Is it wrong to wish for a beautiful, religious, cultured, good natured, virgin girl as wife?

when i am a kissless virgin with morals and religious cultural minded nature?

why does virgin matter?

If you're a kissless virgin I don't see anything wrong wanting the same. Don't want to embarrass yourself with someone who actually knows what they're doing. I do pity you though, you're missing out on the oldest human pleasure.

Also get on finding you another kissless virgin. Every year you age the pool you have to choose from is going to get smaller, uglier, and crazier.

@mrbojangles25: cause i do not want to marry someone who has been had it already, it would make a compromise for me, i do not to think that the one i married is already exposed and feeled earlier

I think if they go into the relationship knowing that, it's OK. I mean is she/he had sex before and their partner has not, it's like "OK well now that we know what to expect. we can work on that when the time comes." Sex is a part of a relationship but it's not the only part, and you can work at it to make it better or neglect it to make it worse.

In what respect?

@doomdizzle: villages and counties is where i can still find virgin girls, i would otherwise remain marriage less for life

@mrbojangles25: i have been pure for all these years not only to compromise with some physically done deal girl, i do not want to deal with that, everything first time of her feelings belongs to me

That's fair. One of the most important parts of a relationship is communication and honesty afterall.

@doomdizzle: i cannot verify someone's virginity so i would have to depend on what she says when i ask if she is a virgin, if i somehow find out that she is not a virgin after all then divorce and lonely life for me till the end later

@eliminatorpaige:some trolls at gamefaqs told me to deal with non virgin and get laid cause a non virgin has more experience in bed and make a compromise, i am not following that advice

Do what you want, man, but don't judge people based on their virginity status. Virgin or not, the right partner is the right partner. It'd be a shame to miss out on a really awesome life experience because of a missing hymen.

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I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I just think you severely limited your options.

No, it's not but it's nearly impossible to find such a girl nowadays. Good luck.

You and her are going to have a very trying first couple years.

Getting to know someone, both sexually and domestically, before getting married, is the key to a long and happy marriage. One of the biggest marriage breakers, outside of money and sex problems, is domestic habits that people just can't stand. You'll be very surprised at how many little things will annoy you. Nobody is perfect, and nobody tells you everything until you move in together.

No, it's not wrong.

Just creepy. Very creepy.

no

• B-E-AUTIFUL,
• RELIGOUS
• CULTURED
• GOOD NATURED
• VIRGIN

You can only pick 3 in this day and age. Challenge accepted. :D

You bet.

Wrong, no. Difficult, Yes.

You dont magically become impure when you have sex. It's not some great rubicon to pass. And by the way you talk about women, you view them as some sort of property. Nobody wants to have sex with someone who thinks they are tainted in some way for having had sex.

One can wish for anything, that it comes true however is generally not going to happen.
Though it does depend on the wish.

@Storm_Marine: Care to elaborate on how its not?

three is pushing it

Do you really mean wrong? Or do you actually mean realistic? The chances are there but your odds are great.

Do you know whats more important than marrying the type of girl you're looking for? Marrying one that you can stand to live with. Seriously, living with someone is a lot different, just going for morals and virginity alone does not make for a happy marriage no matter how good natured she is.

@fenderkiller17: a beautiful, religious, cultured, good natured girl/ woman is not too difficult to find, but a kissless virgin ? Nearly impossible to find, unless you live in a Muslim country.

@mrbojangles25: but who is to say a virgin is not going to be faithful and could also provide as much or more joy to life compared to marrying non virgin? also everyone insists marrying non virgin thinking virgins are nearly not available anymore

i am not marrying a girl who has slept with other/s already

@foxhound_fox: i agree, regarding sexual stuff both virgins can practice it upon practical usage

sure you would only know the other person totally after marriage

@zaryia: why is it creepy? i have no interest in marriage if i am to deal with done deal already

@hillelslovak: its not about thinking them as body parts, assets etc. but more of a thing like if i marry whom has been slept with someone, who has already been rough used, it feels wrong, i would preserve my wife like a rose, i am not interested in marrying someone who has drilled down hard

@pimphand_gamer: sure that is why i mentioned marrying a good natured girl, i would only marry someone who i like and if that person likes me, we accept each other's terms etc.

@Zensword: i am not a muslim, nor my country muslim based, i am sure even american kissless are available in counties at the very least

It all depends where you live.

Its cool to want a virtuous wife. But you may end up having to compromise on the virgin thing.

Very few people will retain their virginity before or past their 20's. Not everyone becomes a person seeking to model themselves with good values, during or right after their teen years. And it may make you come off as a holier than thou type if that's the deal breaker. While undermining all the positive changes she has made since then.

@jak42: no chance, i will rather play video games and be happy with bungalow and car and garden and money, i am not having a used wife

@thegerg: i do not want roughly used up mishaped wife

@thegerg: i could be wrong as i am clueless virgin but whatever, used is used

@thegerg: not then, regardless i do not deal with mental pain of having a wife that has been exposed by other/s HELL NO

OP is starting to sound like a troll. Or just has an attitude issue.

@thegerg: you said she holded hand, hand holding is ok, sleeping is not

@jak42: its a moral issue, all these years of virginity and morals that i have preserved for what? just to marry someone who has been naked and someone already has felt her previously? nope my wife will be felt by only me since the FIRST TIME

@completeboy: I'm a virgin myself. And a practicing Christian. But when you meet someone special, you overlook their flaws and shortcomings. Not being a virgin alone isn't a red flag.

If you can't forgive someone for their past. The relationship will fail. Virtues can't be taught. It has to be gain from experience and interactions over the course of a lifetime. A late bloomer can still be a wonderful gift from God.

It's not wrong just... unlikely

@jak42: i totally agree, but i would rather compromise a bit for a virgin then to compromise a ton with a non virgin

pure love does not even involve physical lust, i am wise enough to know as much

but i am pure and i ain't interested in someone who has a third class past