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#1 roryk666
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my cat was 2 and a half. he got hit by a car (3 days ago) and died within a few minutes. and my house feels so empty now. im a loner so he was my best friend. never felt alone @ home knowing he was around somewhere. i loved him a lot.

the night he died i just sat in my lounge with the light off , i couldnt sleep. last 3 days ive gone to work , come home and all i do is sit on the couch staring. i have no motivation to do anything. feel like someones clutching onto my heart and squeezing on it. i dont think ive ever felt this sad in my entire life.

everything reminds me of him.

RIP marley where ever you are.

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#2 double_decker
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You have my condolences, I'm sorry to hear that :( and I am sincere. It's hard and will take some time but I hope you start feeling better soon. Thank you for sharing such a sensitive issue and I hope by getting it out it has atleast made you feel a little better. :)
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#3 Brutal_Elitegs
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I will be the same when my cat dies, she's been with me for more than 1/2 of my life.
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#5 L8erSquare
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I feel for you :'(
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#6 Lord_Daemon
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I'm sorry for your loss and you have my condolances. It's always hard to when a friend is ripped away from you so suddenly and it's not always easy to fill the void so quickly. If it's not too much to ask could you perhaps post a pic of your cat?
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#7 Ilived
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Get a new cat. Simple as that. You may feel that it won't be the same, but trust me you'll find a lot of love for a new one.
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#8 RHCP87
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I'm sorry. :( People that haven't had pets will never understand that they become a part of your family as much as a human does.
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#9 freshgman
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Thats why you dont get pets. They have a short lifespan and isnt worth the grief espcially for children.
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#10 pintabear49blue
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Sorry for your loss. I had a little puppy about a year ago. He was very cute and would sleep on my head at night. He got parvo and died. It was unexpected and very sad to see him like that.
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my cat was 2 and a half. he got hit by a car (3 days ago) and died within a few minutes. and my house feels so empty now. im a loner so he was my best friend. never felt alone @ home knowing he was around somewhere. i loved him a lot.

the night he died i just sat in my lounge with the light off , i couldnt sleep. last 3 days ive gone to work , come home and all i do is sit on the couch staring. i have no motivation to do anything. feel like someones clutching onto my heart and squeezing on it. i dont think ive ever felt this sad in my entire life.

everything reminds me of him.

RIP marley where ever you are.

roryk666
I'm deeply sorry for your lose, me and my wife have 2 cats, they are like your children and they are about they same age as yours. Frankly this is why I don't let them outside(in no why I'm blaming you). We have had a couple pets together and I had to put a couple of pets to sleep, my dog that I grow up with and held him when we put him to sleep and a pet rat same thing we put her to sleep too. It's never easy getting over a death of pet, honestly after my dog and rat I didn't want to go through that again but I'm glad my wife got our cat's they bring us so much joy in our lives(I know it sounds g@y). I felt the same way after putting my rat to sleep it ate me up. Hang in there, imo the best thing to do is get another kitty and don't let it outside ever. I'm really sorry again.
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#12 Kritical_Strike
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Get a new cat. Simple as that. You may feel that it won't be the same, but trust me you'll find a lot of love for a new one.Ilived

It's nothing like that, it's similair to telling a woman that just lost a child to "make a new one".

It just isn't the same, my cat is a part of the family and it will be a sad day when he leaves.

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Thats why you dont get pets. They have a short lifespan and isnt worth the grief espcially for children.freshgman
some animals have a long lifespan as you take good care of them...my aunt has two cats that are almost 17 years old

edit: these glitches can be annoying sometimes :x

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#14 Hitman_KyeZ
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meh :( my white cat died a few years ago we had to put him down he was 18 though so he had a long life.

My other cat disappeared...

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#15 1005
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I'm sorry for your loss, it goes away after awhile. Our cat Suzi was 21 human years old and one night she went to sleep and never woke up and i loved that cat. She was small and old but she could still beat up the other cats who came into our garden.

