Is it wrong to TRY and date a girl who is in a relationship?

Yes/No/Depends on Circumstances?

Well cause I like this girl who is in a [somewhat] rough patch with her boyfriend. And I don't like her boyfriend at all(not because of this, but I thought he was a friend, turns out he's a jerk).

So basically, is it wrong to make a move on her? Lol.

Yes. GameSpot Relationship Advice, 4.99 a minute.

Yes, wrong.

Would you like it if you were in a relationship, and another guy was constantly trying to get your girl?

Probably not. It's just asking for trouble IMO.

There's no way it can turn out well for anyone involved. The best thing to do would be to wait until they call it quits on their own.

Hard to say. She's not the other guy's property, so she doesn't belong to him. But in the same sense, it's just not a cool thing to do that to another person.

Yes it is wrong. There is usually more harm than good as a result.

Damn I clicked no by accident!

I don't mind when someone flirts with my Little Hell Kitten because it's flattering, but when they try relentlessly it annoys me, when they think they can tear us apart and take what they want, I get it quite a lot because we live far apart and the way she is, guys seem to think she is easy, not that she is unattractive, otherwise she wouldn't have them going for her, just the way she is, people think she's up for anything and although that's almost true she gets just as annoyed as I do about it when some chav thinks he can walk up and get into her pants with just a few lines.

I put depends as i'm not sure of your motives in this are you saying is it ok to ask a girl out who's got a boyfriend? No as she should say no anyway and if she didn't then she aint the kind of girl you should want. If by try you mean present yourself as an obvious alternative to her bf then thats fine and by this i mean chatting to her light flirting etc the only time this is wrong is if you know the guy and he's a nice guy in which case you become a jerk, but as you said it aint a good guy it's ok afterall its her life so she's allowed the choice just don't be too forward

there isn't any right or wrong about it, it's just part of the game and happens all the time.

If by try you mean present yourself as an obvious alternative to her bfJedi_Shearstone

Yes! That's what I'm trying to ask lol. I couldn't find the words for it or a way to put it into the Topic.

Like. Is it wrong to hang out with her and stuff with the INTENTION of dating her eventually while she's in a relationship. I think that's what I mean at least.

Damn I clicked no by accident!

I don't mind when someone flirts with my Little Hell Kitten because it's flattering, but when they try relentlessly it annoys me, when they think they can tear us apart and take what they want, I get it quite a lot because we live far apart and the way she is, guys seem to think she is easy, not that she is unattractive, otherwise she wouldn't have them going for her, just the way she is, people think she's up for anything and although that's almost true she gets just as annoyed as I do about it when some chav thinks he can walk up and get into her pants with just a few lines.

Evil_Saluki

[QUOTE="Jedi_Shearstone"]If by try you mean present yourself as an obvious alternative to her bfOrehhet

Yes! That's what I'm trying to ask lol. I couldn't find the words for it or a way to put it into the Topic.

Like. Is it wrong to hang out with her and stuff with the INTENTION of dating her eventually while she's in a relationship. I think that's what I mean at least.

Nope thats fine then just dont hang with her too much or you'll end up in the friend zone

[QUOTE="Jedi_Shearstone"]If by try you mean present yourself as an obvious alternative to her bfOrehhet

Yes! That's what I'm trying to ask lol. I couldn't find the words for it or a way to put it into the Topic.

Like. Is it wrong to hang out with her and stuff with the INTENTION of dating her eventually while she's in a relationship. I think that's what I mean at least.

In short, yes it is wrong.

it certainly isnt RIGHT !

wait till she breaks up and REBOUND!8)

Yes, if love her and all...and if she's happy...then why would you want to make her unhappy by causing her to break up with the one she's happy with..(did that make any sense or..? :P) and if she's willing to cheat on her boyfriend then i would run the other way..chances are she'd do it to you as well..

Depends on relationship.......if its serious, yes, its wrong

if it isn't, probably no

Never a good idea to be the rebound date nor the other guy. Neither will end in a relationship.LJS9502_basic

Not true at all. My ex ex gf did that to me and she's been happy for the past 3 years. She also recently had a baby with the guy.

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Never a good idea to be the rebound date nor the other guy. Neither will end in a relationship.bigblunt537

Not true at all. My ex ex gf did that to me and she's been happy for the past 3 years. She also recently had a baby with the guy.

Not good to mess with other peoples' relationships. If she's in a weak relationship, just let it end naturally.

[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Never a good idea to be the rebound date nor the other guy. Neither will end in a relationship.th3warr1or

Not true at all. My ex ex gf did that to me and she's been happy for the past 3 years. She also recently had a baby with the guy.

I'm good lol I got over that about 2 years ago. We don't talk I found out about the baby through her sister on facebook. I don't hold grudges though I hope she's happy.

Absolutely it's wrong. Total **** move.

Not good to mess with other peoples' relationships. If she's in a weak relationship, just let it end naturally.

pianist

Depends on how you go about it, I don't necessarily think its wrong all the time. She could just be dating the guy casually, not looking to marry him but since couldn't find a better alternative, she sees no reason to end it either.

And since she is only dating and not married, she's still open imo. She still has a choice as to who she wants to be with

Dating is not exclusive, marriage is

[QUOTE="ariz3260"]

Depends on how you go about it, I don't necessarily think its wrong all the time. She could just be dating the guy casually, not looking to marry him but since couldn't find a better alternative, she sees no reason to end it either.

And since she is only dating and not married, she's still open imo. She still has a choice as to who she wants to be with

Dating is not exclusive, marriage is

dreDREb13

[QUOTE="pianist"]

Not good to mess with other peoples' relationships. If she's in a weak relationship, just let it end naturally.

th3warr1or

If it doesn't end, there's usually a good reason for that. What this boils down to is whether or not you consider the other people involved, or if you're only interested in numero uno. The numero uno move is to take advantage of a rough patch to convince another person that a relationship with you would be better than her current one. But in this case - where the relationship has survived a further 3 years - in hindsight, you must ask yourself if that would have really been better for her. It certainly wouldn't be better for her boyfriend, unless he doesn't want to be in the relationship. And that doesn't make much sense, now does it?

From my point of view, a person who is in a commited relationship of any sort is off limits until he or she decides to no longer be in a commited relationship. It's simple, and it ensures that I will not be responsible for causing pain to anyone else.

[QUOTE="ariz3260"]

Depends on how you go about it, I don't necessarily think its wrong all the time. She could just be dating the guy casually, not looking to marry him but since couldn't find a better alternative, she sees no reason to end it either.

And since she is only dating and not married, she's still open imo. She still has a choice as to who she wants to be with

Dating is not exclusive, marriage is

dreDREb13

Well looks like we have a different definition of dating