My highschool crush, does not like me anymore, help?

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#1 saywat11
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Ok, im a senior, liked her since i met her freshman year. shes liked me too since then, but im actually wanting to be with her now.

Last friday, spend the whole day with her, do the arm trick during a movie, hold hands for an hour looking at the stars. as i leave her house, i ask her what this was and she said "idk yet, i'll get back to you" well the next day i found out there were other guys. i had to win her heart...

considering i dont have any classes with her, and not her circle of friends, im screwed. i have come to terms that i've been "rejected" and that this "hippie" dudes got her now. shes still single, but w/e, just a matter of time. it really sucks.

should I tell her how i feel? should I ask her whats going on? im not even sure what to do honestly, a lot of my feelings is probably by over thinking things.

i really want to bring the subject of us up, but i dont know how. how should i do that? i dont even know what to do! what would you guys do?

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#2 -Sluggo-
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You have two options.

1. Get over it.

2. **** her best friend.

In all seriousness, you don't want a girl who is floating between multiples.

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#3 DarkPrinceXC
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Tell her how you feel, or move on. It's not really all that hard. And if you can't get the balls to tell her how you feel, then you most certainly will never have her.....
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#4 FUBAR24
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your title is deceving, she never said she didnt like you, you just assumed that as soon as other guys were involved
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#5 Dethshoot
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Tell her how you feel. If something goes wrong, who cares, it's your senior year.
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#6 saywat11
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your title is deceving, she never said she didnt like you, you just assumed that as soon as other guys were involvedFUBAR24

sorry? :?

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#7 Younggun135
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what jesus said
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#8 ferrari2001
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Not very many high school couples stay together. So just get over it.
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#9 Niff_T
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Beat the heck out of him?
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#10 Premier1101
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Just tell her you like and want to be with her, but tell her you are exclusive, that way she has to drop the other guys for you if she wants to. Never make it seem like you want her, just that it would be nice if you were together. Then make her happy. I have a somewhat similar situation. its still smoothing out :P
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#11 cametall
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Am I in some twilight zone or something?

After all that holding and stuff, she still doesn't know how you feel?

I never do that sort of stuff with my female friends. Am I doing something wrong? I think I need to make different women friends...

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#12 jamejame
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Dude, you guys did all kinds of crap together, unless shes a slut she most likely likes you.
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#13 saywat11
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Dude, you guys did all kinds of crap together, unless shes a slut she most likely likes you.jamejame

she aint a slut.

shes interested in me, and other guys, thats it. her last relationship was 9 months long, and the guy broke her heart, she doesnt want the next dude to be a dick, and im a very nice guy, she should know im not gonna be a dick :/

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#14 go-cizmek
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Tell her how you feel.
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#15 harashawn
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Not very many high school couples stay together.ferrari2001

My aunt and uncle did.

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#16 Travo_basic
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If I were you I would just move on.
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#17 saywat11
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And, to make it worse, shes moving to florida after highschool. :(
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#18 harashawn
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And, to make it worse, shes moving to florida after highschool. :(saywat11

Dude, you gotta tell her how you feel, before it's too late.

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#19 Dethshoot
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And, to make it worse, shes moving to florida after highschool. :(saywat11

Well you better do something monday.

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#20 jetpower3
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[QUOTE="ferrari2001"]Not very many high school couples stay together.harashawn

My aunt and uncle did.

And about 20% of all high school couples eventually get married (note: "sweetheart" couples that is).

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#21 saywat11
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[QUOTE="saywat11"]And, to make it worse, shes moving to florida after highschool. :(Dethshoot

Well you better do something monday.

you know what, I WILL. I called her a few days ago and asked her if I could talk to her the next day after school, well she had to leave right after to pick up her brother, and I said "forget it, it wasnt important" and decided not to tell her.

Well imma call her this weekend and then spill my guts on monday. i have to...

lol

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#22 Blackbond
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Ok, im a senior, liked her since i met her freshman year.

saywat11

Its all ready a wrap. Senior year High School is the worst when it comes to keeping a girl. Good luck to you man, you'll need it. This is the last year of high school and the last year before college. Every girl is going to want to experience everything in high school she can before its all over. Usually anything she's had a taste of before this year is irrelevant as tastes all of a sudden become different in an effort to experience everything before the High School experience is over.

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#23 saywat11
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[QUOTE="saywat11"]

Ok, im a senior, liked her since i met her freshman year.

Blackbond

Its all ready a wrap. Senior year High School is the worst when it comes to keeping a girl. Good luck to you man, you'll need it. This is the last year of high school and the last year before college. Every girl is going to want to experience everything in high school she can before its all over. Usually anything she's had a taste of before this year is irrelevant as tastes all of a sudden become different in an effort to experience everything before the High School experience is over.

that actually makes sense...

damn you...lol jk.

