I would say it is infatuation if you like them just because of what you see, you have to talk to the person a bit to truly love them. Well, at least I think so.
I do believe in love at first sight if thats what you mean yes, although I do not feel that it is a common thing and if you simply wait for it you will miss out on a lot in life.
You've never spoken to them, so you've no idea whether you like them as a person.
I'd say you are attracted to the person, rather than "feel love" for them.
Link334
What about someone's whose mother or father died before they could speak? They probably will still learn the language, if they are mute then they probably know sign language. If you know sign language you could still converse with them, just by the use of hands.
Unless they're a mime, or you're both mutes, no. If you've never spoken, you've likely never met. If you've never met, it's not love. It's love for the ideal you made up in your head.
I don't think so. You can't fully know someone without communicating and bonding with them in the flesh. Not to say that you can't be close or anything though, just not so much beyond that.
That depends upon your definition of love. If you equate love to lust then yes, you can indeed "love" someone you have never spoken with. If you equate love to being willing to not only die for another person but be willing to give your very life to the individual putting all of your dreams and passions on the line even if you receive no love in return, you tell me.
You've never spoken to them, so you've no idea whether you like them as a person.
I'd say you are attracted to the person, rather than "feel love" for them.
Pika-Chama
What about someone's whose mother or father died before they could speak? They probably will still learn the language, if they are mute then they probably know sign language. If you know sign language you could still converse with them, just by the use of hands.
nope, its called infatuation..which is one of the reasons why so many couples divorce nowadays... infatuation cannot be considered "real love" in infatuation, you have a huge desire to have that person...but once you have him/her all that desire goes away and you cant see the moment where you will not be cheating on him/her or when will you finish the relationship
knowing a person isn't significant. to how one feels you see that time and time again with hate so it must be true with loveEMOEVOLUTION
like I said...its not true...INFATUATION...google it
oh and isnt it odd? most of the times when you "hate" someone you dont even know and you actually go talk to them and know them...you will realize that they are cool people and that you dont really hate them, so no its true with hate either...
I can say that I hate the jonas brothers...but who knows if I ever find them in a cafe and we have a drink and a chat I might as well like them
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Dylan_11
never. you've only seen them. Maybe, watched them a little.So we are a stalker who has fallen in "love" with someone?
I would say that is nowhere near love.
I don't think so. People watch other people all the time. Maybe you develop feelings for those people maybe you don't stalking means you actively pursue them when it's clear you're not wanted. IF you happen to see this person in your daily routine, and take notice of them. It's harmless.
[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="EMOEVOLUTION"]knowing a person isn't significant. to how one feels you see that time and time again with hate so it must be true with love like I said...its not true...INFATUATION...google it this isn't about words. this is about feelings, what you call those feelings is only significant to other people who want to establish objective truths based on word association, unfortunately, you can't do that thats why they prefer to use math for science when possible.
[QUOTE="EMOEVOLUTION"] never. you've only seen them. Maybe, watched them a little.EMOEVOLUTION
So we are a stalker who has fallen in "love" with someone?
I would say that is nowhere near love.
I don't think so. People watch other people all the time. Maybe you develop feelings for those people maybe you don't stalking means you actively pursue them when it's clear you're not wanted. IF you happen to see this person in your daily routine, and take notice of them. It's harmless.You are developing feeling with someone you don't even know. Someone who doesn't even know you. An infatuation like that will never be love.
[QUOTE="EMOEVOLUTION"][QUOTE="Dylan_11"]So we are a stalker who has fallen in "love" with someone?
I would say that is nowhere near love.
Dylan_11
I don't think so. People watch other people all the time. Maybe you develop feelings for those people maybe you don't stalking means you actively pursue them when it's clear you're not wanted. IF you happen to see this person in your daily routine, and take notice of them. It's harmless.You are developing feeling with someone you don't even know. Someone who doesn't even know you. An infatuation like that will never be love. Looking in a random strangers window =?..
[QUOTE="EMOEVOLUTION"][QUOTE="Dylan_11"]So we are a stalker who has fallen in "love" with someone?
I would say that is nowhere near love.
