Is it weird to like a girl but not be sexually attracted to her?

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#1 mtcoola
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I'm just wondering if thats normal. i like this chick right now and shes really hot, but i find her more cute. Her personality is really cute too, shes pretty christian and innocent so that might be why im not sexually attracted to her.
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#2 solid_mario
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That's pretty freaking wierd :o
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#3 clembo1990
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It means you are homosexual, I am certain. Go repent NAO!
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#4 FireWall3
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if you don´t want, you don´t want..... why are you asking?

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#5 Boba_Fett_3710
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I'm just wondering if thats normal. i like this chick right now and shes really hot, but i find her more cute. Her personality is really cute too, shes pretty christian and innocent so that might be why im not sexually attracted to her. mtcoola

It's not weird. Some guys are attracted to them type of girls. 

It's those types of girls that are the craziest in bed ;)

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#6 mtcoola
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It means you are homosexual, I am certain. Go repent NAO!clembo1990

 

asl? if guy message me. let's cam 2 cam

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#7 bsman00
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I'm just wondering if thats normal. i like this chick right now and shes really hot, but i find her more cute. Her personality is really cute too, shes pretty christian and innocent so that might be why im not sexually attracted to her. mtcoola

Um yeah i find that weird.... you says she hot but you dont find her sexually attractive?.... i think you broke something

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#8 CurfewVII
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Thats pretty weird you should go to the doctor immediately.
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[QUOTE="clembo1990"]It means you are homosexual, I am certain. Go repent NAO!mtcoola

 

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#10 Nifty_Shark
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Hot or cute you are still attracted to her so nothing is wrong. She probably isn't the innocent little christian though.
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Mabye it's LOVE. "Good luck, you're gonna need it."
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#12 mtcoola
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Hot or cute you are still attracted to her so nothing is wrong. She probably isn't the innocent little christian though.Nifty_Shark

 

haha i think she is. She seems pretty naive about like partying and sex and stuff, like if she didnt know what sex was it wouldnt surprise me. (haha thats kind of an exaderation, but she just has her moments) but that's kinda what i like about her, shes really silly and innocent. The last girl i liked was a total partier so its a nice change.

 

For example:

 kid: "so the club opened at 8:30 and everyone was drunk by 9"
her: "in the morning?!"

so yeah i dont think shes into the partying and stuff haha

but i think the reason why im not sexually attracted to her is because subconsiously i feel bad thinking about her like thatn and i just want to spend time with her

 

yeah damn im getting gay :(

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#13 deactivated-605ba7fd6332a
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I know exactly what you are talking about from experience. I don't think it's weird (but do weird people not perceive themselves as weird?).
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There is nothing wrong with that.
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how old she is?
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#16 Greatgone12
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[QUOTE="mtcoola"]I'm just wondering if thats normal. i like this chick right now and shes really hot, but i find her more cute. Her personality is really cute too, shes pretty christian and innocent so that might be why im not sexually attracted to her. Boba_Fett_3710

It's not weird. Some guys are attracted to them type of girls. 

It's those types of girls that are the craziest in bed ;)

Not unless she goes to a Catholic Private School, and it depends on how straight of a back her father has.
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#17 mtcoola
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[QUOTE="Boba_Fett_3710"]

[QUOTE="mtcoola"]I'm just wondering if thats normal. i like this chick right now and shes really hot, but i find her more cute. Her personality is really cute too, shes pretty christian and innocent so that might be why im not sexually attracted to her. Greatgone12

It's not weird. Some guys are attracted to them type of girls. 

It's those types of girls that are the craziest in bed ;)

Not unless she goes to a Catholic Private School, and it depends on how straight of a back her father has.

 

haha we go to an overseas government school for the military, so no private school

she's 17 and the daughter of a general haha so i gotta watch out!

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#18 Greatgone12
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haha we go to an overseas government school for the military, so no private school

she's 17 and the daughter of a general haha so i gotta watch out!

mtcoola
Man, get that ass. She's bound to be a disciplined type.
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#19 Boba_Fett_3710
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haha we go to an overseas government school for the military, so no private school

she's 17 and the daughter of a general haha so i gotta watch out!

mtcoola

You better get on that then, stick it to the man by sticking it to the general's daughter.