You'll feel better over time :)

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#16 nick3333
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Times like these are depressing, but you'll ride through.
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#17 Weslii
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My condoleances.
And good luck to you.
Happened to me last year as well.
Hit by a car. I only had that one for year or so but still...
I also have a cat that's 20 years old. (I'm 18) If that one dies a part of me dies as well.

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#18 WWIAB
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my cat was 2 and a half. he got hit by a car (3 days ago) and died within a few minutes. and my house feels so empty now. im a loner so he was my best friend. never felt alone @ home knowing he was around somewhere. i loved him a lot.

the night he died i just sat in my lounge with the light off , i couldnt sleep. last 3 days ive gone to work , come home and all i do is sit on the couch staring. i have no motivation to do anything. feel like someones clutching onto my heart and squeezing on it. i dont think ive ever felt this sad in my entire life.

everything reminds me of him.

RIP marley where ever you are.

roryk666

Sorry for your loss

My cat was killed 2 years ago (in september) and it still hurts now

I live in a road with unsocialable W*****S she was probably killed by someone speeding

put some nails in the road so when people drive by, their tyres will puncture, it'll ease the pain

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#19 Spartan_385
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I am sorry for your loss.
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#20 jim_shorts
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If my cat died, I wouldn't know what to do. Sorry to hear that.
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#21 D9-THC
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Thats why you dont get pets. They have a short lifespan and isnt worth the grief espcially for children.freshgman

Learning to deal with grief is an important life lesson for anyone.

With that mentality you shouldn't do anything that could hurt you...and what's the point in living a life that is so boring and empty?

I've lost three dogs, two cats, five birds, some hamsters, and some tree frogs over the years but guess what...I have a dog now and when she's gone I'll have two more. It's always devastating to lose a pet but that's life. The hardest I've ever sobbed was watching one of my cats die in my arms. Nothing lasts forever.

You learn to appreciate the time you have with everyone and everything you love when you realize they're not always going to be there.

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#22 dlindenb2000
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I had a white cat, her name was Misty, she was a Himalayan. Got her when I was 6, she died last year. 16 years is a good run for a cat though, at the end she wasn't eating, she had problems with all her teeth and she was just miserable. Had to put her down. It was alot easier for me, as I hadn't lived with her for a few years.

Oh, and the fact she was the devil. Blood red eyes and white fur, she sent 4 people to the hospital and chased neighboorhood cats up trees, and dogs out of the yard for fun. Once she kept the piano tuner in the corner of a room for 2 hours while we were out of the house. We came back to find him scared shtless. Had to get a new tuner after that. Anyway, yeah I feel you man,

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#23 Weslii
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Learning to deal with grief is an important life lesson for anyone.

With that mentality you shouldn't do anything that could hurt you...and what's the point in living a life that is so boring and empty?

I've lost three dogs, two cats, five birds, some hamsters, and some tree frogs over the years but guess what...I have a dog now and when she's gone I'll have two more. It's always devastating to lose a pet but that's life. The hardest I've ever sobbed was watching one of my cats die in my arms. Nothing lasts forever.

You learn to appreciate the time you have with everyone and everything you love when you realize they're not always going to be there.

D9-THC


That's a nice way of living. I could learn from that :)

But my cat last year. Well she didn´t die in my arms but when she was lying there bleeding I couldnt believe it. I cried and was hoping my tears would bring her back to life like in movies :P Pretty sad how desperate you become.
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#24 DeeJayInphinity
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That sucks man, cat was too young to go. :(

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#25 PeterPerson
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awe.... that makes me sad... my kitty will never die! hes 11 and still as cute as ever! :P
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#26 JustPlainLucas
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We had to put our cat of 21 down about a month ago. That was just utterly heartbreaking. Although it's not really the same as seeing your cat die after being hit by a car, but the thing you have to remember is you need to be able to move on. A new cat will not the same, surely, but you need a new cat to help you cope with your loss if it's hurting you this much. Really sorry to hear about that, man.
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#27 -San-
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my friends cat was like 20 a few YEARS before he died. i recently had to put down my year old cat because he was hit by a car and broke the end of his spine. we didnt know what was wrong with him, we just thought he was poisened (he had the symptoms for it). but he couldnt walk or pee and poo so we took him to the vet a few days after (my parents dont like vets).
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#28 H3llstrike
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[QUOTE="freshgman"]Thats why you dont get pets. They have a short lifespan and isnt worth the grief espcially for children.D9-THC

Learning to deal with grief is an important life lesson for anyone.

