last 3 days were a helluva mess...

There was a girl i loved called Sahar for a 2 months and i kept it in secret so only few ppl knew about it and one of them was one of her friends called Carin. 3 days i told her this (that i love her) and she said she doesn't love me back so i felt pretty sad because i loved her so much i don't think there was ever a girl i loved so much like i loved her and this is also the first time i got enoughcourage to tell a girl i love her...anyway i told her everything that i kept it in secret and thatCarin knew about it...yesterday i got a phone from Carin at midnight and shewas mad about me that Sahar is now angry at her that she didn't tell her this secret (which i think it's a stupid reason so stopbeing friendjust because of a stupid secret...)i really felt bad that i cause so many troubles just because of a girl i love...as of now these girl still don't talking even though things getting a bit better and Carin don't really mad about me and Sahar is angry at all the the world and even me started to hate there i just wanted them to be back friends and then i will never talk with Sahar again because this girl really broke my heart...

look at what u've gotten urself into!MichaeltheCM

Yeah man a huge mess...and i really feel bad about it...

I'm going to guess by your username, the girls' names, and your grammer, you are foreign. Might I ask where you are from?zeppelin6591

yeah lol i am from Israel =)

I went through exactly what you went through, (with Sahar though) dont worry my friend, if she doesnt love you back shes not worth it, i kno its hard to forget your love but it'll pass, just keep yourself occupied and when you need to cry, cry, you might be a man but crying is sometimes the best thing to do :) As for getting them 2 to be friends again? I'd say you tell Sahar that you didnt want anyone to tell her that you loved her because this is how she'd react, or that you was nervous and shy - Tell her that Carin was only being a friend, and that you asked her to keep it a secret and that she is not to blame - If it doesnt work, then im sorry :(Dante865

Tnx man that's a good advice =) i actually told them to forgive each other and as of now things getting a bit better. and yes Sahar doesn't worth it i really got hurt from her...

Tnx man that's a good advice =) i actually told them to forgive each other and as of now things getting a bit better. and yes Sahar doesn't worth it i really got hurt from her...Hiddai

Attaboy :) Dont tell us your age, if your young - Just stay away from girls till your about 16, there just trouble at this age i hope you take advantage of this advice!

[QUOTE="Hiddai"]Tnx man that's a good advice =) i actually told them to forgive each other and as of now things getting a bit better. and yes Sahar doesn't worth it i really got hurt from her...Dante865

Attaboy :) Dont tell us your age, if your young - Just stay away from girls till your about 16, there just trouble at this age i hope you take advantage of this advice!

Yeah. If you are under 16 don't even bother with girls.

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[QUOTE="Hiddai"]Tnx man that's a good advice =) i actually told them to forgive each other and as of now things getting a bit better. and yes Sahar doesn't worth it i really got hurt from her...Mercury_May2112

Attaboy :) Dont tell us your age, if your young - Just stay away from girls till your about 16, there just trouble at this age i hope you take advantage of this advice!

Yeah. If you are under 16 don't even bother with girls.

actually i am 16 lol

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[QUOTE="Hiddai"]Tnx man that's a good advice =) i actually told them to forgive each other and as of now things getting a bit better. and yes Sahar doesn't worth it i really got hurt from her...Hiddai

Attaboy :) Dont tell us your age, if your young - Just stay away from girls till your about 16, there just trouble at this age i hope you take advantage of this advice!

Yeah. If you are under 16 don't even bother with girls.

actually i am 16 lol

Ohh. Ok. Then go nuts.;)

People at thirteen have no idea what love is.zeus_gb

fixed. There are plenty of mature people at 16.

[QUOTE="zeus_gb"]People at thirteen have no idea what love is.Mercury_May2112

fixed. There are plenty of mature people at 16.

Sixteen is still way too young to know what real love is. I've never met a sixteen year old that's mature enough to know what love is.

[QUOTE="zeus_gb"]People at thirteen have no idea what love is.Mercury_May2112

fixed. There are plenty of mature people at 16.

I have never had a gf so i don't know exactly how is it...i really felt i did the right thing with her (that i said i loved her) but seems like it was a mistake because she broke my heart...

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[QUOTE="zeus_gb"]People at thirteen have no idea what love is.zeus_gb

fixed. There are plenty of mature people at 16.

Sixteen is still way too young to know what real love is. I've never met a sixteen year old that's mature enough to know what love is.

Then you must hang out with the kids who get stoned 24/7. My cousin was dating her future husband at 15. My parents dated at 16. There are tons of examples of mature 16 year olds out there.

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[QUOTE="zeus_gb"]People at thirteen have no idea what love is.zeus_gb

fixed. There are plenty of mature people at 16.

Sixteen is still way too young to know what real love is. I've never met a sixteen year old that's mature enough to know what love is.