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#20 mtcoola
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[QUOTE="mtcoola"]

haha we go to an overseas government school for the military, so no private school

she's 17 and the daughter of a general haha so i gotta watch out!

Boba_Fett_3710

You better get on that then, stick it to the man by sticking it to the general's daughter.

 

haha my dads retired air force e7, even he's saying "damn you better hit that"

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#21 Boba_Fett_3710
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haha my dads retired air force e7, even he's saying "damn you better hit that"

mtcoola

Your father's a wise man.

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[QUOTE="Boba_Fett_3710"][QUOTE="mtcoola"]

haha we go to an overseas government school for the military, so no private school

she's 17 and the daughter of a general haha so i gotta watch out!

mtcoola

You better get on that then, stick it to the man by sticking it to the general's daughter.

 

haha my dads retired air force e7, even he's saying "damn you better hit that"

ahahahaha. Well now that is epic

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[QUOTE="Boba_Fett_3710"]

[QUOTE="mtcoola"]I'm just wondering if thats normal. i like this chick right now and shes really hot, but i find her more cute. Her personality is really cute too, shes pretty christian and innocent so that might be why im not sexually attracted to her. Greatgone12

It's not weird. Some guys are attracted to them type of girls.

It's those types of girls that are the craziest in bed ;)

Especially if she goes to a Catholic Private School.

Fixed.

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#24 GTR2addict
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its not so weird, i like a girl, i like everything about her, but im not SEXUALLY atracted to her... its for arelationship, and relationship's arent all about sex you know?...
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Not really, I like some girls as just friends.
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[QUOTE="mtcoola"]I'm just wondering if thats normal. i like this chick right now and shes really hot, but i find her more cute. Her personality is really cute too, shes pretty christian and innocent so that might be why im not sexually attracted to her. Boba_Fett_3710

It's not weird. Some guys are attracted to them type of girls. 

It's those types of girls that are the craziest in bed ;)


Craziest as in BSDM?
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#27 X360PS3AMD05
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I don't think so...
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#28 Boba_Fett_3710
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[QUOTE="Boba_Fett_3710"]

[QUOTE="mtcoola"]I'm just wondering if thats normal. i like this chick right now and shes really hot, but i find her more cute. Her personality is really cute too, shes pretty christian and innocent so that might be why im not sexually attracted to her. carrot-cake

It's not weird. Some guys are attracted to them type of girls. 

It's those types of girls that are the craziest in bed ;)


Craziest as in BSDM?

There's no real way for us to guage the level of crazy some of these deprived (and depraved ;)) women actually are.

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#29 GTR2addict
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[QUOTE="carrot-cake"][QUOTE="Boba_Fett_3710"]

 

It's not weird. Some guys are attracted to them type of girls.

It's those types of girls that are the craziest in bed ;)

Boba_Fett_3710


Craziest as in BSDM?

There's no real way for us to guage the level of crazy some of these deprived (and depraved ;)) women actually are.

were not even closer to understanding the female individual/mind

how are we supposed to know anything else?

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#30 SouL-Tak3R
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I like to call that.... a friend haha
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#31 luke1889
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Yeah, I do find that kinda bizarre.
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#32 markop2003
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Nope, i know a girl like that, i can say objectively that she's atractive but i'm not atracted to her, she has a great personality though and i still find her cute. I think you were atracted to her but she's fallen into your friend zone.

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#33 Bloodbath_87
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Not a problem...i've been there before.
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#34 markop2003
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[QUOTE="mtcoola"]I'm just wondering if thats normal. i like this chick right now and shes really hot, but i find her more cute. Her personality is really cute too, shes pretty christian and innocent so that might be why im not sexually attracted to her. bsman00

Um yeah i find that weird.... you says she hot but you dont find her sexually attractive?.... i think you broke something

Hot isn't really objective i find, someone is either hot or not, hot describes more of a primal sense of atractiveness, you could make a rating of hotness based on a bunch of ratios and formulas. Cute, beautiful and pretty though are words i'ld use to describe someone who i think is good looking but not everybody does.

