Just been cheated on and lied 2

well ii found out my 11 month gf has cheated on me , she didnt seem liek the cheaitng type, we talked 24/7 ltrically, i am inlove with her and i felt she wasinlove with me 2 til 2 months ago she started to chnage and make mroe lies up of reaosns why she wasn't here to talk to me. foudn out shes dating some guy named Lewis, my gf told me she iwll never cheat , that cheaters are un grateful and if u dont want to be or love that perosn dump them.. she didn't live up to her words obvs its hard to believe people. i asked her who's lewis she said she dont no . i asked him if his dating her he said yah and then she told him to lie say there only friends idk why. i asked her if they kissed she said no , he said theydid kiss. now she claims she dont love him and it was a mistake, and her friends made her date him when she said NO? but yet she still talks to him and still togeher? i asked for the truth , but she has been lying to me for 11 months long even after promising on our rleationship and God since we both believe. i told her not to speak to me anymore, she was crying in tears was painful to watch i cried 2. she said im her only lover and shes inlove with me only and shes gonna dump him, but i seen they recently added eachother on MSN once again . Now she is asking all my friends how to win me back. i don't know whats going on whats ur views on this plz?

I bet spell check feels pretty cheated on right now as well...

The f***?

Let her go. There are plenty of other girls and your relationsip would never be the same after this anyway. It will always linger in your thoughts and you won't be able to trust her. Next thing you know you're going to want to know where she is all the time and then she is going to think you're too clingy and want to break up anyway leaving you further hurt.

Just end it now and say she blew her chance

i don't know whats going on whats ur views on this plz?

AussieePet

I bet spell check feels pretty cheated on right now as well...

Conno08

:lol:

Perfection.

whats your view on this please?

AussieePet

Ask her to make you a sandwich and show her who is BOSS.

you sure your relationship with her was GF? she may see you as a close friend and not as the love relationship one. it isnt her, it just you make a false assumption.

I never saw Just Been Cheated on and Lied 1 so I wouldn't like to comment.SolidSnake35

Oh c'mon, give the guy a break. Comfort him.

(In truth, part 1 didn't go so well that it was scrapped off. Besides, it happened on an alternate universe.) :|

She cheated on you, she's probably not sorry or she wouldn't have done it. But if she was really sorry, why would she add the other guy on MSN? There's no need to keep wasting your time, it sounds like she's doing her best to use you.

That was incredibly hard to read for some reason.

I bet spell check feels pretty cheated on right now as well...

Conno08

I bet spell check feels pretty cheated on right now as well...

Conno08

She deseres to be dumped. Do it now!

Face the facts. It was never going to work out, you have very little time invested in it and you are likely very young and have the vast majority of your life left which will afford you the chance to have this happen many many many times over before you find that special person you can stand being around.

u cant have a realtionship without trust. if u get bak with her every minute she is not with u u will have suspesions and i will eat u out alive . belive me iv been there done that. not worth it u should move on

Ask her to make you a sandwich and show her who is BOSS.

TehFuneral

Asking means requesting. She can decline his request.

No being boss for him.

This thread...

I bet spell check feels pretty cheated on right now as well...

Conno08

She's just upset she got caught. Don't go back to her.

if she cheats then it's probably good that you're not together.

i doubt lewis will last very long... :P

Could be worse. YOu could be married to Anthony Weiner.

Taxidermy is the solution.

I've found that, after taxidermy, they always stay exactly where I want them to.

:twisted:

With grammar like that, who could blame her? You must be a winner.

I'm not normally to call people on grammar, but damn that was hard to read.

If she gave a **** about you she wouldn't have cheated on you. Don't bother with her anymore.

either sweet talk her and f*** her then kick her to the curb

or

go out with her best friend

Break up with her and slam her sister and mother in the back.

either sweet talk her and f*** her then kick her to the curb

needled24-7

this... use her for a while, then when she least expects it DROP HER

revenge is sweet :D

also lrn2grammar

Maybe Lewis can spell. angrules23

Hey ease up, maybe English isn't his first language.

Anyways TC, she sounds dishonest and like bad news. It'd probably be for the best if you cut your losses and considered found someone better. Best of luck to you 8)

It also sounds a bit suspicious that they added each other on MSN again like you mentioned, doesn't sound like she's all that sincere