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#1 ReaperZA
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I was wondering, is there anything that attracts us to the opposite sex besides the physical nature of things? I mean do we always choose our gf/bf based on looks and if not how or what do you base it on? Maybe it has to do more with how we "feel" when we tlk to some one, something like gut instincts?

And in the end, does this analysis work!? Can you go up to some1 you find attractive and make a relationship that works out of it even if its purely physical attraction from the start, or must there be something else too? :shock:

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#2 Omni-Slash
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We meet people and our innitial draw to those we want to know is by physical attraction (more tiems than not)......but the other things have to exist for me to make a relationship work long term is a quick wit.....intelligence.....a caring and compassionate personality..........
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#3 Thor155
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It's a bit of everything. You could be initially attracted to someone for their looks but you would stay with them because of their personality etc etc, or if you get to know someone well enough looks won't even come into the picture
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#5 Sajo7
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Are you talking about a relationship in genereal or attraction beforehand?
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#6 ReaperZA
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Are you talking about a relationship in genereal or attraction beforehand?Sajo7

Both actually, can you be attracted to someone on anything besides a physical basis is also something Im wondering about...If it isnt possible than I guess ugly guys finish last! :P But does that imply that ugly guys are good as as the saying is "good guys finish last"? ;)

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#7 mattyftm
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The human brain is a complicated and weird thing.
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#8 Sajo7
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[QUOTE="Sajo7"]Are you talking about a relationship in genereal or attraction beforehand?ReaperZA

Both actually, can you be attracted to someone on anything besides a physical basis is also something Im wondering about...

Well concerning attraction before the actual relationship I guess sweettalk might attract you.

If it helps, I attempt to date girls who I find attractive and aren't total *****es. Then from there personality plays a bigger part in how long we stay together.

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#9 SolidSnake35
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I can never justify, to myself, why I like someone. >_>
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#10 ReaperZA
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I can never justify, to myself, why I like someone. >_>SolidSnake35

Pure "chemistry" then?

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#11 XFull_MetalX
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It's a number of things.