My friend is being stalked...

So there's this guy who has a terrible teenage-like crush on one of my best friends, and he keeps calling her and bothering her with text messages, he sends threatening e-mails to her, he bothers her all the time on AIM, I mean she's even kind of scared of him.

At first they were good friends but since this guy seemed to like her a lot he at some point thought they were hanging out and so he started being very compulsive towards her, so she had to tell him to cool down, and ever since she did that he never stops bothering her. It's kind of disturbing because he even threatens me over the phone and on AIM and whatnot. I'm not really sure of what to do... it's a kind of weird situation, haha.

You wanna know how to get way from him?

Do a horizontal roll on your longtitudinal axis.

Just block him on AIM and stuff.needled24-7

Well yeah I ended up doing that, but he still phones me from time to time.

get a restraining order

have the girl give him a smack upside the head

I'd call the cops. Seriously. You don't know if that guy will do something to your best friend, including kill her. I'm not kidding. You don't want to let this continue on.hydralisk86

If this gets anymore serious then I'll call the cops. He used to be a very close friend of mine, I knew him for about three years and he seemed a regular guy to me, but now I don't know what to think. Probably it could end up like that.

Does he live close to her?_Marisa_

Nope, not at all.

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]Does he live close to her?Berzz

Nope, not at all.

If he keeps threatening you and the girl, you can call the police. That sounds like harassment, especially if he won't stop after you told him to.ayanami_rei

yeah either that or talk to ome adult about it if he wont stop...its not right to do that stuff

If it gets too serious, call the police. SaintBlaze

[QUOTE="Berzz"]

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]Does he live close to her?_Marisa_

Nope, not at all.

Well I mean they don't live two blocks away, but they're not in a completely different city either.

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="Berzz"]

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]Does he live close to her?Berzz

Nope, not at all.

Well I mean they don't live two blocks away, but they're not in a completely different city either.

[QUOTE="Berzz"][QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="Berzz"]

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]Does he live close to her?_Marisa_

Nope, not at all.

Well I mean they don't live two blocks away, but they're not in a completely different city either.

Yeah I'm pretty sure he does, but it seems to me it isn't so serious as to see him stalking her at her place... yet.

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="Berzz"][QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="Berzz"]

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]Does he live close to her?Berzz

Nope, not at all.

Well I mean they don't live two blocks away, but they're not in a completely different city either.

Yeah I'm pretty sure he does, but it seems to me it isn't so serious as to see him stalking her at her place... yet.

Anti-Stalker Checklist:

1.) Stun Gun (for quick eeffectiveness against an up-close and personal stalker)

2.) Pepper Spray (to show him/her who's boss)

3.) .44 Six-shooter, any make (for threatening purposes..)

4.) Um....I'm done.

So there's this guy who has a terrible teenage-like crush on one of my best friends, and he keeps calling her and bothering her with text messages, he sends threatening e-mails to her, he bothers her all the time on AIM, I mean she's even kind of scared of him.

At first they were good friends but since this guy seemed to like her a lot he at some point thought they were hanging out and so he started being very compulsive towards her, so she had to tell him to cool down, and ever since she did that he never stops bothering her. It's kind of disturbing because he even threatens me over the phone and on AIM and whatnot. I'm not really sure of what to do... it's a kind of weird situation, haha.

Berzz

Tell her to do something and quick. Trust me, a girl I'm friends with who lives 2 houes away from me was so scared of a guy that she couldn't break up with him because whenever she did, he would stalk her and scare her until she would take him back. Lately, he drove her off the road and I haven't talked to her since and don't know what's happened since because any guy who gets close to her, he goes after and tries to fight them. Get her to do something NOW!!!

[QUOTE="Berzz"]

So there's this guy who has a terrible teenage-like crush on one of my best friends, and he keeps calling her and bothering her with text messages, he sends threatening e-mails to her, he bothers her all the time on AIM, I mean she's even kind of scared of him.

At first they were good friends but since this guy seemed to like her a lot he at some point thought they were hanging out and so he started being very compulsive towards her, so she had to tell him to cool down, and ever since she did that he never stops bothering her. It's kind of disturbing because he even threatens me over the phone and on AIM and whatnot. I'm not really sure of what to do... it's a kind of weird situation, haha.

dukebd699

Tell her to do something and quick. Trust me, a girl I'm friends with who lives 2 houes away from me was so scared of a guy that she couldn't break up with him because whenever she did, he would stalk her and scare her until she would take him back. Lately, he drove her off the road and I haven't talked to her since and don't know what's happened since because any guy who gets close to her, he goes after and tries to fight them. Get her to do something NOW!!!

Wow that's pretty much worse than my case, I will tell her to do something I don't want this to end up that way. At least they were never a couple, because I don't want to think what would happen when they'd break up.

[QUOTE="Berzz"][QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="Berzz"][QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="Berzz"]

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]Does he live close to her?_Marisa_

Nope, not at all.

Well I mean they don't live two blocks away, but they're not in a completely different city either.

Yeah I'm pretty sure he does, but it seems to me it isn't so serious as to see him stalking her at her place... yet.

I've actually talked to his parents, but they seem to be careless about their son's problem. I mean they seem to be pretty much on his side. And well, I'm 18, and he's still 17.

[QUOTE="dukebd699"][QUOTE="Berzz"]

So there's this guy who has a terrible teenage-like crush on one of my best friends, and he keeps calling her and bothering her with text messages, he sends threatening e-mails to her, he bothers her all the time on AIM, I mean she's even kind of scared of him.

At first they were good friends but since this guy seemed to like her a lot he at some point thought they were hanging out and so he started being very compulsive towards her, so she had to tell him to cool down, and ever since she did that he never stops bothering her. It's kind of disturbing because he even threatens me over the phone and on AIM and whatnot. I'm not really sure of what to do... it's a kind of weird situation, haha.

Berzz

Tell her to do something and quick. Trust me, a girl I'm friends with who lives 2 houes away from me was so scared of a guy that she couldn't break up with him because whenever she did, he would stalk her and scare her until she would take him back. Lately, he drove her off the road and I haven't talked to her since and don't know what's happened since because any guy who gets close to her, he goes after and tries to fight them. Get her to do something NOW!!!

Wow that's pretty much worse than my case, I will tell her to do something I don't want this to end up that way. At least they were never a couple, because I don't want to think what would happen when they'd break up.

Hopefully the kid isn't an a hole either. I watched their house once while they were gone for a day and he stopped by looking for her and immediately ran up to her room to take her panties once I said she was gone. I flat out told him I'd call the cops since I know what he's done to her(this was before the car incident) and he's been out for me since. So I try and keep away until the problem is solved.

You wanna know how to get way from him?

Do a horizontal roll on your longtitudinal axis.

cpo335

best plan evar!