My second date didnt work out too well

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#2 Engrish_Major
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Sounds fine - I thought you were going to say you lost your chance with a girl forever. If she still likes you, just be patient. Impatience is unattractive.
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#3 black_cat19
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What do you mean by "move"? I thought it was only your second date? :?

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#4 SpideR_CentS
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Wait til the 3rd date. Ask for the walk earlier

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#5 Pirate700
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Welcome to dating while still needing a ride. It doesn't really work well. :lol:

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#6 Oleg_Huzwog
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You got chaperwn3d?

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#7 Treflis
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I was under the impression that the third date was the best time, though then again my Ex, who I was with for about five years, I kissed on the first date. But it doesn't sound like the date was a complete disaster.
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#8 Engrish_Major
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Welcome to dating while still needing a ride. It doesn't really work well. :lol:

Pirate700
Aah, yes, the early teen years. (Trying to look cool while in the back seat of mom's Dodge Caravan, next to the car seat and "Baby on Board" window sticker.)
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#9 iBear-
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were her parents there the whole time?


did she ask to bring her sister or did she seem pretty uncomfortable with them like it sounds you were?


you'll be cool just don't shy away from the moment when you get your chance basically

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#10 Pirate700
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

Welcome to dating while still needing a ride. It doesn't really work well. :lol:

Engrish_Major

Aah, yes, the early teen years. (Trying to look cool while in the back seat of mom's Dodge Caravan, next to the car seat and "Baby on Board" window sticker.)

:lol: If there's a baby seat in there it really get's the ladies engine reving.

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#11 iBear-
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What do you mean by "move"? I thought it was only your second date? :?

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how many dates do you go on before you kiss honestly? 3 is the absolute max fo sho

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#12 LJS9502_basic
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What do you mean by "move"? I thought it was only your second date? :?

black_cat19
Well by my second date.....er never mind.
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#13 iBear-
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[QUOTE="Engrish_Major"][QUOTE="Pirate700"]

Welcome to dating while still needing a ride. It doesn't really work well. :lol:

Pirate700

Aah, yes, the early teen years. (Trying to look cool while in the back seat of mom's Dodge Caravan, next to the car seat and "Baby on Board" window sticker.)

:lol: If there's a baby seat in there it really get's the ladies engine reving.

lol

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#14 Oleg_Huzwog
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[QUOTE="Engrish_Major"][QUOTE="Pirate700"]

Welcome to dating while still needing a ride. It doesn't really work well. :lol:

Pirate700

Aah, yes, the early teen years. (Trying to look cool while in the back seat of mom's Dodge Caravan, next to the car seat and "Baby on Board" window sticker.)

:lol: If there's a baby seat in there it really get's the ladies engine reving.

Er, I actually did date one who found baby crap to be a major turnon. It was... tumultuous? Yes, I think that's the right word.

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#16 Engrish_Major
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="black_cat19"]

What do you mean by "move"? I thought it was only your second date? :?

Well by my second date.....er never mind.

Yeah, I was under the impression that the second date was generally considered to be where the prenups are signed.
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#17 iBear-
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[QUOTE="iBear-"]

were her parents there the whole time?


did she ask to bring her sister or did she seem pretty uncomfortable with them like it sounds you were?


you'll be cool just don't shy away from the moment when you get your chance basically

weaselstomper50

i dont know if her parents were there the whole time but they were waiting for her outside when we finished up. And i was under the impression that it was going to be just the two of us but she brought her sister with her. And yes I could very clearly tell that she was uncomfortable too. Before her sisters boyfriend got there, she was sitting next to her sister while talking to me. But then when her sisters boyfriend got there and started making out with her, she came over to my side and stood next to me for the rest of the game and kept taking nervous glances at them.

ah you're fine dude

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#18 hiphopballer
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next time tell her sister to go away :P

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#20 Engrish_Major
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So what would be a good idea for a third date that doesnt cost too much? Bowling was fun but im effing broke now my allowance only goes so far(heh).

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The great outdoors, my friend. A better aphrodesiac than anything artificial.
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#21 ghoklebutter
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This topic made me laugh, sorry. :lol:
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#22 black_cat19
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[QUOTE="black_cat19"]

What do you mean by "move"? I thought it was only your second date? :?

iBear-

how many dates do you go on before you kiss honestly? 3 is the absolute max fo sho

[QUOTE="black_cat19"]

What do you mean by "move"? I thought it was only your second date? :?

LJS9502_basic

Well by my second date.....er never mind.

Well, I kissed my girlfriend the same day we started dating (as soon as she agreed to date me, actually), but we didn't have sex until a whole year after we started going out. I thought that's what the TC meant by "move", for some reason...

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#23 iBear-
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[QUOTE="iBear-"]

[QUOTE="black_cat19"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="black_cat19"]

What do you mean by "move"? I thought it was only your second date? :?

black_cat19

Well by my second date.....er never mind.

