My mom cannot stop bothering people

Literally. She just comes over, things everything is her business, and talks and talks and talks about something that I've heard a million times. I tell her to leave. She then lectures me on my attitude for like another 10 minutes.

How should handle this? Because I've gotten utterly tired of this.

She's just lonely because she ruined her life by having kids. Just talk to her. You did **** everything up for her after all.

what do you mean? like does she bother as in telling you to get things done? does she question you, or get into your business? for one, its your mother's job to do so, under her roof, under her rules. If you are having a disagreement with what she is doing, you need to have a formal conversation by sitting down, and talking to her with what you disagree with. Do not point blames, just tell her what "you" disagree with.

I agree with the other guy. You are the one who screwed her life up. She could be out on a lake right now, at her second home, fishing off a brand new pontoon if it wansn't for you. And to think - the wench even has the balls to feed you and buy you clothes. WTF was she thinking TALKING to you. I mean, come on. She might as well put a gun to your head and ask you to do the dishes.

Or you could just get over yourself and realize you are the one being a douche.

She's just lonely because she ruined her life by having kids. Just talk to her. You did **** everything up for her after all.

WhiteWorld

If thats the way she feels, then she should be mad at herself for getting knocked up! That stuff dont just happend out of the blue.

Yo man, just listen to the wise words of Will Smith. He knows your pain.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qI0dCVwdedE&feature=related

Yeah you're question has just been answered...multiple times. Deal with it man.

Other then that it just might be tough love.

Yo man, just listen to the wise words of Will Smith. He knows your pain.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qI0dCVwdedE&feature=related

Got_to_go

.....Did he say "12 year old runaway"?

Always nice when children appreciate their parents......heart warming to be sure.

Always nice when children appreciate their parents......heart warming to be sure.

LJS9502_basic

True.

Just appreciate your parents, because they wont be in your lifes for too long.

Unless your mom had you when she was 15.

I agree with the other guy. You are the one who screwed her life up. She could be out on a lake right now, at her second home, fishing off a brand new pontoon if it wansn't for you. And to think - the wench even has the balls to feed you and buy you clothes. WTF was she thinking TALKING to you. I mean, come on. She might as well put a gun to your head and ask you to do the dishes.

Or you could just get over yourself and realize you are the one being a douche.

Literally. She just comes over, things everything is her business, and talks and talks and talks about something that I've heard a million times. I tell her to leave. She then lectures me on my attitude for like another 10 minutes.

How should handle this? Because I've gotten utterly tired of this.

GodofBigMacs

Is it her time of the month?

Put deodorant on a paddle and slap her with it so she doesn't sweat while shes getting mad at you.

Is it her time of the month?

-TheSecondSign-

Honestly, would a son even know that kind of thing?? I think not. I would sooner stuff my own ears with tampons then attempt to discuss my mothers menstrual cycle.

[QUOTE="-TheSecondSign-"]

Is it her time of the month?

KcurtorMas

Honestly, would a son even know that kind of thing?? I think not. I would sooner stuff my own ears with tampons then attempt to discuss my mothers menstrual cycle.

[QUOTE="KcurtorMas"]

[QUOTE="-TheSecondSign-"]

Is it her time of the month?

BumFluff122

Honestly, would a son even know that kind of thing?? I think not. I would sooner stuff my own ears with tampons then attempt to discuss my mothers menstrual cycle.

We're close enough for her to know that I want nothing to do with the subject...are you a girl?I would understand if that was the case...but otherwise I find it rather odd...but thats my opinion. As for the TC...stop complaining and taking your mom for granted... YOU MOTHERS...

Yo man, just listen to the wise words of Will Smith. He knows your pain.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qI0dCVwdedE&feature=related

We're close enough for her to know that I want nothing to do with the subject...are you a girl?I would understand if that was the case...but otherwise I find it rather odd...but thats my opinion. As for the TC...stop complaining and taking your mom for granted... YOU MOTHERS...

KcurtorMas

[QUOTE="KcurtorMas"]

[QUOTE="-TheSecondSign-"]

Is it her time of the month?

BumFluff122

Honestly, would a son even know that kind of thing?? I think not. I would sooner stuff my own ears with tampons then attempt to discuss my mothers menstrual cycle.

i'd mmove to another mom

I agree with WhiteWorld, you did ruin her life with your existence. She could have done so much more with her life, if not your you meddling kids. The least you can do is talk to her, and respect her for not having an abortion. Freebird8877

Literally. She just comes over, things everything is her business, and talks and talks and talks about something that I've heard a million times. I tell her to leave. She then lectures me on my attitude for like another 10 minutes.

How should handle this? Because I've gotten utterly tired of this.

GodofBigMacs

I can relate you with my life.

Move out or deal with it.Welkabonz

That's what I did when I was 18. no more hearing things like that since. ....Im free, Im free.

Literally. She just comes over, things everything is her business, and talks and talks and talks about something that I've heard a million times. I tell her to leave. She then lectures me on my attitude for like another 10 minutes.

How should handle this? Because I've gotten utterly tired of this.

GodofBigMacs

You cracked me up :D

She's just lonely because she ruined her life by having kids. Just talk to her. You did **** everything up for her after all.

WhiteWorld

edit: unless his mum is like my mother law, she's manic and never stops talking. It's infuriating but everyone just learns to ignore her. I thought my wife was rude ignoring her mum when her mum was talking to her, but now I do it too - it's the only way to cope - and she's too busy talking to even notice that no one is listening. In fact if you do respond to a question she just keeps talking or even keeps asking the question even though you've answered 3 times.

Just ignore her.

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

Always nice when children appreciate their parents......heart warming to be sure.

mimic-Denmark

True.

Just appreciate your parents, because they wont be in your lifes for too long.

Unless your mom had you when she was 15.