Is it okay to be 16 years old and never had a girlfriend?

Or else I'm problematic.... :?

Yea I know it's the 1,000,000st thread about girls here.

Could the username "Nude_Dude" pick up girls? If not, I can't help you...

... Though I don't think I could help you to begin with. I'm a seemingly-forever-single 15-year-old.

Or else I'm problematic.... :?

Yea I know it's the 1,000,000st thread about girls here.

Nude_Dude

Don't worry about it. I'm 30 and I've never had a girlfriend. And I still seem to get by okay, so I don't see a problem.

I realize how many people are coming in and saying this stuff. Now we're a group of singles talking about it. I feel emo. :(WeAreToast

Don't worry about it. You don't have to have a gf to be cool or socially acceptable. As you get into your late teens/early twenties, it's almost the opposite. What I mean is that those with a gf face more problems than those without and they're often the ones made fun of because of the ridiculous crap they have to put up with.

Or else I'm problematic.... :?

Yea I know it's the 1,000,000st thread about girls here.

Nude_Dude

Not a problem. You are not even halfway through your life. It's still like, 40 to 70 years? A lot can happen.

Dude, you're only 16, it's all good. I had my first girlfriend when I was 18, and even then we broke up after 6 months (I still blame it on her, lol). I'm 20 now, and I've been seeing this girl for 6 weeks now, and I'm doing much better with this relationship.

Don't worry, when I was 16 I used to be concerned that I was single and everything too, but wait for college man. That's where all the really hot chicks are at. Just start working out big time, practice your convo skills, and work on getting a stylish haircut (if you don't have one already), and learn about trendy fashions. If you have any lady friends (the not girlfriend types) just ask them for some advice and help, and believe it or not, they are really glad to help out guys who try to "better" ourselves.

When you start college, then "BAM!" you make an amazing first impression. Since nobody knows you, that first impression is all they've got of you. Just don't rub off as being phony later on because then it will probably just backfire, lol. I'm sure many of us have read articles about how important first impressions are when forming relationships. Just search on google if you haven't seen one yet. Yeah, go get 'em tiger!

Dude, you're only 16, it's all good. I had my first girlfriend when I was 18, and even then we broke up after 6 months (I still blame it on her, lol). I'm 20 now, and I've been seeing this girl for 6 weeks now, and I'm doing much better with this relationship.

Don't worry, when I was 16 I used to be concerned that I was single and everything too, but wait for college man. That's where all the really hot chicks are at. Just start working out big time, practice your convo skills, and work on getting a stylish haircut (if you don't have one already), and learn about trendy fashions. If you have any lady friends (the not girlfriend types) just ask them for some advice and help, and believe it or not, they are really glad to help out guys who try to "better" ourselves.

When you start college, then "BAM!" you make an amazing first impression. Since nobody knows you, that first impression is all they've got of you. Just don't rub off as being phony later on because then it will probably just backfire, lol. I'm sure many of us have read articles about how important first impressions are when forming relationships. Just search on google if you haven't seen one yet. Yeah, go get 'em tiger!

Jersey_Guy

now give me "RAWWWRRR" :P

Dude, you're only 16, it's all good. I had my first girlfriend when I was 18, and even then we broke up after 6 months (I still blame it on her, lol). I'm 20 now, and I've been seeing this girl for 6 weeks now, and I'm doing much better with this relationship.

Don't worry, when I was 16 I used to be concerned that I was single and everything too, but wait for college man. That's where all the really hot chicks are at. Just start working out big time, practice your convo skills, and work on getting a stylish haircut (if you don't have one already), and learn about trendy fashions. If you have any lady friends (the not girlfriend types) just ask them for some advice and help, and believe it or not, they are really glad to help out guys who try to "better" ourselves.

When you start college, then "BAM!" you make an amazing first impression. Since nobody knows you, that first impression is all they've got of you. Just don't rub off as being phony later on because then it will probably just backfire, lol. I'm sure many of us have read articles about how important first impressions are when forming relationships. Just search on google if you haven't seen one yet. Yeah, go get 'em tiger!

Jersey_Guy

anyway thanks.

[QUOTE="Nude_Dude"]

Or else I'm problematic.... :?

