My mate's dad just died.

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#1 Trx07
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I dont know what to say to him. I called him, he was so silent, unlike him.. He said his mum found him on the floor, this morning =[
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#2 DarkPrinceXC
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That sucks. Definitely give him some space. I know if my mom were to die, I wouldn't want to talk to anybody about it.
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#3 nintendoman562
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You really should go to the baby death thread a page back and look at the type of responses you will get. No one will give you the condolences you would like. Btw, i feel sorry for your's, and your friend's loss.
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#4 septemberluc
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Yeah, definitely give him some space, but make sure he knows that you're there for him if and when he needs to talk.
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#5 Parandrus
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I would give him space. Only talk to him about it if he wants to talk about it with you.
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#8 Toro_Nev
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:cry:.....omg sorry =[
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#9 entropyecho
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I would say something to the effect of, "my deepest condolences to you and your family. If you ever need feel like talking, let me know."
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#10 sAndroid17
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just tell him if he needs you , that you will be there for him. but leave him alone
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#11 tchang209
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tell him you're sorry and that you'll be there if he needs you then give him some breathing room.. soon he'll be overwhelmed with people sending him their condolences and respects and prayers.
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#12 esbastica
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i'm sorry dude
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#13 Jango-Bawls
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Give him some space to mourn by himself.Dont bring it up if you can help it, when he's come out a bit more ask him if he's okay and that, but dont go into it too much ... only if he brings it up should you talk about it.And I'm sorry for his loss, its terrible to lose someone like that.Good luck to him.
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#14 deactivated-5901ac91d8e33
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Tough luck.
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#15 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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Just give him some space, but let him know that you're there for him. He probably doesn't want a lot of people in his face right now, but you shouldn't disappear either. In time, it'll all go back to as normal as it can.
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#16 auron_16
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I would say something to the effect of, "my deepest condolences to you and your family. If you ever need feel like talking, let me know."entropyecho
yeesh, don't drown 'em in formality. if you know him well enough, you'll know what to do.
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#18 halo3-player
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Give him some space, when my pap died I just stayed downstairs by myself for a while
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#19 DJ-Lafleur
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Well, that is unfortunate.
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#20 Dark-Sithious
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I would say something to the effect of, "my deepest condolences to you and your family. If you ever need feel like talking, let me know."entropyecho

you would say that to a close friend?

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#21 Scarker
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Talk to him in three days, but call him once tomorrow to tell him you're there for him. How old is he? It's pretty tough if it's during high school.
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#22 Santesyu
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That sucks..
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#23 Shad0ki11
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How unfortunate.

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