Is there something wrong with this..?

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#1 robobie
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Today me and my friend saw a guy who was chatting up a ton of girls and my friend was like how does he get all tha girls and I said "ah sure he's good looking guy". And he said that I was gay I ain't gay but I'm comfortable enough with my sexuality to admit when other guys are good looking. I wouldn't like fancy them but just admit that they are good looking guys.

So is it ok to say other guys are good looking or am I a tad bit weird..?

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#2 Curlyfrii87
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I see nothing wrong with that!
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#3 Parandrus
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I think there's something wrong with your friend thinking you're gay for saying someone was good looking.
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#4 Sajedene
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Looks like your friend has the issues not you. I can appreciate a good looking person irregardless of gender. Doesn't mean I want to hook up with them.
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#5 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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I see absolutely nothing wrong with that. Just because you can admit when a member of your sex is attractive or unattractive does not mean that you are sexually attracted to them.
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#6 Hungry_bunny
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Your friend sounds a bit jealous, you should have said..."ah sure he's good looking guy... but he's nothing compared to you *wink* *wink*" I bet he'd talk differently after that >.>
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#7 horgen  Moderator
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Nothing wrong with it.. But maybe you should say"probably goodlooking" if your friends starts to call you gay
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#8 Dark_Knight6
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You can say someone else of the same gender is good looking and still be hetero. He sounds a little insecure, to me.
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#9 THE_DRUGGIE
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Nah, its perfectly normal to say that a fellow man is attracting girls because he's handsome. Its just an observation.

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#10 robobie
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Your friend sounds a bit jealous, you should have said..."ah sure he's good looking guy... but he's nothing compared to you *wink* *wink*" I bet he'd talk differently after that >.>Hungry_bunny

OMG That would have been priceless lol

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#11 bitemeslippy
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The important question that goes hand in hand with this question is of course...how old are you and your friend? I'm 17 so most of the guys I'm around still say stuff like that too if you were to say that another guy was attractive.
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#12 robobie
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The important question that goes hand in hand with this question is of course...how old are you and your friend? I'm 17 so most of the guys I'm around still say stuff like that too if you were to say that another guy was attractive.bitemeslippy

I'm 16 and he's 18

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#13 THE_DRUGGIE
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Your friend sounds a bit jealous, you should have said..."ah sure he's good looking guy... but he's nothing compared to you *wink* *wink*" I bet he'd talk differently after that >.>Hungry_bunny


It would've been even better if he threw in a Richard Simmons impression for effect. I perfected mine for getting rid of army recruitment callers (if they bug me more than once and I told them to stop) and telemarketers.

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#14 bitemeslippy
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[QUOTE="bitemeslippy"]The important question that goes hand in hand with this question is of course...how old are you and your friend? I'm 17 so most of the guys I'm around still say stuff like that too if you were to say that another guy was attractive.robobie

I'm 16 and he's 18

Well that explains it. In a few years I'm sure he'll be comfortable enough to admit that another guy is attractive...unless he might be gay and is uncomfortable with coming out, most likely not but you never know.

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#15 Bloodbath_87
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It's good to be comfortable with your sexuality. Your friend is probably really insecure.
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#16 Treflis
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Nah, nothing wrong with that. I comment on the looks of other guys aswell.
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#17 Dark__Link
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Unless you put your head between your hands, palms together, sighed happily, and said, "He's such a good looking guy..." in a light, airy voice while gazing loftily in his direction..... your friend is the one with the problem. Not you.
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#18 XilePrincess
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No, I often point out girls and be like "she's gorgeous". or tell one of my friends I think she's beautiful. It's got nothing to do with sexuality, it's just a stereotype. You wonder why if people see girls kissing on tv they see it as normal but if it's two guys its OMFG WTF IS THAT? /switch channel. Guys have fallen into the must-be-masculine idea; no crying, no looking at another guy too long, no wimpy actions/habits/possessions such as bubble bath or an extensive collection of body products. I disagree with all that completely, i think all those things are perfectly fine. I assume, though, your friend just didn't want to look unmasculine by agreeing with you, or something like that.
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#19 pygmahia5
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i think what you said is perfectly fine. if you said something along the lines of "hes hot" THEN maybe it MIGHT be over the line.
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#20 Hungry_bunny
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[QUOTE="Hungry_bunny"]Your friend sounds a bit jealous, you should have said..."ah sure he's good looking guy... but he's nothing compared to you *wink* *wink*" I bet he'd talk differently after that >.>THE_DRUGGIE


It would've been even better if he threw in a Richard Simmons impression for effect. I perfected mine for getting rid of army recruitment callers (if they bug me more than once and I told them to stop) and telemarketers.

...there isn't any chance you'd put that up on youtube for us, is there?
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#21 Robertoey
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There's a Seinfeld episode that covers this. It's perfectly fine, your friend is probably just in the closet.
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#22 Bloodbath_87
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There's a Seinfeld episode that covers this. It's perfectly fine, your friend is probably just in the closet.Robertoey
There's a Seinfeld episode for everything.
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#23 cyberdarkkid
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No it makes you an honest man.
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#24 super_mario_128
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Your friend is an idiot.
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#25 btaylor2404
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There's nothing wrong with that at all, your friend is just nuts.
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#26 stupid4
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I'm sure your friend is queer
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#27 AlmightyMax
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I'm straight, but I can admit a guy's good looking. Especially when I see Brad Pitt on a movie poster or something ... :P ... sorry, lost my train of thought for a second.
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#28 enemy-within11
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Nothing wrong with it, it's your opinion after all and doesn't define your orientation so don't worry about it.
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#29 xXMcClaneXx
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your friends insecure
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#30 blazinpuertoroc
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nothing wrong with it...maybe youre friend just wants you
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#31 heyfunboi
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Your friend is immature. You answered him and it was on topic. Nothing unusual.
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#32 WiiMan21
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I see no problem with that.
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#33 Jacobistheman
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Today me and my friend saw a guy who was chatting up a ton of girls and my friend was like how does he get all tha girls and I said "ah sure he's good looking guy". And he said that I was gay I ain't gay but I'm comfortable enough with my sexuality to admit when other guys are good looking. I wouldn't like fancy them but just admit that they are good looking guys.

So is it ok to say other guys are good looking or am I a tad bit weird..?

robobie
You sound gay to me. No offense, the only guy I have ever heard talk about how good looking other guys were was openly gay
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#34 Dark_Knight6
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You sound gay to me. No offense, the only guy I have ever heard talk about how good looking other guys were was openly gay Jacobistheman

He made an observation based on what is considered "good-looking." If he would have said the guy is hot or cute, this'd be a different story.

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#35 Blood-Scribe
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I see nothing wrong here. I don't get why there's a stigma that comes with expressing an opinion on the appearance of someone of the same gender.
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#36 gamah_killah
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As long as you meant it in no h0m0 ways, then you're fine.