my first girl thread- a sad day.

Whatsup OT.

SO! I am a sophomore in college and I have this friend that I met last year. I like her alot and we have always kinda flirted. Anyway, there was a party at this guys house the other night. She told me a few days prior that she might go, and I decided that I would if she would (or my room mate, but he didnt). So the night of the thing she had some friends from her home town come to visit and we were texting back and forth as she and her friends were deciding if they wanted to go. she said she would call me if they wanted to go. i offered to be DD, she said she wouldnt be drinking anyway though.

well, i never got a call or text saying they were going so i assume they didn't. i wake up this morning and am talking to my OTHER roomie who was there (i am not close friends with him yet so he wasnt a deciding factor). anyway, he told me that SHE.WAS.THERE. and ALSO, she got drunk.

So OT, looks like a I was blown off, eh? how do i approach her about this?

Take it from somebody who has a lot of experience...

You can try maybe one or two more times with her, and if she continues to blow you off, just completely ignore her and move on. Women like that are absolutely not worth waiting around for. There are plenty of girls in college. You have three more years assuming you just started your sophomore year, so it's not like you're short on time.

Also, if you end up going to graduate school, law school, or medical school, you'll have 2 to 4 more years. Don't sweat it. There's no rush.

Obviously you got blown off, so forget about her and move on.

be casuall about it dont sweat if she blew u off one time..she was to drunk to remember sigh

You should have gone to the party regardless.

Take it from somebody who has a lot of experience...

You can try maybe one or two more times with her, and if she continues to blow you off, just completely ignore her and move on. Women like that are absolutely not worth waiting around for. There are plenty of girls in college. You have three more years assuming you just started your sophomore year, so it's not like you're short on time.

Also, if you end up going to graduate school, law school, or medical school, you'll have 2 to 4 more years. Don't sweat it. There's no rush.

Elephant_Couple

So, you mean plenty of fish in the sea?

OK then. Experienced man, gotcha.

You should have gone to the party regardless.

Dawq902

I agree.

There's plenty of easy catch in that sea.

(Hint: Easy catch are the loose women and sea is the party.)

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You should have gone to the party regardless.

moccassins

I agree.

There's plenty of easy fish in that sea.

(Hint: Easy fish are the loose women and sea is the party.)

Yes.

Take it from somebody who has a lot of experience...

You can try maybe one or two more times with her, and if she continues to blow you off, just completely ignore her and move on. Women like that are absolutely not worth waiting around for. There are plenty of girls in college. You have three more years assuming you just started your sophomore year, so it's not like you're short on time.

Also, if you end up going to graduate school, law school, or medical school, you'll have 2 to 4 more years. Don't sweat it. There's no rush.

[QUOTE="Elephant_Couple"]

Take it from somebody who has a lot of experience...

You can try maybe one or two more times with her, and if she continues to blow you off, just completely ignore her and move on. Women like that are absolutely not worth waiting around for. There are plenty of girls in college. You have three more years assuming you just started your sophomore year, so it's not like you're short on time.

Also, if you end up going to graduate school, law school, or medical school, you'll have 2 to 4 more years. Don't sweat it. There's no rush.

lil_zelda_dude

If TC is just looking for sex and not an actual relationship, then there is plenty of fish in that sea.

[QUOTE="lil_zelda_dude"][QUOTE="Elephant_Couple"]

Take it from somebody who has a lot of experience...

You can try maybe one or two more times with her, and if she continues to blow you off, just completely ignore her and move on. Women like that are absolutely not worth waiting around for. There are plenty of girls in college. You have three more years assuming you just started your sophomore year, so it's not like you're short on time.

Also, if you end up going to graduate school, law school, or medical school, you'll have 2 to 4 more years. Don't sweat it. There's no rush.

moccassins

If TC is just looking for sex and not an actual relationship, then there is plenty of fish in that sea.

Wait...isn't that what we're talking about?

^ Then that was amazing advice.

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[QUOTE="lil_zelda_dude"] This is why you dont ask these things on GamespotElephant_Couple

If TC is just looking for sex and not an actual relationship, then there is plenty of fish in that sea.

Wait...isn't that what we're talking about?

TC would like a relationship.

^ Then that was horrible advice.

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[QUOTE="moccassins"]

If TC is just looking for sex and not an actual relationship, then there is plenty of fish in that sea.

IronBeaver

Wait...isn't that what we're talking about?

TC would like a relationship.

Oh..

.

FML.

i don't know why i'm always the one who should ask this:is she even hot?

^ Wut? Why are you asking the TC that? That seems like a very inexperienced question...

:?

...Hit it and quit it?

she's not your girlfriend... don't let it bother you

Whatsup OT.

