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#1 Hexagon_777
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As in, is your partner of a racial,religious, cultural or linguistic background that is not the same as yours? If so, what are these differences? What challenges or benefits have you two faced in your partnership due to these differences? Feel free to be as detailed as possible!

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#2 deactivated-598fc45371265
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no partner :(

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#3 deactivated-5e9044657a310
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Yes. I'm of English ancestry, She is Welsh
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#4 Cube_of_MooN
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No partner currently. I admit I tend to prefer girls that are of my ethnicity (white), but I wouldn't be opposed to dating a girl of a different ethnicity by any means.

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#5 Swanogt19
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Not with a female at the moment. But I've never dated outside of my race. Don't see nothing wrong with it but just hasn't happened.
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#6 konvikt_17
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Nope. Jill is the same color as the rest of my body.

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#7 Hexagon_777
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no partner :(

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Speak of previous partners if you must. If you lack previous partners, then speak of imaginary ones. For example, if you've always had a thing for Brazilians girls, try to reflect upon how a relationship with a Brazilian girl would be using the questions provided in the opening post.

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#8 Saturos3091
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Yeah, half Peruvian.

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#9 Hexagon_777
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No partner currently. I admit I tend to prefer girls that are of my ethnicity (white), but I wouldn't be opposed to dating a girl of a different ethnicity by any means.

Cube_of_MooN

Not with a female at the moment. But I've never dated outside of my race. Don't see nothing wrong with it but just hasn't happened.Swanogt19

Nope. Jill is the same color as the rest of my body.

konvikt_17

There's more to ethnicity than just the color of your skin, people!

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#10 Nengo_Flow
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no we are the same. but i want a white girl so bad tho...
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#11 Hexagon_777
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Yeah, half Peruvian.

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Tell me more.

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#12 konvikt_17
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[QUOTE="konvikt_17"]

Nope. Jill is the same color as the rest of my body.

Hexagon_777

There's more to ethnicity than just the color of your skin, people!

pssst.

[spoiler] Jill_767e68_208778.jpg&size=400x1000 [/spoiler]

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#14 deactivated-598fc45371265
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[QUOTE="Storm_Marine"]

no partner :(

Hexagon_777

Speak of previous partners if you must. If you lack previous partners, then speak of imaginary ones. For example, if you've always had a thing for Brazilians girls, try to reflect upon how a relationship with a Brazilian girl would be using the questions provided in the opening post.

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#15 Hexagon_777
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no we are the same. but i want a white girl so bad tho...Nengo_Flow
You're the same in terms of religion, race, culture, and language?

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#16 Chow_Mein_Kampf
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Yeah...............She white.........................And since it's Alabamer, we do get funny looks from others........................

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#17 Nengo_Flow
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[QUOTE="Nengo_Flow"]no we are the same. but i want a white girl so bad tho...Hexagon_777

You're the same in terms of religion, race, culture, and language?

yeah....
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#18 Hexagon_777
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[QUOTE="Hexagon_777"]

[QUOTE="konvikt_17"]

Nope. Jill is the same color as the rest of my body.

konvikt_17

There's more to ethnicity than just the color of your skin, people!

pssst.

[spoiler] Jill_767e68_208778.jpg&size=400x1000 [/spoiler]

Oh. :lol:

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#19 foxhound_fox
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Yes. I'm mostly British/UK (about 1/4 mainland Western Europe) and my girlfriend is Prussian Mennonite. Other than her extended family being heavily religious (largely evangelical, but not extreme*), there really haven't been any issues that this has caused. Any unforeseen genetic issues with reproduction notwithstanding. *Note: Though, they all know I'm an atheist and don't seem to have issue with that... so I'm not sure they could be defined as evangelical proper.
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#20 Hexagon_777
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[QUOTE="Hexagon_777"]

[QUOTE="Nengo_Flow"]no we are the same. but i want a white girl so bad tho...Nengo_Flow

You're the same in terms of religion, race, culture, and language?

yeah....

That's cool, dawg...

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#21 Nengo_Flow
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[QUOTE="Nengo_Flow"][QUOTE="Hexagon_777"]You're the same in terms of religion, race, culture, and language?

Hexagon_777

yeah....

That's cool, dawg...

nah man.... i want me a white girl. I have recently found that i have a fetish for pale white girls. There are alot of white girls around here and they just keep getting finer by the day. Its frustrating.
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#22 GummiRaccoon
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As in, is your partner of a racial,religious, cultural or linguistic background that is not the same as yours? If so, what are these differences? What challenges or benefits have you two faced in your partnership due to these differences? Feel free to be as detailed as possible!

Hexagon_777

Me: white male, english only, top 10% SES

Her: Chicana/Native American, English and Spanish, bottom 25% SES.

 

The biggest challenge we had was that about half of her family are huge bigots and it took me a really really long time to win them over.  My family is becoming mixed ethnicity, about 40% of the people who have married into my family and that have been born into my family in the last 2 generations were latino.

 

I am one of 3 white people that have married into her family, none have had children and I am the only white person that put up with the bigotry long enough to still attend family functions.

