is it true women like big guys?

so me and a friend were talking yesterday about girls (what else)

and he says "dude your never gunna get a girl"

and i asked him why and he said because your big man

so i said like what muscle or fat? and of course he said fat (although i do have muscle)

even though i am about 20 pounds overweight its not entirely my fault its partly

because of my genes

and like i said its not all fat

and for proof i have benchpressd 300 pounds ( i could only do 2 though)

and the point is do some if not all women like bigger guys?

The extra flab provides warmth for the girl when your sleeping with her, whats not to love about that?

but seriously id say people have different prefrences

Girls prefer taller and lean muscular guys first.. thin but muscular (Think Brad Pitt in Fight Club), then big guys with muscles.. (Think John Cena.. only not that big), then normal shape guys, then skinny guys, then fat guys.

What is your height and weight?

Women like men who have a normal sized penis a job, a car, and men who are emotional. Diablo112688

That's what you would think.. but it's dead wrong.

so me and a friend were talking yesterday about girls (what else)

and he says "dude your never gunna get a girl"

and i asked him why and he said because your big man

so i said like what muscle or fat? and of course he said fat (although i do have muscle)

even though i am about 20 pounds overweight its not entirely my fault its partly

because of my genes

and like i said its not all fat

and for proof i have benchpressd 300 pounds ( i could only do 2 though)

and the point is do some if not all women like bigger guys?

ishoturface

No offense, but you sound like a fat guy, especially when you had to ask "muscle or fat?" If it was muscle, you would know it. And when you said (althought I do have muscle)... like you have to explain that you are not completely just a fat guy. And when you said EVEN THOUGH I AM ABOUT 20 POUNDS OVERWIEHGT. And when you are shifting blame by saying "it's not entirely my fault".... it's uhh, "because of my genes".

[QUOTE="ishoturface"]

so me and a friend were talking yesterday about girls (what else)

and he says "dude your never gunna get a girl"

and i asked him why and he said because your big man

so i said like what muscle or fat? and of course he said fat (although i do have muscle)

even though i am about 20 pounds overweight its not entirely my fault its partly

because of my genes

and like i said its not all fat

and for proof i have benchpressd 300 pounds ( i could only do 2 though)

and the point is do some if not all women like bigger guys?

The_Mac_Daddy

No offense, but you sound like a fat guy, especially when you had to ask "muscle or fat?" If it was muscle, you would know it. And when you said (althought I do have muscle)... like you have to explain that you are not completely just a fat guy. And when you said EVEN THOUGH I AM ABOUT 20 POUNDS OVERWIEHGT. And when you are shifting blame by saying "it's not entirely my fault".... it's uhh, "because of my genes".

I agree. XD

Oh yeah. Morbid obesity is a big turn-on.Funky_Llama

I like chubby men, with lovehandles, but not so obese its unhealthy. 5-10 pounds overweight is ok, more is too much... way too much..

[QUOTE="Diablo112688"]Women like men who have a normal sized penis a job, a car, and men who are emotional. The_Mac_Daddy

That's what you would think.. but it's dead wrong.

What's with all the women threads today???Blind0bj3ct

mating season?

[QUOTE="Blind0bj3ct"]What's with all the women threads today???johnnyv2003

mating season?

[QUOTE="The_Mac_Daddy"]

[QUOTE="Diablo112688"]Women like men who have a normal sized penis a job, a car, and men who are emotional. Deihjan

That's what you would think.. but it's dead wrong.

Yep.. I do not think women find it attractive when the guy is more emotional than his girl. It's usually a huge turn off.

Oh yeah. Morbid obesity is a big turn-on.Funky_Llama

definately!

I like chubby men, with lovehandles, but not so obese its unhealthy. 5-10 pounds overweight is ok, more is too much... way too much..

Deihjan

I'd have to agree with you here. I mean, I'd always prefer a guy who is built but guys who are a little overweight aren't repulsive.

