lack of confidence on gamespot

can i ask why there seems to be a lack of confidence with gamespot users when it comes to the ways of love/self-esteem. i seem to find tons of people that need help with women/men and i was wondering why is it that we as a people are not taught to have confidence in ourselves and the ways of love. almost every week or so i find a thread containing questions on how to get advice on hooking up with a girl/boy. and then i have these threads about depression and how people seem not to find themselves unattractive. what is up with that. hopefully i am wrong and for some reason all i seem to get is these threads but in any regard heres a couple tips in helping in the ways of love. in a another thread i'll see if i can help with low self-esteem, but for now one problem at a time.

ok 1. 1st off before u can try to please another person and be with them u have to love the person u are. now if u can love yourself how u can u love another. now im not talking about being cocky, but having a inner confidence in yourself, no one is perfect so love yourself for the good things u do and try to fix the bad things u cant do.

2. ok next know your type of girl and be honest with yourself. dont be afraid of rejection because beauty is in the eye of the beholder and not every girl/guy will want to be with you. geez theres billions of women on this planet, sooner or later you'll find your girl or girls. also know the type of women that your attractive to and the ones that will be attractive to your style/behavior. and always alwasy be honest, honesty never fails and any lies always come out.

ok those are just a couple quick tips i believe will help u with love, i could go on more but i have to jet out. let me know if you have something to add or if you think my analysis its just bs to you. since i know this is gamespot i know i will get alot of stupid smart@%% comments, so im ready for it.

It's because we play so many games that we forget how to be human.

Because some of us are non-social geeks to don't have much interaction with other people, or experience in love etc.

For the rest of us it's high here because this is an easy spot to get some okay advice, and since it's anonymous you're gonna see a lot of people asking for help because they don't feel comfortable asking friends or family, especially since the qiestions usually pertain to their friends or family.

It's because we play so many games that we forget how to be human.

WhiteSnake5000

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It's because we play so many games that we forget how to be human.

batman0811

Well some folks on here are anti-social and others are socially awkward.tbone29

It's because we play so many games that we forget how to be human.

WhiteSnake5000

Yeah like WoW.

Oh or those chicks in the encyclopedia dramatica where the girls think they're actually married to Sephiroth. What the shtit is that? haha

Because some of us are non-social geeks to don't have much interaction with other people, or experience in love etc.

For the rest of us it's high here because this is an easy spot to get some okay advice, and since it's anonymous you're gonna see a lot of people asking for help because they don't feel comfortable asking friends or family, especially since the qiestions usually pertain to their friends or family.

DigitalExile

Guys! He said hes ready for all the smart ass comments. Hes prepared. Hes got his Rock Star Juice. His Hot Pockets. Hes got the box of tissues after somebody comes in and breaks him down. But most all, hes got the one thing we don't, confidence. Thanks everyone. I'm armed with facts. Not fictions. My pimphood will finally begin.Wilfred_Owen

I've never understood that notion of 'playing games destroys the ability to be socially adept'. I know lots of people who play games and are probably more socially active than people I know who don't play games. Pff, excuse if you ask me, I second the motion that people do it for anonymous advice.

I've never understood that notion of 'playing games destroys the ability to be socially adept'. I know lots of people who play games and are probably more socially active than people I know who don't play games. Pff, excuse if you ask me, I second the motion that people do it for anonymous advice.

Fenixtiger

Um hello? We aren't all posting anonymously on an open forum because we are master socialites, so why does this surprise you?