Meeting girls at college?

How do I do that? I mean, I've engaged in some conversations with some, but nothing really serious. I am currently a junior and never have had a girlfriend in my life (or ANYTHING of the sort). I got turned down by a fraternity, so those doors are closed. What should I do?

Take as many humanities classes as you can and be as personable as you can.

Also what is the female to male ratio at your school?  the more female heavy the easier it is to get action.  

Also, ask girls out.  Girls typically don't ask guys out unless there is something amazing about them (rich, athlete, incredible looking)

Just asking out random girls that you see, as long as you aren't hideous, should give you about a 10% success rate.

Do what you love doing and you will find her eventually.

Just socialize. Go out and do stuff.

How do I do that? I mean, I've engaged in some conversations with some, but nothing really serious. I am currently a junior and never have had a girlfriend in my life (or ANYTHING of the sort). I got turned down by a fraternity, so those doors are closed. What should I do?

the_plan_man

I found that drinking helps.

Also, and this is just me personally, but I need to get to know a girl a bit.  Or she needs to get to know me lol.  I'm not really a "meet a girl at a bar and take her home" kind of guy.  I am more of a "sit next to a girl in class and grow on her and invite her over".

Either way, just realize they are people like you.  Just be direct and don't bullshit them.  I mean, there is definitely a "game" to play at times when flirting with some women, but if you don't want to play it, don't.  Just be straight up, play the odds, and you'll find yours.

Go to a club on campus.  Any club that sparks your interest.  It's way easier to find women when you know you have common ground.

Acquire aesthetics.

is this how you animals see women? as some prey in college and you are the predetor?

is this how you animals see women? as some prey in college and you are the predetor?

GrayF0X786

is this how you animals see women? as some prey in college and you are the predetor?

GrayF0X786

I guess this is one way:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1mRM1VwUiYA

Two words: Group Projects.

Go with some of your friends and just walk around campus and start flirting with random girls, trying to get their number. If something goes wrong (you start act weird, freeze up, start being awkward, etc.), you can just use an excuse like "my friends dared me to walk up to you, I'm just kidding around", and that's that. 

May sound stupid, but I've done it a couple times and it's worked pretty decently. The most important part is to make sure you have friends around in the distance watching you talk to her, they will give you even more confidence, and if you get rejected you can just laugh it off with your buds. 

it's not very hard to figure it out--just make small talk with girls in your class and go from there. the hard part is having the confidence to do that and not come off as awkward

Yeah taking humanities classes will expose you to girls.

But you have to remember that you are not going to colleg to pick up girls, you have to think of first getting adegree andeducation that wil land you a proper job.

Use your spare time to hang out at parties. Get involved in group activities etc.

Well you will have a better shot of meeting girls at parties, bars, clubs in college. I was a shy guy in college and I didn't go out to clubs and bars much,  so I only meet a few girls who weren't into the club scene. 

I met my wife while working a part time job during college.  I'd suggest getting a job at a clothing store - worked for me.

Join clubs, study groups, hang out with friends and meet new people. GhoX

Go to a club on campus.  Any club that sparks your interest.  It's way easier to find women when you know you have common ground.

starfox15

"How did you do on the homework?" That's my pick up line lol. I swear to God I've gotten so many lady friends because of that simple question. And one of those girls eventually became my girlfriend; whom I am still dating for two years now. :D

Oh if the prof. doesn't give homework then say, "So what do you think of the professor?"

The real question is how do you meet girls after you've left college?

The real question is how do you meet girls after you've left college?

dominer

College is for Educations and you ppls make it Dating point.

SNIPER4321

it's the only time in your life you're going to be around hundreds of single people that are around your age and of roughly the same educational level/social status.

The real question is how do you meet girls after you've left college?

dominer

this

[QUOTE="djshowstopper87"]Well you will have a better shot of meeting girls at parties, SNIPER4321

Bars, frats, and clubs.Pittfan666

did you even read the op?

The real question is how do you meet girls after you've left college?

dominer

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The real question is how do you meet girls after you've left college?

THGarrett

is this how you animals see women? as some prey in college and you are the predetor?

GrayF0X786

i'm uncomfortable with that particular word. But yes, something like that.

[QUOTE="dominer"]

The real question is how do you meet girls after you've left college?

Storm_Marine

this

Go to a party... Ask a girl a neutral question.. Show mixed signals and confidence.. and act like you have somewhere to be while youre talking.. Then get their phone number after a minute or two of talking. Didn't work? Keep doing it till it does.

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[QUOTE="dominer"]

The real question is how do you meet girls after you've left college?

the_plan_man

this

other people have said enough on the topic

How do I do that? I mean, I've engaged in some conversations with some, but nothing really serious.

the_plan_man

also, you've been there for what? A week? Were you expecting a GF day one?

Ok, here it is, I'm going to give you, from my personal experience, the most effective pick up line. It goes like this: "Hi, how are you." Then you talk to her.  You can use it on girls you meet anywhere, class, clubs, parties. Also, be honest about your targets/prospects.