I'm going to have to agree on this one. I have yet to meat anyone 16 years old who was mature enough to grasp the concept. Oddly enough, I have yet to meet one that didn't think he/she did understand it. That's a very confusing age, it seems.

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[QUOTE="zeus_gb"]People at thirteen have no idea what love is.Mercury_May2112

fixed. There are plenty of mature people at 16.

Sixteen is still way too young to know what real love is. I've never met a sixteen year old that's mature enough to know what love is.

Then you must hang out with the kids who get stoned 24/7. My cousin was dating her future husband at 15. My parents dated at 16. There are tons of examples of mature 16 year olds out there.

what a mess indeed.

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[QUOTE="zeus_gb"]People at thirteen have no idea what love is.masterchief2512

fixed. There are plenty of mature people at 16.

Sixteen is still way too young to know what real love is. I've never met a sixteen year old that's mature enough to know what love is.

I'm going to have to agree on this one. I have yet to meat anyone 16 years old who was mature enough to grasp the concept. Oddly enough, I have yet to meet one that didn't think he/she did understand it. That's a very confusing age, it seems.

I am really feel mature enough (ok everyone would say this...) i mean i really search for a real love in my life i am not the type of guys who will date a girl just for sex or so i do it for real relations...

You didn't do anything wrong by telling a girl you were interested. Don't be afraid to talk to a girl and let her know you're interested. Just scale it back a little and don't get carried away.

Save the "I love you" for a much later time, once you've been with a girl for a while and you're sure you mean it. Saying that is kind of a big deal, so it probably scared her off, and she thought you were coming on too strong.

Maybe Sahar was angry that her real name was Sarah....southy787

haaa lol no Sarah is also a jewish name you know...sahar is seems to be an arabic name but i don't know (she's a jew too).

You didn't do anything wrong by telling a girl you were interested. Don't be afraid to talk to a girl and let her know you're interested. Just scale it back a little and don't get carried away.

Save the "I love you" for a much later time, once you've been with a girl for a while and you're sure you mean it. Saying that is kind of a big deal, so it probably scared her off, and she thought you were coming on too strong.

CheddarLimbo

Yes i think you right =)

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[QUOTE="zeus_gb"]People at thirteen have no idea what love is.zeus_gb

fixed. There are plenty of mature people at 16.

Sixteen is still way too young to know what real love is. I've never met a sixteen year old that's mature enough to know what love is.

Well, here i am :)

I'm going to have to agree on this one. I have yet to meat anyone 16 years old who was mature enough to grasp the concept. Oddly enough, I have yet to meet one that didn't think he/she did understand it. That's a very confusing age, it seems.

masterchief2512

Love is a state of mind only. Therefore, if you feel you are in love then you are. And NO ONE ever understands it....no matter the age.

You might have been a little too forward, but at least you told her how you felt.SolidSnake35

i don't think so this girl didn't love me anyway all that time...and just to make this mess even "messier" she hided from me the fact that she loved another friend of mine in last month and they both were in love and that boy decided they can't be together (this boy was german and they loved each other from the Internet W-T-F!!! arrgghh. i mean yeah we know this guy because we were in a German-Israeli exchange students program - which is also how i knew Sahar...but they loved each other after we came back and when i found that i wanted to die really but now i see she isn't worth nothing!!!)

[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]You might have been a little too forward, but at least you told her how you felt.Hiddai

i don't think so this girl didn't love me anyway all that time...and just to make this mess even "messier" she hided from me the fact that she loved another friend of mine in last month and they both were in love and that boy decided they can't be together (this boy was german and they loved each other from the Internet W-T-F!!! arrgghh. i mean yeah we know this guy because we were in a German-Israeli exchange students program - which is also how i knew Sahar...but they loved each other after we came back and when i found that i wanted to die really but now i see she isn't worth nothing!!!)

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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]You might have been a little too forward, but at least you told her how you felt.SolidSnake35

i don't think so this girl didn't love me anyway all that time...and just to make this mess even "messier" she hided from me the fact that she loved another friend of mine in last month and they both were in love and that boy decided they can't be together (this boy was german and they loved each other from the Internet W-T-F!!! arrgghh. i mean yeah we know this guy because we were in a German-Israeli exchange students program - which is also how i knew Sahar...but they loved each other after we came back and when i found that i wanted to die really but now i see she isn't worth nothing!!!)

I think that because i talk about it here i feel like istarting to forgether (lol) the problem is to find this girl you know which is always seems to be impossible but hey i pray for god she will come...

This was my reaction after reading your post.

This was my reaction after reading your post.

GettingTired

That's really awesome.

Ditto ^^ Your 16 right? I know its under age but, go clubbing :) Socialise, get laid, meet someone - just dont go for the really tipsy ones you dont know if there drugged "/Dante865

oh i am not this type of guy lol i really searchfor areal love not sex or so. Beside in Israel all clubs belongs to the mafia hell no i am not going to these places...ROFL