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#23 funkadelichika
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Well I had a partner from a different country...one that doesn't exist anymore and lives in a different country then me now to. Native language wasen't english technically but he has spoken it since pretty young when his family came over here or uh well North America anyways so he uses it as his only language. Doesn't like speaking the other one. And I lost my train of thought. Anyway topic creator you need to answer your own question. :|
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#24 Wolfetan
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no partner :(

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#25 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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She's a different nationality then me.

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#26 nutcrackr
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she's ethereal, I'm corporeal
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#27 foxhound_fox
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she's ethereal, I'm corporeal nutcrackr
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[QUOTE="nutcrackr"]she's ethereal, I'm corporeal foxhound_fox
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No.
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#29 hippiesanta
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Not with a female at the moment. But I've never dated outside of my race. Don't see nothing wrong with it but just hasn't happened.Swanogt19
I bet u never been on a plane before...
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#30 sukraj
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No

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#31 TheWalkingGhost
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no partner :(

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It will happen if you want it to.
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#33 SaudiFury
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currently not with anyone.

 

but i got no qualms what their race or even their original sex was. 

 

 

of my past 6 relationships. only two been my same ethnicitiy (one white, and one Arab). the other 4 were, Afghan, Indonesian, Chinese, and Columbian. 

 

now i ca'nt say it's not a problem for anyone else in my family though.

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#34 shellcase86
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Sorta. I'm biracial. Her and I share a common ethnic "group." We get along well.

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#35 AbstractRadical
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No, my wife is the same race as I am.
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#36 horgen  Moderator
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My partner is white as me, though with a different culture (Poland contra Norway) and while a Christian, she is catholic and I am not. Though the difference there for us don't extend longer than she want our son to be a catholic like she is... Well officially that is. In Norway that difference is more in words than anything else. She isn't very religious I would say, though a bit more than but that doesn't require a lot. I couldn't care less about it. So far there has been no challenges because of it. However we have different traditions during Christmas, as in what we eat. This has up to now not been a problem though and I don't expect it to be either in the future.
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#37 Hexagon_777
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[QUOTE="Hexagon_777"]

As in, is your partner of a racial,religious, cultural or linguistic background that is not the same as yours? If so, what are these differences? What challenges or benefits have you two faced in your partnership due to these differences? Feel free to be as detailed as possible!

GummiRaccoon

Me: white male, english only, top 10% SES

Her: Chicana/Native American, English and Spanish, bottom 25% SES.

 

The biggest challenge we had was that about half of her family are huge bigots and it took me a really really long time to win them over.  My family is becoming mixed ethnicity, about 40% of the people who have married into my family and that have been born into my family in the last 2 generations were latino.

 

I am one of 3 white people that have married into her family, none have had children and I am the only white person that put up with the bigotry long enough to still attend family functions.

My apologies, but what does SES stand for? Sounds tough! Is there a reason for the lack of children?

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#38 Hexagon_777
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Well I had a partner from a different country...one that doesn't exist anymore and lives in a different country then me now to. Native language wasen't english technically but he has spoken it since pretty young when his family came over here or uh well North America anyways so he uses it as his only language. Doesn't like speaking the other one. And I lost my train of thought. Anyway topic creator you need to answer your own question. :|funkadelichika
I'll get to answering my own question eventually. :P

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#39 Hexagon_777
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She's a different nationality then me.

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#40 EJ902
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I'm a white british guy, dating a HK girl, no problems really. Though she said her friends/family back in hk wouldn't approve of her dating a white guy. Apparently we're all loose and "commitment-phobes" which probably describes her better than it does me.
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Yes. I am Asian, she is Caucasian.
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#42 BossPerson
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[QUOTE="Nuck81"]Yes. I'm of English ancestry, She is Welsh

lol
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#43 Hexagon_777
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[QUOTE="Nuck81"]Yes. I'm of English ancestry, She is Welsh BossPerson
lol

I lol'd as well when I read that. :P

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#44 TheFlush
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No, we're both caucasian dutch atheist males.

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#45 GummiRaccoon
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[QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]

[QUOTE="Hexagon_777"]

As in, is your partner of a racial,religious, cultural or linguistic background that is not the same as yours? If so, what are these differences? What challenges or benefits have you two faced in your partnership due to these differences? Feel free to be as detailed as possible!

Hexagon_777

Me: white male, english only, top 10% SES

Her: Chicana/Native American, English and Spanish, bottom 25% SES.

 

The biggest challenge we had was that about half of her family are huge bigots and it took me a really really long time to win them over.  My family is becoming mixed ethnicity, about 40% of the people who have married into my family and that have been born into my family in the last 2 generations were latino.

 

I am one of 3 white people that have married into her family, none have had children and I am the only white person that put up with the bigotry long enough to still attend family functions.

My apologies, but what does SES stand for? Sounds tough! Is there a reason for the lack of children?

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No I am Jewish and she's Palestinian
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#47 deeliman
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[QUOTE="Storm_Marine"]

no partner :(

Wolfetan

I guess you need to imagine one then.
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#48 SilentFireX
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I'm white; she's Hispanic.

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#49 applesxc47
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I'm Australian and she's half Australian and half Indian.

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#50 mrbojangles25
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I'm German and Scottish (white) and my ex is Polynesian and German (1/2 polynesion 1/2 white).

She was awesome.  Didn't date her long enough to get a trip to Hawaii, though