Dylan_11
I don't think so. People watch other people all the time. Maybe you develop feelings for those people maybe you don't stalking means you actively pursue them when it's clear you're not wanted. IF you happen to see this person in your daily routine, and take notice of them. It's harmless.You are developing feeling with someone you don't even know. Someone who doesn't even know you. An infatuation like that will never be love. You're mistaken. Real love to me, doesn't need to know what that person is thinking to validate their existence. If you can see them and feel for them, they are very much real, and important. If one can hate without knowing another one can love without knowing another. The knowing isn't important.
[QUOTE="EMOEVOLUTION"][QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="EMOEVOLUTION"]knowing a person isn't significant. to how one feels you see that time and time again with hate so it must be true with love like I said...its not true...INFATUATION...google it this isn't about words. this is about feelings, what you call those feelings is only significant to other people who want to establish objective truths based on word association, unfortunately, you can't do that thats why they prefer to use math for science when possible. you should just google what I said...the feelings of love we get we get them because the brain produces chemial substances that make us feel in love with the person...with infatuation the secretion of those chemical substances is huge so you feel like "OMG I LOVE THAT GIRL SO MUCH IF SHE WOULD BE MY GIRLFRIEND I WILL NEVER STOP LOVING HER AND IM GONNA MARRY HER AND WE WILL BE HAPPY FOREVER!" even though you have not talked to the girl ever...because the chemical substances your brain is producing are driving you crazy for the girl...once you get to talk to her, if she turns out to be a complete idiot then you will lose the feeling almost instantly...and it will also happen if you actually enter in a relationship with her...you will drop the huge "love" you had for her in a second
[QUOTE="Dylan_11"][QUOTE="EMOEVOLUTION"] I don't think so. People watch other people all the time. Maybe you develop feelings for those people maybe you don't stalking means you actively pursue them when it's clear you're not wanted. IF you happen to see this person in your daily routine, and take notice of them. It's harmless.EMOEVOLUTION
You are developing feeling with someone you don't even know. Someone who doesn't even know you. An infatuation like that will never be love. You're mistaken. Real love to me, doesn't need to know what that person is thinking to validate their existence. If you can see them and feel for them, they are very much real, and important. If one can hate without knowing another one can love without knowing another. The knowing isn't important. like I said: most of the people that you hate without knowing actually turn out to be great guys once you get to know them...and your hate towards them dissapears instantly and you say "why did I even hated this guy?" therefore you never actually hated. and you never actually loved without ever talking to the person.
[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="EMOEVOLUTION"][QUOTE="lightleggy"] like I said...its not true...INFATUATION...google it this isn't about words. this is about feelings, what you call those feelings is only significant to other people who want to establish objective truths based on word association, unfortunately, you can't do that thats why they prefer to use math for science when possible. you should just google what I said...the feelings of love we get we get them because the brain produces chemial substances that make us feel in love with the person...with infatuation the secretion of those chemical substances is huge so you feel like "OMG I LOVE THAT GIRL SO MUCH IF SHE WOULD BE MY GIRLFRIEND I WILL NEVER STOP LOVING HER AND IM GONNA MARRY HER AND WE WILL BE HAPPY FOREVER!" even though you have not talked to the girl ever...because the chemical substances your brain is producing are driving you crazy for the girl...once you get to talk to her, if she turns out to be a complete idiot then you will lose the feeling almost instantly...and it will also happen if you actually enter in a relationship with her...you will drop the huge "love" you had for her in a second I don't need to Google words I'm familiar with. I established one concept, a subjective concept. You are introducing another, attempting to create an objective one. I'm saying it's not significant.
[QUOTE="Dylan_11"]You are developing feeling with someone you don't even know. Someone who doesn't even know you. An infatuation like that will never be love.lightleggy
You're mistaken. Real love to me, doesn't need to know what that person is thinking to validate their existence. If you can see them and feel for them, they are very much real, and important. If one can hate without knowing another one can love without knowing another. The knowing isn't important. like I said: most of the people that you hate without knowing actually turn out to be great guys once you get to know them...and your hate towards them dissapears instantly and you say "why did I even hated this guy?" therefore you never actually hated. and you never actually loved without ever talking to the person. If you can take your personal expirence as credit to being truth then I can do the same and from personal experience, knowing what somebody has to say, plays little roll in my capacity to feel for them.