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#24 Vfanek
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And, to make it worse, shes moving to florida after highschool. :(saywat11
Then it's a lost cause either way, is it not?
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#25 elblanquito_81
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That, "I don't know, I'll get back to you" line had me laughing a little. It seems a little... mean, doesn't it? Anyway, she could like you or she could be stringing you along, as well as all those other guys, so it's best to just tell her exactly how you feel so you can stop beating yourself up over this situation. If she doesn't feel the same then, at least, you got it off your chest and won't have any regrets later on about never having said anything. You can't change people's feelings, if she's not interested in you, or in having a relationship right now, then there's nothing you can do except move on. It won't be the end of the world, once you start college and see all the women there, and get to know some of them, you'll have forgotten all about her.
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#26 saywat11
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i have decided that I am going to talk to her, but not because i really care for her, i mean i do, but i have already accepted rejection, and could easily just lose contact and be fine.

but im not going to because i dont want to look back and regret not saying anything.

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#27 nickyb628
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Move on.
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#28 harashawn
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i have decided that I am going to talk to her, but not because i really care for her, i mean i do, but i have already accepted rejection, and could easily just lose contact and be fine.

but im not going to because i dont want to look back and regret not saying anything.

saywat11

Let us know how it goes.

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#29 Dethshoot
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[QUOTE="saywat11"]

i have decided that I am going to talk to her, but not because i really care for her, i mean i do, but i have already accepted rejection, and could easily just lose contact and be fine.

but im not going to because i dont want to look back and regret not saying anything.

harashawn

Let us know how it goes.

Yes please.

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#30 quiglythegreat
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because we all die, human relationships tend to be fleeting as well. you should care for one person as much as you would for anyone else.
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#31 Blitz_Nemesis
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id ask her if she really likes this "hippie" guy and if their dating, but wouldnt ask it in a serious manner. try and ask it kinda casually, like you dont really care.
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#32 Kamekazi_69
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And, to make it worse, shes moving to florida after highschool. :(saywat11
Florida? Is she hot? dont worry, I'll take good care of her down here >=] But you have to hurry, GET ON WITH IT DUDE! Kiss her!! tell her how you feel! express everything you feel!
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#34 linkman94
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I've been in your position before

one day she is all over me the next day..........nothing

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#35 horgen  Moderator
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Ask her out if you don't want to or think she is ready to hear what you feel about her. Know you can still win her heart even though you don't have any classes togheter. :)
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#36 freshgman
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leave her alone and let it marinate for a bit
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#37 LastRebelKing
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I would say that you should just try to make it work if not just get over it.
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#38 rcignoni
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You have two options.

1. Get over it.

2. **** her best friend.

In all seriousness, you don't want a girl who is floating between multiples.

-Sluggo-
This.
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#39 SegaGenesisfan
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If your body says no, then no means no, dont ask, just keep where you are, let it slide, if she wanted you, it would of been so...
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#40 AGM3002
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I've been in your position before

one day she is all over me the next day..........nothing

linkman94

Me too! :cry:

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Ok, im a senior, liked her since i met her freshman year. shes liked me too since then, but im actually wanting to be with her now.

Last friday, spend the whole day with her, do the arm trick during a movie, hold hands for an hour looking at the stars. as i leave her house, i ask her what this was and she said "idk yet, i'll get back to you" well the next day i found out there were other guys. i had to win her heart...

considering i dont have any classes with her, and not her circle of friends, im screwed. i have come to terms that i've been "rejected" and that this "hippie" dudes got her now. shes still single, but w/e, just a matter of time. it really sucks.

should I tell her how i feel? should I ask her whats going on? im not even sure what to do honestly, a lot of my feelings is probably by over thinking things.

i really want to bring the subject of us up, but i dont know how. how should i do that? i dont even know what to do! what would you guys do?

saywat11

she still likes you, she just hasn't made up her mind yet. talk to her and do what u can to win her. Since there's other guys involved, just gotta be better and be there for her. do what you can to be there.

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#42 darksword1123
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find someone else.
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#43 C_BozkurT_C
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You have two options.

1. Get over it.

2. **** her best friend.

In all seriousness, you don't want a girl who is floating between multiples.

-Sluggo-

or

3. Beat up the "hippie" thats in contention

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#44 harashawn
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find someone else.darksword1123

Don't listen to that. Just do what I already told you, and if it fails, then do what he ^^^ said.

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#45 AndrewXXXXXX
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Am I in some twilight zone or something?

After all that holding and stuff, she still doesn't know how you feel?

I never do that sort of stuff with my female friends. Am I doing something wrong? I think I need to make different women friends...

cametall

That's exactly what I was thinking! :P During reading it, I was like "WTF!?!" :?