Yea I know it's the 1,000,000st thread about girls here.

donx48

Not a problem. You are not even halfway through your life. It's still like, 40 to 70 years? A lot can happen.

I had a girlfriend once when I was 12..... I'm 14 and a half now so it's all good for me..

Ohh man don't woory about it.....

Oh yeah, very wrong, because every other guy is at that age clearly a stud...or not. You'd be amazed how socially inadequette ppl. you think are really sociable feel once you get to talk to them on their own (just lure them onto MSN...that sounded wrong).

At 16 your whole life is based on trying to find a stable medium between what you think everyone else is doing, later you won't care as much, and even better, no one else will either.

I'm 19, only had 1 and a half girlfriends. I say half because she was a nympho who didn't consider me more than a penis Sounds awesome but it was bad for me. Last girlfriend I expected too much from, and showed me how conventional thoughts on love aren't true.

I don't think I'm going to have another girlfriend until I start college and thats still sort of a long shot. You choose your course of study in school and you can find friends who have more in common with you. Partying is a good way to meet girls. Alcohol makes it easy to meet a lot of them.

Don't date because other people do it. Date for your own reasons, go at your own pace. If you're a virgin until you're 25, so be it, its all good. Anything that matters in a relationship is between you and the other person, so there's no reason to compare yourself to others.

I'm 19, only had 1 and a half girlfriends. I say half because she was a nympho who didn't consider me more than a penis Sounds awesome but it was bad for me. Last girlfriend I expected too much from, and showed me how conventional thoughts on love aren't true.

I don't think I'm going to have another girlfriend until I start college and thats still sort of a long shot. You choose your course of study in school and you can find friends who have more in common with you. Partying is a good way to meet girls. Alcohol makes it easy to meet a lot of them.

Don't date because other people do it. Date for your own reasons, go at your own pace. If you're a virgin until you're 25, so be it, its all good. Anything that matters in a relationship is between you and the other person, so there's no reason to compare yourself to others.

jealentus

That's a very interesting point, and it's odd given the nature of (most) relationships that people overlook something so obvious.

hah, im 17 and i havent, dont worry about it at all3DayFinisher

hah, im 17 and i havent, dont worry about it at all3DayFinisher

Me too :?

Don't worry about it. You don't have to have a gf to be cool or socially acceptable. As you get into your late teens/early twenties, it's almost the opposite. What I mean is that those with a gf face more problems than those without and they're often the ones made fun of because of the ridiculous crap they have to put up with.

jt222_us

Yes. Completely agree. My roommate last year was in a three year relationship and he had to put up with so much crap that I would not have stood for. Whenever she got sick, she made him come in and sleep in her bed so that she would feel better. And then he would get sick. And then when he did work in our room, I got sick. Which really angered me. And he just generally had to do so many things for her that I wouldn't do...

Gamespot is the place for you, a third of people here have the same problem, including me.aaaaarrrrggggg

Yeah, me too. And I'm twenty. It's not really that big of a deal. I've seen so many relationships break up that I've never really been interested in going through the process.

I'm 17, and I've only had one girlfriend....we're still going out.

Anyways, don't worry about it. If there's a girl you like, just tell em that...really if i hadn't of mad ethat mistake when i was 2 or 3 years younger, it would have helped A LOT. You really only do live once....

[QUOTE="aaaaarrrrggggg"]Gamespot is the place for you, a third of people here have the same problem, including me.muthsera666

Yeah, me too. And I'm twenty. It's not really that big of a deal. I've seen so many relationships break up that I've never really been interested in going through the process.

I know what you mean, i don't think i''m in a big rush either :P

im 15 and have had two gf's, one was less then a month but one relationship lasted almost 6. but dont worry tons of my friends and people i know have never had a gf and dont really want one so its completly normal.

I just turned 16 as well, I I've never had any gfs. Its just that.........all teenage relationships break up.....plus I'm from Egypt (raise in the US though) and there is no such thing as a gf. Basically you like a girl, engage her, THEN learn about her. If the couple doesn't think it will work, they break up the marriage. Obviously this sounds crazy, because we are western, even me (I moved here when I was 1 years old). Back to the point, 99.9% of teenage relationships don't work. So don't worry, your completely normal.