Why do people seem to think you need to know someone before you can "love" them? You can have the same feelings for a stranger as you do for someone who you've known all your life.
[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="EMOEVOLUTION"] You're mistaken. Real love to me, doesn't need to know what that person is thinking to validate their existence. If you can see them and feel for them, they are very much real, and important. If one can hate without knowing another one can love without knowing another. The knowing isn't important.
EMOEVOLUTION
like I said: most of the people that you hate without knowing actually turn out to be great guys once you get to know them...and your hate towards them dissapears instantly and you say "why did I even hated this guy?" therefore you never actually hated. and you never actually loved without ever talking to the person. If you can take your personal expirence as credit to being truth then I can do the same and from personal experience, knowing what somebody has to say, plays little roll in my capacity to feel for them.
then what is the point of this thread? also im not saying that real love cant be born out of infatuation...but that takes time...like you say "that girl who is a complete stranger attracts me...im gonna try to talk to her so that I can know her to see if its worth it" but never like "I dont care if I dont know her I LOVE HER I DONT EVEN NEED TO TALK TO HER!!!!" no that its not real lvoe
Why do people seem to think you need to know someone before you can "love" them? You can have the same feelings for a stranger as you do for someone who you've known all your life.PhotinusPyralis
not the same feelings...the real feelings dont dissapear 3 minutes after you stablished a relationship with the person
[QUOTE="EMOEVOLUTION"][QUOTE="lightleggy"] like I said: most of the people that you hate without knowing actually turn out to be great guys once you get to know them...and your hate towards them dissapears instantly and you say "why did I even hated this guy?" therefore you never actually hated. and you never actually loved without ever talking to the person.lightleggy
If you can take your personal expirence as credit to being truth then I can do the same and from personal experience, knowing what somebody has to say, plays little roll in my capacity to feel for them.
then what is the point of this thread? also im not saying that real love cant be born out of infatuation...but that takes time...like you say "that girl who is a complete stranger attracts me...im gonna try to talk to her so that I can know her to see if its worth it" but never like "I dont care if I dont know her I LOVE HER I DONT EVEN NEED TO TALK TO HER!!!!" no that its not real lvoe
I want to see what other people have to say about it, and then make comments on it, and then they can make comments on what I say if it so appeals to them. That is what I'm doing. What are you doing? Why do you have to talk to somebody to love them? Why do you have to be with somebody to love them? You don't. I don't need to be with somebody to love them. That's the problem most people have. They covet others. They want to posses them. I lived this way, I know it doesn't work. It only creates suffering.
[QUOTE="PhotinusPyralis"]Why do people seem to think you need to know someone before you can "love" them? You can have the same feelings for a stranger as you do for someone who you've known all your life.lightleggy
not the same feelings...the real feelings dont dissapear 3 minutes after you stablished a relationship with the person can you establish that these feelings disappear for me and others who claim you can feel love without ever having to talk to somebody? I know that you can't do this. But that's what you're fighting.
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xaos
never. you've only seen them. Maybe, watched them a little. And now we are in the creepysphere 8) You like it, search yourself, you know this to be true.
