My 13 year old cousin has a girlfriend. I'm 21, and haven't had anyone.

Yep, good ol' fashion facebook style "so and so is now in a relationship with so and so". Oh joy :roll:

I don't know what to say, I'm happy for him. He grew up without a dad around so I guess people like him find hapiness outside of the home. And obviously I shouldn't get a girlfriend just for a sake of having one. But still....I'm 21

No, I wouldn't consider myself a loser. I have friends, I have a job, I go to school, I exercise, and workout, and lost weight. Yet I can't seem to get to that step....you get close to someone, you ask them out, then boom......

Anyone in a similar boat? I'm happy for him but jealous at the same time.

He should have a girlfriend because he doesn't have a dad but you shouldn't have one because you do have a dad? What kind of crap is that?

Get off your computer and go outside. Socalise and talk to women. Flirt with them and see what happens. Expect rejection, when it happens just move on to the next girl and start the process over. If you do this to 50 different women, you are bound to find one of them that would be interested in you.

Project confidence and you'll do fine.

Jealous? Jealous because you have more time to do the things that you actually want, instead of doing something that you would regret?

Get off your computer and go outside. Socalise and talk to women.

The_Gaming_Baby

He should have a girlfriend because he doesn't have a dad but you shouldn't have one because you do have a dad? What kind of crap is that?

Get off your computer and go outside. Socalise and talk to women.

The_Gaming_Baby

He should have a girlfriend because he doesn't have a dad but you shouldn't have one because you do have a dad? What kind of crap is that?

Get off your computer and go outside. Socalise and talk to women.

The_Gaming_Baby

[QUOTE="The_Gaming_Baby"]

He should have a girlfriend because he doesn't have a dad but you shouldn't have one because you do have a dad? What kind of crap is that?

Get off your computer and go outside. Socalise and talk to women.

_VenomX

[QUOTE="Sunsha"]He's 13. It's not a meaningful relationship. Why would you be jealous? Why would you care at all?lonewolf604

as long as he doesn't know about it,you're fine,atleast he can't shove in your face or something.

So what?

When I was in elementary, two kindergarden (sp?) kids (a boy and a girl) were pretty much acting like a couple, hugging, kissing etc, no joke. Should every person older than them feel bad about themselves.

A "relationship" at the age of 13 has nothing to do with a relationship at, say, 20 or older (not speaking from experience - just my thoughts).

I'm 39 y.o and never had a girlfriend. Never even had sex but you don't see me complain about it. But I'm very poor, ugly and fat so no wonder I can't get one.

Realtionships at 13 years or so would not really last. Trust me, I am in your shoes 19, no girlfriend. Eventually I got agirlfriend just this year. To me, I believe the key to getting into a relationship is to be patient. With that it will be worth the wait because you will find the girl you have been looking for (well hopefully)

at least he can't shove in your face or something.

VaguelyTagged

If only that were true.

It's not like she's a real girlfriend are they sexually active?Fightingfan

Because throughout my life I've never had the balls to get close to a girl and ask her out. Well, I have a couple times but I wouldn't consider them dates or anything. lonewolf604

[QUOTE="lonewolf604"]Because throughout my life I've never had the balls to get close to a girl and ask her out. Well, I have a couple times but I wouldn't consider them dates or anything. Sunsha

[QUOTE="Fightingfan"]It's not like she's a real girlfriend are they sexually active?Thug2Wasteland

[QUOTE="Thug2Wasteland"][QUOTE="Fightingfan"]It's not like she's a real girlfriend are they sexually active?MushroomWig

[QUOTE="Thug2Wasteland"][QUOTE="Fightingfan"]It's not like she's a real girlfriend are they sexually active?MushroomWig

Dude it's Friday night, you should be hanging out with your friends not posting on the internet. Your friends probably know some girls, or at least know some other friends who know some girls. That's how you meet them.

[QUOTE="MushroomWig"][QUOTE="Thug2Wasteland"]Considering that his cousin is 13 years old? No I don't think so. Usually sexual hormones happen around 14-15. I could be wrong though.mrmusicman247

So what?

When I was in elementary, two kindergarden (sp?) kids (a boy and a girl) were pretty much acting like a couple, hugging, kissing etc, no joke. Should every person older than them feel bad about themselves.

A "relationship" at the age of 13 has nothing to do with a relationship at, say, 20 or older (not speaking from experience - just my thoughts).

Teenaged

[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

So what?

