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#1 Anarchist-TKC-1
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I just found out my Mum has lung cancer. It's spread from the right lung to the left and is climbing up her neck. Utterly devastated. It was expected, but seriously what do I do with that information?!

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#2 X360PS3AMD05
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You crunch! and maybe folding@home...
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#3 pete_merlin
Member since 2007 • 6098 Posts

You be there for your mother, she needs you and everyone else she cares about.

Sorry to hear the bad news dude :(

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#4 gamespot4life
Member since 2007 • 1302 Posts

Im sorry to hear that last yr I found out that my father also has lung cancer, you should make the best out of every moment that you can when you are with her. And honestly try not to post stuff like that on a website like this because you know there are people on here who dont rly care and will make a joke at your exspense.

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#5 MoonMarvel
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Just spend as much time as you can with her. I wish I could tell you there is a chance she will be ok, I just dont know.
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#6 PeaceChild90
Member since 2009 • 781 Posts

I'm really sorry. :(

I hope she can make it through the cancer. If I was in this situation, I would be so devistated.

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#7 Solid_Tango
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Really sorry to hear that dude i hope she finds a treatment or something, spend as much time as you can with her
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#8 samuraiguns
Member since 2005 • 11588 Posts

my mom had breast cancer, she caught it early and had it removed...

maybe yours can do the same.

Then again she works in a cancer specialization hospital...

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#9 Hate_Squad
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as harsh as it sounds you should start getting used to her death,when cancer jumps to another organ its almost incurable,especially if one of those is the lungs.Just hope she goes out quickly.

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#10 racing1750
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So sorry to hear man. My biggest fear is my mum getting cancer, so i know how devastated you must be.
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#11 muller39
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Sorry to hear about that man. Cherish however time you have left with her.

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#13 thespywholied
Member since 2008 • 3358 Posts

God damn it...

This is very sad news damn i lost someone close to me last month due to cancer but it was not my mum or dad.

Hope there is hope for your mum.

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#14 Kenny789
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Be there for your mom! And I'm very sorry to hear that :(
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#15 KGB32
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That's terrible!! Just try and give her peace of mind. I really hate that for you.
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#16 Zerocrossings
Member since 2006 • 7988 Posts

Im sorry to hear that. :( But you should be mentally prepared for losing her, but i do hope she recovers.

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#17 Anarchist-TKC-1
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Thanks guys :( No idea why I posted that news on public forums, when nobody here knows me or even knows my Mum... guess it's just really just being human. I know I can't do anything but wait until it happens. Not sure if I should be angry for her smoking (always told her all my life to quit), don't know to ignore this and just be sad or just try my best and hide this and deal with things as normal/better. Problem being is I am planning to leave the Country in 2 months to be with my partner and with this sad news, no idea if it's going to be a matter of weeks, months or years. So if I go and things turn for the worse, how bad would that be?! Anyway, I'm grateful for your kind words. It's something which you don't want to believe and ignore until it happens to you/your family.
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#18 -eddy-
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My mom died a year ago. She had something wrong with her lungs, been smoking for years. It literally happened over night. Just make sure you let your mom know you love her. I felt horrible never really making that clear for her. Don't start thinking she's gonna die though. That's no good for anyone, especially for her.
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#19 gamedude2020
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I'm really sorry to hear that man :(

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#20 Xorital
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i'd probably be more sympathetic if I cared if my mom got cancer.

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#21 Trollsters
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I just found out my Mum has lung cancer. It's spread from the right lung to the left and is climbing up her neck. Utterly devastated. It was expected, but seriously what do I do with that information?!

Anarchist-TKC-1
Sorry to hear that, i cant imagine what id do. I know that i would spend as much time as i possibly could with her.
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#22 pete_merlin
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Hope for the best but prepare for the worst.

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#23 XilePrincess
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That's terrible :( I'm really sorry to hear that. Spend as much time as you can with her.
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#25 Nifty_Shark
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Do your best to carry on with life and be supportive of your mother. Hard to do much else cause it's out of your hands.
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#26 BiancaDK
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Hope for the best but prepare for the worst.

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#27 MgamerBD
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Only thing I can say is support her. Be there by her side. I'm sorry but life is tragedy...
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#28 JohnnyWPSP
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Sorry to hear that :(. Try to spend a lot of time with her.

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#29 Pirate700
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Very sorry to hear this. :(

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#30 GenTom
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found out a few months ago my dad has bowel cancer. Fortunatly it was stage 2/3 so his operation is next week (8 hour op to remove his bowel). Sorry to hear about your mum though.
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#31 Ghost_702
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That sucks man. Hang out with her and have some fun. Don't act all sad around her because who wants to live the rest of their days in negativity? Be fun and happy. Also consider getting yourself checked on a regular basis to see if you're getting cancer. A family of cancer patients isn't typically a good sign, even if it is just one person.