[QUOTE="Deihjan"][QUOTE="The_Mac_Daddy"]

[QUOTE="Diablo112688"]Women like men who have a normal sized penis a job, a car, and men who are emotional. The_Mac_Daddy

That's what you would think.. but it's dead wrong.

Yep.. I do not think women find it attractive when the guy is more emotional than his girl. It's usually a huge turn off.

No, real life is not like a TV sitcom. Drop some pounds or drop your standards. NearTheEnd

What's with all the women threads today???Blind0bj3ct

Heh, once you browse through the OT forum enough, you'll notice that there are these kinds of threads everyday.

even though i am about 20 pounds overweight its not entirely my fault its partly

ishoturface

It's still your damn fault. If you have knowledge that your genetic predisposition makes you vulnerable to it, you should be even more careful.

Now, if you were like me, it wouldn't matter because you wouldn't care. But don't say it's not your fault.

look around people... you see women with big guys all the time... its foolsih to make blanket statements like "women do not like large men"

look around people... you see women with big guys all the time... its foolsih to make blanket statements like "women do not like large men"

comp_atkins

Not around here lol. No offense but it sounds like this thread should be renamed. "Large" should be replaced with "fat" and no, women do not like FAT men.

[QUOTE="Blind0bj3ct"]What's with all the women threads today???DabsTight703

Heh, once you browse through the OT forum enough, you'll notice that there are these kinds of threads everyday.

Some OT expert advice right here^^

there are many different types of women that likes many different types of men.N8A

Can't get a better reason than that.

To be honest though, being a girl, I'd rather have a guy who is skinny, but has some sort of muscle. :P But that's just part of my personality, other girls could be the total opposite, liking something totally different from what I like.

Oh yeah. Morbid obesity is a big turn-on.Funky_Llama

I'm in luck then.

Oh wait, you were joking.

*places barrel of shotgun in mouth*

[QUOTE="Funky_Llama"]Oh yeah. Morbid obesity is a big turn-on.Deihjan

I like chubby men, with lovehandles, but not so obese its unhealthy. 5-10 pounds overweight is ok, more is too much... way too much..

This is me and mine.

Been together going on 3 years. All you need is confidence.HardQuor

Hacks.

Women like men who have a normal sized penis a job, a car, and men who are emotional. Diablo112688

What's with all the women threads today???Blind0bj3ct

Have you been here before?
And as for OP - being aesthetically pleasing helps get a foot in the door. But it is definitely who you are that determines things - unless the girl is purely after a shag, then it's all about being hot.

If it bugs you be pro-active about it - go to the gym, go for a run, I've noticed a huge increase in female attention after going to the gym consistently.

You posed the question like all women are programmed the same >_>

Different preferences, my friend...

anyone who says that no girls like overweight guys must be blind. a huge percentage of North Americans are significantly overweight, and you're gonna say that none of them are getting laid? it's simply not true.

look, losing weight is a good idea for a lot of reasons... improves your health, and you'll have an easier time finding clothing.

But as long as you don't have stupidly high standards, and have a decent amount of confidence, you can find someone. guaranteed.

I'm not in great shape, about 200 lbs, but I've had an active love life since I was 17. The key: confidence. You don't need money. You don't need 6-pack abs. You just need to show the girl you appreciate her, and that you are a strong, capable person.

That's it. Honestly.

Girls prefer taller and lean muscular guys first.. thin but muscular (Think Brad Pitt in Fight Club), then big guys with muscles.. (Think John Cena.. only not that big), then normal shape guys, then skinny guys, then fat guys.

What is your height and weight?

The_Mac_Daddy

Well, they like Big Black so....

And I'm 6'3" - 170lbs... im pretty mucscular, i'm cut and have a six pack.

Six Pack is your best bet to get girls....

Six Pack is your best bet to get girls....

Flaming_Spoon

only if that's all you have to offer the gene pool.