Well, I kissed my girlfriend the same day we started dating (as soon as she agreed to date me, actually), but we didn't have sex until a whole year after we started going out. I thought that's what the TC meant by "move", for some reason...

sex behind a bowling alley


AWWWW YEA

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#24 JonnyEagle
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I make my move on the first date, which is what you should have done...........

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#25 Guybrush_3
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Welcome to dating while still needing a ride. It doesn't really work well. :lol:

Pirate700

Going to see a movie that has been out for a while at an odd showing time was always a good way to get some alone time. More than once the girl and I had the theater to ourselves. :D

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#27 Colin1192
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You should have told the parents to leave and come back in like 30 seconds, then you could have got your "move" done with

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#29 JonnyEagle
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[QUOTE="JonnyEagle"]

I make my move on the first date, which is what you should have done...........

weaselstomper50

thats a good way to scare them away!(no rhyme intended)

Not if you do it right ;)....

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#30 Oleg_Huzwog
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You should have told the parents to leave and come back in like 30 seconds, then you could have got your "move" done with

Colin1192

"Excuse me Mr. and Mrs. Williams, but would you mind driving around the block once so I have time to feel up your daughter?"

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#31 black_cat19
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[QUOTE="black_cat19"]

What do you mean by "move"? I thought it was only your second date? :?

iBear-

how many dates do you go on before you kiss honestly? 3 is the absolute max fo sho

Anyway, why should there be an "absolute max"? This kind of stuff isn't set in stone and shouldn't be rushed or delayed. Just let things naturally develop at their own pace; it will happen when it needs to happen.

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#32 LJS9502_basic
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Well, I kissed my girlfriend the same day we started dating (as soon as she agreed to date me, actually), but we didn't have sex until a whole year after we started going out. I thought that's what the TC meant by "move", for some reason...

black_cat19

Kissing is definitely first date.....

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#34 II_Seraphim_II
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what is this "move" u intended to make?
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#35 iBear-
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[QUOTE="iBear-"]

[QUOTE="black_cat19"]

What do you mean by "move"? I thought it was only your second date? :?

black_cat19

how many dates do you go on before you kiss honestly? 3 is the absolute max fo sho

Anyway, why should there be an "absolute max"? This kind of stuff isn't set in stone and shouldn't be rushed or delayed; just let things naturally develop at their own pace, it will happen when it needs to happen.

there really isn't, just kinda giving advice to the kid he should try and get the kiss rollin, because if he gets a third date it's so obvious she likes him.

and yea kissing is more of a first date thing but he's 15 so w/e

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#36 GTbiking4life
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What move are you referring to? I can certainly think of worse dates than this. Why don't you just call her? As far not being to make your 'move', that's nothing to be upset about.

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#37 ghoklebutter
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what is this "move" u intended to make?II_Seraphim_II
He wanted to kiss her.
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#38 Engrish_Major
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[QUOTE="II_Seraphim_II"]what is this "move" u intended to make?ghoklebutter
He wanted to kiss her.

Where?
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#39 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="II_Seraphim_II"]what is this "move" u intended to make?ghoklebutter
He wanted to kiss her.

Then he should have just done it.....
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#40 Vandalvideo
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Welcome to the double date OP. It is something we all deal with every once in awhile. I personally prefer them to be honest. I get to make my friend look like an idiot.
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#41 ghoklebutter
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[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"][QUOTE="II_Seraphim_II"]what is this "move" u intended to make?Engrish_Major
He wanted to kiss her.

Where?

Her eye, of course. :P
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You got chaperwn3d?

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#43 kidsmelly
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You will get alone time with her sooner or later then you can make your move.

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#44 black_cat19
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[QUOTE="Engrish_Major"][QUOTE="ghoklebutter"] He wanted to kiss her.ghoklebutter
Where?

Her eye, of course. :P

What? That is SO not second date. :|

On second date you should probably be going for the elbow or, if you're feeling REALLY adventurous, the knee, but honestly I think that's pushing it.

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#45 Colin1192
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[QUOTE="Colin1192"]

You should have told the parents to leave and come back in like 30 seconds, then you could have got your "move" done with

Oleg_Huzwog

"Excuse me Mr. and Mrs. Williams, but would you mind driving around the block once so I have time to feel up your daughter?"

"Well how will we know when you are done there son"

"When you see your daughter standing alone out front with a look of disappointment on her face and me nowhere to be found"

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#46 EMOEVOLUTION
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if she was really interested in you she'd want to be alone with you and wouldnt keep asking her sister to come along.
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#47 LJS9502_basic
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if she was really interested in you she'd want to be alone with you and wouldnt keep asking her sister to come along.EMOEVOLUTION
Maybe she's nervous. Or her parents wanted the sister there......
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[QUOTE="EMOEVOLUTION"]if she was really interested in you she'd want to be alone with you and wouldnt keep asking her sister to come along.LJS9502_basic
Maybe she's nervous. Or her parents wanted the sister there......

Or she's just a bit clueless... Who knows?

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#50 Oleg_Huzwog
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[QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]

You got chaperwn3d?

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