SO! I am a sophomore in college and I have this friend that I met last year. I like her alot and we have always kinda flirted. Anyway, there was a party at this guys house the other night. She told me a few days prior that she might go, and I decided that I would if she would (or my room mate, but he didnt). So the night of the thing she had some friends from her home town come to visit and we were texting back and forth as she and her friends were deciding if they wanted to go. she said she would call me if they wanted to go. i offered to be DD, she said she wouldnt be drinking anyway though.

well, i never got a call or text saying they were going so i assume they didn't. i wake up this morning and am talking to my OTHER roomie who was there (i am not close friends with him yet so he wasnt a deciding factor). anyway, he told me that SHE.WAS.THERE. and ALSO, she got drunk.

So OT, looks like a I was blown off, eh? how do i approach her about this?

IronBeaver

She thinks her s*** don't stink, so leave her be and find somebody that deserves you.

Meat_Wad_Fan

but roses really smell like poo poo ohhh

another sad tale of a male invertebrate.

you tell her to pick you up at 8, and that your are gonna be hittin the sauce hard starting at noon so if she gives you any flak some backhands might start flying and you dont like condoms so you are gonna be ridin her bareback that night.

Women like a strong man that puts them in their place. Something about crappy male role models in their life or something.

but seriously... the best method is to not approach. Ignore her, and she will wonder why you are ignoring her.. and when you do talk to her, act disinterested.. end the conversation abruptly on a "look i got some stuff to do so ill talk to you later". Women hate when you dont pay attention to them.. and it turns them on.

can you make another topic about youre other day, cause i can see you are making that of a big deal that you have to make a topic

Whatsup OT.

SO! I am a sophomore in college and I have this friend that I met last year. I like her alot and we have always kinda flirted. Anyway, there was a party at this guys house the other night. She told me a few days prior that she might go, and I decided that I would if she would (or my room mate, but he didnt). So the night of the thing she had some friends from her home town come to visit and we were texting back and forth as she and her friends were deciding if they wanted to go. she said she would call me if they wanted to go. i offered to be DD, she said she wouldnt be drinking anyway though.

well, i never got a call or text saying they were going so i assume they didn't. i wake up this morning and am talking to my OTHER roomie who was there (i am not close friends with him yet so he wasnt a deciding factor). anyway, he told me that SHE.WAS.THERE. and ALSO, she got drunk.

So OT, looks like a I was blown off, eh? how do i approach her about this?

IronBeaver

As far as "calling her out", this is a horrendous idea. Say you didn't end up going because you did X instead or you got sick or something. Next time you want to go out drinking with her either invite her to pregame at somewhere or just go to the same party as her and meet up -- don't offer to DD her to the party with your attendance being related to her going.

In general though it sounds like you're screwed. It doesn't sound like she wants to be anything more than friends. If you really want to be more than friends your only shot is probably just getting drunk with her and then you guys start fooling around, though I'm finding this highly unlikely anyway.

So OT, looks like a I was blown off, eh?

IronBeaver

Forget about her, she's a stupid b**ch.

yea move on, and stop whining like a b**ch

Unfortunately by "just asking" you set yourself up for more dissapointment. Trust me! I've been in this situation and its not pretty.

After you casually ask about it, she'll most likely say something like, "Sorry! I forgot" or "I just assumed you'd go" and because you like her you'll accept it and move on as if it was nothing. You get your hopes up and you keep chasing. Unfortunately, shes already shown the capacity to completely blow you off, no call, no message, nothing. If she was interested she would say SOMETHING rather than nothing at all so I can almost guarantee something like this will happen again. In the end, it'll only lead you to more hurt feelings and more dissapointment as you get "invest" more into going after her.

I know its not easy to hear, but the best thing would be to just move on right now and keep your friendship, nothing beyond that. You've got more years of college ahead of you so there should be other chances. If you wait around for this girl, you'll most likely waste all your years at college and end up with nothing(exactly what happened to me)

I might seem negative, but its just I've been in this exact situation before, and it turned out pretty bad for me. I chased the girl for 3 years and I kept accepting "being blown off" as nothing when it was really a sign she wasn't interested. I ended up resenting a friend and wasting some years at universtiy(still got a couple left thankfully)

Ok. We talked. It was truly pathetic. Basically, shot got "distracted", and lost her phone. I told her "Thats...embarassing." And she said "sorry i was with my friend and this guy i am seeing."

yeah. i wont be talking to her anytime soon. Thanks anyway, OT :(

P.S.- I hate all women.

Ok. We talked. It was truly pathetic. Basically, shot got "distracted", and lost her phone. I told her "Thats...embarassing." And she said "sorry i was with my friend and this guy i am seeing."

yeah. i wont be talking to her anytime soon. Thanks anyway, OT :(

P.S.- I hate all women.

IronBeaver

Nice!! Now all you have to do is get her to leave the guy she's currently seeing, and you're in business! Just tell her that you think about her day and night, you love her, and you want to be with her forever. It might seem a little weird since you barely know her, but i guarantee you her heart will melt, and she'll do anything for you. Trust me, it works. I do it all the time.

I would avoid trying to date her...parties and lack of responsibility in regards to alcohol consumption...recipe for disaster..