My friend did something really stupid and it effects me

So my friend went and kinda told this girl I liked her and almost ruined any chance I think I might of had but I really felt like I loved her before thishappend so should I talk to her myself and tell her how I feel or should I just let her go.

I say go and talk to her. What do you have to lose? If she says she'd rather be friends, then take advantage of that. Chances are she has friends. Use her as a resource to meet other girls and so on and so forth.

Just go up to her and ask her if she wants to go out. Its really not that big of a deal.

You should sack up and tell her - and please don't use the L word. Just tell her you dig her cuz she is smart, funny and pretty. If she tells you to get lost then do so, but you will never know for sure unless you talk to her.

Oh and it AFFECTS you and causes EFFECTS on your life.

Well how did she respond when your friend told her that? Whether you wanted him to tell her or not, it yields valuable clues into what she thinks of you. Having said that, the cats already out of the bag, so you might want to talk to her now.

talk to her, your friend kinda broke the ice for you. And if she rejects, she was going to do so anyway. That last sentence was complete conjecture.

just talk to her
if she feels the same way about u after this 'incident' then she is the one for u
if not.........hurt ur friend......very badly.......lol
but dont fret on it so much
the world is filled with drama
u dont need anymore than what u have already

Like what has been said a few times, what do you have to lose by talking to her about it? The only thing that letting it go without doing anything will do is make you wonder "What if?". Believe me, a definite "No" is much better than a "Yes" that you never asked about.

How do you love a person you haven't dated yet? jg4xchamp

[QUOTE="jg4xchamp"]How do you love a person you haven't dated yet? HessenKnight

How do you love a person you haven't dated yet? jg4xchamp

Apparently the same way you love Anne Hathaway.

[QUOTE="jg4xchamp"]How do you love a person you haven't dated yet? jazznate

Apparently the same way you love Anne Hathaway.

How do you love a person you haven't dated yet? jg4xchamp

[QUOTE="jg4xchamp"]How do you love a person you haven't dated yet? Crypto138

Just go up to her and ask her if she wants to go out. Its really not that big of a deal.

hedden93

Threads like this is why i sometimes wish GS was more like four chan (cant use a number 4 hehe) ah the lulz that would be had.

Talk. What do ya got to lose that you wouldn't lose if you let her go anyway?tbone29

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[QUOTE="jg4xchamp"]How do you love a person you haven't dated yet? jg4xchamp

Apparently the same way you love Anne Hathaway.

It seemed like more of an obsession and there's a fine line between love and obsession (if any at all).

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Apparently the same way you love Anne Hathaway.

jazznate

It seemed like more of an obsession and there's a fine line between love and obsession (if any at all).

same thing happened to me today at school. One of my mates came up 2 me at lunch and said hey wheres that chick you like(she sits in a group like two meters away). Luckily she wasnt there though. but her friends were although im not sure if they heard

Tell the girl - most definitely!

You shouldn't let the mistake of a friend ruin any chance you might have!

But, maybe you should pull your friend aside and calmly explain that it wasn't a cool thing to do, and how would your friend feel if the situation was reversed? Or just sucker punch, your choice.

Go for it. :P

Just talk to her

Punch your friend then ask her out.

Let it go dude, if you say you THINK you love her, then evidently you don't.

This is why you don't tell people who you like.Ghost_702

Since you "loved" this girl before you even talked to her, you are probably too emotionally invested to go talk to her now. You might end up asking her to marry you or something. Just let it cool off for a while and then talk to her in a few weeks or months and pretend this incident never happened.guynamedbilly

Tell her! If she already knows it won't become a shock when you yourself say it. Besides, what do you have to lose? Something you didn't have to begin with?

You should go and talk to her about it yourself.

If she says no, then just move on.