When I was in elementary, two kindergarden (sp?) kids (a boy and a girl) were pretty much acting like a couple, hugging, kissing etc, no joke. Should every person older than them feel bad about themselves.

A "relationship" at the age of 13 has nothing to do with a relationship at, say, 20 or older (not speaking from experience - just my thoughts).

VaguelyTagged

[QUOTE="Sunsha"]He's 13. It's not a meaningful relationship. Why would you be jealous? Why would you care at all?lonewolf604

Then CHANGE THAT! It is really that simple. You need to actually put in that effort, show you are interested and MAKE SOME MOVES!

You will get rejected at some point, I am sure. It is a given.

Thing is, you learn from those experiences and you take that knowlege to learn more about yourself and improve yourself. Then in time, you find one who says yes and then low and behold, you have a relationship.

I am 22 and just got my first Girlfriend this year. We have been dating for about 2 1/2 months now and it has been great and well worth the wait.

Leading up to this was multiple rejections, then actually sucesses with getting A DATE which still lead to rejection after that first date including almost a full year of using a dating site before I actually had a sucessful date.

Thing is, I felt better about myself after going through each rejection and I learned things along the way. Learned what I liked and learned how to be more calm and comfortable and prepared for that dreaded first date and overall I just became more naturally confident in myself after being a socially akward, anxiety ridden, self-esteem lacking beta male my entire life.

It took a hell of alot of work with alot of trial and error to finlly get a GF like I wanted to. You need to put in the effort to get what you want.

After all, they say that nothing in life comes easy.

[QUOTE="VaguelyTagged"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]

So what?

When I was in elementary, two kindergarden (sp?) kids (a boy and a girl) were pretty much acting like a couple, hugging, kissing etc, no joke. Should every person older than them feel bad about themselves.

A "relationship" at the age of 13 has nothing to do with a relationship at, say, 20 or older (not speaking from experience - just my thoughts).

Teenaged

Dude it's Friday night, you should be hanging out with your friends not posting on the internet. Your friends probably know some girls, or at least know some other friends who know some girls. That's how you meet them.

Jackc8

What the hell does him not having a dad have to do with him having a girl Bucked20

Relationships are overrated. Personally I'm better off being alone.

I'm 39 y.o and never had a girlfriend. Never even had sex but you don't see me complain about it. But I'm very poor, ugly and fat so no wonder I can't get one.

roboticman2

lol

13 year olds generally don't tend to have meaningful, long term relationships, so don't feel too bad.XilePrincess

Pretty much what I was thinking.

Having no relationship is probably the same or better than having a 13 year old relationship.XilePrincess

No, not really. Even if it's not a meaningful, long term relationship, it's still experience.

things happen faster than others.ive know a guy who didnt lose his vag till he was 29.sometimes women are trouble or cause them just let it ride out.i can tell yea when a break up goes wrong it messes you up.

Pretty sad on your part that you are upset that your cousin actually has game. Get off Gamespot and go to a bar or something. Dawg, you need to get your butt LAID SON!TonyDanzaFan

Sounds like someone is jelly. :P

Yep, good ol' fashion facebook style "so and so is now in a relationship with so and so". Oh joy :roll:

I don't know what to say, I'm happy for him. He grew up without a dad around so I guess people like him find hapiness outside of the home. And obviously I shouldn't get a girlfriend just for a sake of having one. But still....I'm 21

No, I wouldn't consider myself a loser. I have friends, I have a job, I go to school, I exercise, and workout, and lost weight. Yet I can't seem to get to that step....you get close to someone, you ask them out, then boom......

Anyone in a similar boat? I'm happy for him but jealous at the same time.

lonewolf604

Just be thankful you aren't dating one of those... skanks, who don't even dress modestly!

Dude it's your 13 year old cousin. You're 8 years older than him. Man up and suck it up, he's a kid and he shouldn't be making you feel jealous. If you really want a girlfriend that bad, get out there and just keep trying until you find one. It's not as hard as it seems, and really you shouldn't care if your cousin has a girlfriend in the first place.

[QUOTE="Jackc8"]

Dude it's Friday night, you should be hanging out with your friends not posting on the internet. Your friends probably know some girls, or at least know some other friends who know some girls. That's how you meet them.

lonewolf604

Well you've got some socializing going on, that's good. Are you interested in this girl from out of town? Do you think she might be interested in you? Why don't you ask her out and see what happens?