I recently just met this girl in one of my classes (even though we've had class all year, we haven't talked until we got sat next to eachother and she eventually asked for my number), and I asked her out to the movies. She then suggested we should also do dinner before hand. So we went out to a pizza place, saw "Up" in 3d, and then drove around Seattle, eventually heading out towards the beach. Then we drove back up outside my house, parked, and talked for what seemed to be an hour or two. Then her parents called saying that it's about time she should be going home (at 1:20 AM) and then came the big moment. I didn't go for it. I think she might have been expecting it (or maybe it was because I was expecting to do it) but there was that awkward silence after I said "Well, I guess you better get going". We stared at eachother for a few seconds - and then I said "well, I guess I should get going to bed", said I'd call her tomorrow, and she left (she was the driver). Is it bad if I don't go for the kiss on the first date? At the time, I was afraid it'd be innapropriate considering I just met her - and that breaking that whole "touch barrier" thing was enough. I haven't regretted not doing something this much for awhile.
Do you normally go for the kiss on the first date? Or did I do the right thing? This is a girl that I could actually see myself with for years.
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