Is she interested/curious?

So Gamespotters, I'm 16, as we all were or will be, and I'm in that period of all this girlfriend business. I've never had one before, not from lack of trying might I add, and so I'm still not perfect at flirting and staying out of the friendzone (although I believe I'm imporving and have learnt a lot of things) , and I also have trouble reading women. So I'd love some help with the latter
So, here's the situation:
The School had a week long Camp thing last year, and she was in my group for all the day time activities. During the week I ended up being partnered up with her on more than one occasion, and we had a good time together, she smiled and laughed and we bonded. However when School started again this year, everything was back to normal, no-one was talking to anyone outside their normal social-shells. And, having been rejected by many of the girls in her social group, I decided I wouldn't go full on. So I added her on Facebook and we had some chats, until she got a Boyfriend. At which point she just stopped responding to me on Facebook. I was fine with it, because she had a boyfriend and well, what was I going to do anyway? 

Anyway, I ended up having a class with her, a sort of class dedicated to study, and for the first few weeks I saw her and talked to her breifly in the class, then she became absorbed in School work (she's a bit intense like that) Anyway, for a while there my attention drifted elsewhere while she had a partner, but then they broke up. I didn't swoop in or anything, I left it for a bit, and then started to inbox her on Facebook, but to no avail (she did not respond)
I'm no dumb fellow, had this been many other situations I would have taken that as a 'not interested' however while she never responded to my inboxes. She started to smile at me as we crossed paths at School, then when I saw her at her job she started up a conversation with me. Staring me in the eyes for some of the time, and at other points looking away pretending to be doing something for her job. And over the last 2 weeks she's been smiling a lot at me, laughing at my quite horrific jokes (which is a little bit more than odd, as some of the girls I talk to say she never smiles or laughs) even though she smiles and laughs at/with me pretty regularly.

As she walks past me she makes a little comment followed by a smile, and I (think) I have been catching her staring at me a bit lately. She also went out of her way to get my attention the other day, albiet for some help with her assingment, but she saw I was preoccupied and continued to try for my attention untl she got it.

So, thats how she treats me.
However, both her and I aren't all that close. We barely talk about family or friends, I don't even know things like her favourite colour or movie etc. So while she seems to be all nice and stuff, we don't know each other very well, and I just wonder whether a relationship would even work. I like her, but I don't know enough about her to be confident that I wouldn't start dating her and learn about her only to dislike what I find underneath her smile, but I also don't want to put myself into the friends area, not yet at least. Not until I know if she's  friend or more than friend material.  

So, is she curious about me or interested in me? What advice would you give me? I was thinking of inviting her out, just to get to know her and talk to her outside of School.  

She sounds like she might be into you. Just ask her out and spend some time with her to get to know her better. You have nothing to lose if this goes wrong. On the contrary you' ll be more experienced for the next time.

I would suggest that you work on hanging out with her outside of school and away from friends.  From what you've described she sounds interested in you.  She has had boyfriends so she's used to hooking up with guys so I would make it your life's mission to get alone with her and try to at least make out with her.  

Who cares if you don't know much about her likes etc etc.  Most relationships are sparked by infatuation and attraction followd by getting to know each other.  Don't over complicate things.  Play it cool and work on hanging out with her alone and if your worried about her friends accepting you then keep the whole thing private until things advance further.

i'm sure i've seen this thread somewhere before.

Ok, I skipped 80% but here is the thing.

Unless you ask you will never know.

But obviouslly it is hard to ask.

So I suggest you go beat around the bush until she decides to tell you about it.

I mean, she is probably worried to find out if you are interestedin her too.

By making it obvious it can encourage her to be obvious too.

Give her your umbrella

Move on.LJS9502_basic

i'm sure i've seen this thread somewhere before.

sukraj

Yeah, I've seen variations of these before......................

Oh, and

Are you really 16....god i hope not. 

[QUOTE="The_Lipscomb"][QUOTE="kingkong0124"] this can unfortunately be difficult dkdk999

if  you got to ask this question then the answer is no. she is not into you like that. but all you got to do is ask her if you want to know for sure.

Are you really 16....god i hope not. 

--Anna--

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] Move on.kingkong0124

[QUOTE="kingkong0124"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] Move on.The_Lipscomb

[QUOTE="dkdk999"][QUOTE="The_Lipscomb"] It really isn't .. Those who drag over a single chick out of all the ones living on this earth lol.. How? There's so many people living.The_Lipscomb

[QUOTE="The_Lipscomb"]

[QUOTE="dkdk999"] People are generally not rational with their feelings.Canuck3000

[QUOTE="kingkong0124"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] Move on.The_Lipscomb

but there is only so many people you are going to to be attracted to. not everyone wants to **** everything that comes their way.

[QUOTE="The_Lipscomb"][QUOTE="kingkong0124"] this can unfortunately be difficult -Renegade

but there is only so many people you are going to to be attracted to. not everyone wants to **** everything that comes their way.

You can't inbox women through fb that you see in real life,that shows you're scared to approach and she'll think you're a clown.Just talk to her,you gotta push it to the limit to see how she reacts to certain things so you can feel her out.Also get touchy to see what boundaries you can and can't cross at this point,just to get an idea of where she's at.Bucked20

all these threads can be answered with 1 response. ask her out.