[QUOTE="EMOEVOLUTION"] If you can take your personal expirence as credit to being truth then I can do the same and from personal experience, knowing what somebody has to say, plays little roll in my capacity to feel for them.EMOEVOLUTION
then what is the point of this thread? also im not saying that real love cant be born out of infatuation...but that takes time...like you say "that girl who is a complete stranger attracts me...im gonna try to talk to her so that I can know her to see if its worth it" but never like "I dont care if I dont know her I LOVE HER I DONT EVEN NEED TO TALK TO HER!!!!" no that its not real lvoe
I want to see what other people have to say about it, and then make comments on it, and then they can make comments on what I say if it so appeals to them. That is what I'm doing. What are you doing? Why do you have to talk to somebody to love them? Why do you have to be with somebody to love them? You don't. I don't need to be with somebody to love them. That's the problem most people have. They covet others. They want to posses them. I lived this way, I know it doesn't work. It only creates suffering. if you think you can love someone without knowing them and you are actually willing to establish a relationship like that then I can say this things: the relationship will fail badly in a very short time...not precisely a day or a week but in a short time. you are a jerk (not you, im talking hypotetically about someone who thinks it) who only cares about physical appearence, and that is more than enough reason to say ITS NOT REAL LOVE, you might think it is BUT ITS NOT. also a relationship, and real love is nothing about "possesing" others, its about forming a bond, becoming 1 with the other...that is what real love is, when "I" and "you" becomes "we" you can think you are feeling love but you are not, its not real love...why can I say this if its you the one who is feeling and not me? simple: because that is how your brain works and you cant fight against that...its like you say "BULLETS DONT AFFECT ME!! IM INMUNE TO BULLETS!!!" and then I tell you "no you are not...you are as vulnerable as any other human..:" and you answer back "NO!! I AM INVULNERABLE YOU CANT SAY IT HOW DO YOU KNOW? ITS NOT YOU THE ONE WHO IS FEELING!!!!" yeah you might say that you are inmune to bullets and convince yourself that you are...but once I take a gun and shoot you you will realize it was foolish of you to think you were inmune to bullets... so once your "love" for that stranger suddenly comes to an end, you will say to yourself "I guess that I was not actually in love..." just as someone who thought that he was inmune to bullets said "I guess I was not inmune to them..."
[QUOTE="EMOEVOLUTION"][QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="EMOEVOLUTION"] never. you've only seen them. Maybe, watched them a little. And now we are in the creepysphere so are you going to answer the question? My answer is a definitive "no"; what I consider love requires quite a bit more than seeing what a person looks like. "Love at first sight" that I don't believe exists outside of cliched movies.
then what is the point of this thread? also im not saying that real love cant be born out of infatuation...but that takes time...like you say "that girl who is a complete stranger attracts me...im gonna try to talk to her so that I can know her to see if its worth it" but never like "I dont care if I dont know her I LOVE HER I DONT EVEN NEED TO TALK TO HER!!!!" no that its not real lvoe
lightleggy
I want to see what other people have to say about it, and then make comments on it, and then they can make comments on what I say if it so appeals to them. That is what I'm doing. What are you doing? Why do you have to talk to somebody to love them? Why do you have to be with somebody to love them? You don't. I don't need to be with somebody to love them. That's the problem most people have. They covet others. They want to posses them. I lived this way, I know it doesn't work. It only creates suffering. if you think you can love someone without knowing them and you are actually willing to establish a relationship like that then I can say this things: the relationship will fail badly in a very short time...not precisely a day or a week but in a short time. you are a jerk (not you, im talking hypotetically about someone who thinks it) who only cares about physical appearence, and that is more than enough reason to say ITS NOT REAL LOVE, you might think it is BUT ITS NOT. also a relationship, and real love is nothing about "possesing" others, its about forming a bond, becoming 1 with the other...that is what real love is, when "I" and "you" becomes "we" you can think you are feeling love but you are not, its not real love...why can I say this if its you the one who is feeling and not me? simple: because that is how your brain works and you cant fight against that...its like you say "BULLETS DONT AFFECT ME!! IM INMUNE TO BULLETS!!!" and then I tell you "no you are not...you are as vulnerable as any other human..:" and you answer back "NO!! I AM INVULNERABLE YOU CANT SAY IT HOW DO YOU KNOW? ITS NOT YOU THE ONE WHO IS FEELING!!!!" yeah you might say that you are inmune to bullets and convince yourself that you are...but once I take a gun and shoot you you will realize it was foolish of you to think you were inmune to bullets... so once your "love" for that stranger suddenly comes to an end, you will say to yourself "I guess that I was not actually in love..." just as someone who thought that he was inmune to bullets said "I guess I was not inmune to them..." I didn't read everything you wrote. It seemed unnecessary after the first few sentences. who said anything about establishing a relationship? I don't see why that's a necessity to feelings of love.
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