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#35 mtcoola
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Nope, i know a girl like that, i can say objectively that she's atractive but i'm not atracted to her, she has a great personality though and i still find her cute. I think you were atracted to her but she's fallen into your friend zone.

markop2003

 

Idk about the friend zone. Like i think about her all the time and i always want to hang out wiht her, and everytime i talk to her or get an email from her it makes me happy for the rest of the day. I just wanna hang out with her all day. And i'd have sex with her , but like i'd have to take it really slow with her for some reason

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#36 markop2003
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[QUOTE="markop2003"]

Nope, i know a girl like that, i can say objectively that she's atractive but i'm not atracted to her, she has a great personality though and i still find her cute. I think you were atracted to her but she's fallen into your friend zone.

mtcoola

 

Idk about the friend zone. Like i think about her all the time and i always want to hang out wiht her, and everytime i talk to her or get an email from her it makes me happy for the rest of the day. I just wanna hang out with her all day. And i'd have sex with her , but like i'd have to take it really slow with her for some reason

Sounds like you're in love then. Atleast that's the best explanation i can think of.

Happened to me a couple years back the same way as you're describing, i really loved talking to her and just being around her, i saw her as atractive but i couldn't think about her sexually as it was a bit like sacralige or mind rape, i thought i didn't deserve to think about her that way. 

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#37 Boba_Fett_3710
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[QUOTE="markop2003"]

Nope, i know a girl like that, i can say objectively that she's atractive but i'm not atracted to her, she has a great personality though and i still find her cute. I think you were atracted to her but she's fallen into your friend zone.

mtcoola

 

Idk about the friend zone. Like i think about her all the time and i always want to hang out wiht her, and everytime i talk to her or get an email from her it makes me happy for the rest of the day. I just wanna hang out with her all day. And i'd have sex with her , but like i'd have to take it really slow with her for some reason

Sounds like a keeper, nothing wrong with that.

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#38 deactivated-5a79221380856
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It happens to me all the time... :(
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I would say it's a good thing, it shows that you actually have real feelings for her, not just one of those crappy superficial, "yh, she iz totaly hawt, id do her" sort of attractions.

That is assuming you meant that you want to be in a relationship with her, not just friends.

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... do you like your mom?
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#41 Boba_Fett_3710
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I would say it's a good thing, it shows that you actually have real feelings for her, not just one of those crappy superficial, "yh, she iz totaly hawt, id do her" sort of attractions.

That is assuming you meant that you want to be in a relationship with her, not just friends.

rb2610

Just be sure to never get friend zoned. Escape from the friend zone is alot of work, better off not being put there to begin with.

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#42 deactivated-5a79221380856
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... do you like your mom?zakkro

Oh my... :lol:

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#43 N0han
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Depends whether its weird or not. It depends on what you make of it. Theres plenty of girls in my class/school that are pretty cool to hang out with but I woudnt want them as my girlfriend. Some are just 'boyish' girls which are cool to talk with and stuff but having one as a gf isnt something I would want. Maybe and thats a second possibility, you really love her as in, sex is not something you care about most when you see her. There once was a girl in my life which I really liked alot and was my girlfriend, sex came on a second place.

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lolwut? Its called a friend who is a girl! D:
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#45 Cloud_Insurance
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Maybe you should bag it and then bag her.

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#46 mtcoola
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Maybe you should bag it and then bag her.

 

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I only plastic bag chicks. much sexier.

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#47 rb2610
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[QUOTE="rb2610"]

I would say it's a good thing, it shows that you actually have real feelings for her, not just one of those crappy superficial, "yh, she iz totaly hawt, id do her" sort of attractions.

That is assuming you meant that you want to be in a relationship with her, not just friends.

Boba_Fett_3710

Just be sure to never get friend zoned. Escape from the friend zone is alot of work, better off not being put there to begin with.

That happened to me :( but now I don't even know if I'm in the friend zone anymore, I haven't heard from her for a couple of months, although neither have any of her other friends so it might not be just me :?
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#48 bean-with-bacon
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No not really, I'm the same, I'm rarely physically attracted to guys, I'm more emotionally attracted if that makes sense.
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#49 double_decker
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Don't worry, once she takes her clothes off the sexual attraction will kick in... if not maybe you like your own teammates a little too much. :P
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#50 gbpman630
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No I've felt this before too. This girl that I've had a crush on for like 3 years is just so sweet, and I don't ever even think about sex with her. I think that means you really must like her.