABLE TO CONVERSATIONALLY SATISFY YOU THEN YOU MAY AS WELL BREAK UP NOW'