With that mentality you shouldn't do anything that could hurt you...and what's the point in living a life that is so boring and empty?

I've lost three dogs, two cats, five birds, some hamsters, and some tree frogs over the years but guess what...I have a dog now and when she's gone I'll have two more. It's always devastating to lose a pet but that's life. The hardest I've ever sobbed was watching one of my cats die in my arms. Nothing lasts forever.

You learn to appreciate the time you have with everyone and everything you love when you realize they're not always going to be there.

:cry: well said, you brought tears to my eyes. Better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all.
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my cat was 2 and a half. he got hit by a car (3 days ago) and died within a few minutes. and my house feels so empty now. im a loner so he was my best friend. never felt alone @ home knowing he was around somewhere. i loved him a lot.

the night he died i just sat in my lounge with the light off , i couldnt sleep. last 3 days ive gone to work , come home and all i do is sit on the couch staring. i have no motivation to do anything. feel like someones clutching onto my heart and squeezing on it. i dont think ive ever felt this sad in my entire life.

everything reminds me of him.

RIP marley where ever you are.

roryk666

get another one...

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#30 Pearl_of_Egypt
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I'm so sorry to hear that. I know exactly how you feel though. my cat died about 3 years ago, he was maybe 3 or 4 years old and got leukemia and died of it...

I know it's hard but the pain will pass eventually.

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#31 Putzwapputzen
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wow, im sry man. it must be hard. i lost a pet once, its heart-breaking :cry:
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#32 solidgamer
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rip

white kat

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#33 roryk666
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I'm sorry for your loss and you have my condolances. It's always hard to when a friend is ripped away from you so suddenly and it's not always easy to fill the void so quickly. If it's not too much to ask could you perhaps post a pic of your cat?Lord_Daemon

these were taken within the last 6 months.

below, fell asleep with his arms in the air

[img=http://img20.imageshack.us/img20/931/marley1ql9.th.jpg]

here, sleeping on the couch

[img=http://img409.imageshack.us/img409/4416/marley2rm5.th.jpg]

thanks to everyone who responded, it put a smile on my face.

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[QUOTE="Lord_Daemon"]I'm sorry for your loss and you have my condolances. It's always hard to when a friend is ripped away from you so suddenly and it's not always easy to fill the void so quickly. If it's not too much to ask could you perhaps post a pic of your cat?roryk666

these were taken within the last 6 months.

below, fell asleep with his arms in the air

[img=http://img20.imageshack.us/img20/931/marley1ql9.th.jpg]

here, sleeping on the couch

[img=http://img409.imageshack.us/img409/4416/marley2rm5.th.jpg]

thanks to everyone who responded, it put a smile on my face.

:(

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#35 no-scoped_jfk
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my cat was 2 and a half. he got hit by a car (3 days ago) and died within a few minutes. and my house feels so empty now. im a loner so he was my best friend. never felt alone @ home knowing he was around somewhere. i loved him a lot.

the night he died i just sat in my lounge with the light off , i couldnt sleep. last 3 days ive gone to work , come home and all i do is sit on the couch staring. i have no motivation to do anything. feel like someones clutching onto my heart and squeezing on it. i dont think ive ever felt this sad in my entire life.

everything reminds me of him.

RIP marley where ever you are.

roryk666
Same thing happened to our cat. We owned her for 7 years, last week she was hit by a car, but received an overdose of antibiotics and died.
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#36 FFinfinite
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Rest in Peace, Marley. There are just some things that you have to go on without. :(
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#37 Patheticus
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When my pet rabbit died nobody heard me complain,no siree!They heard me crying...:cry:
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#38 kyleali11
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Sorry to head about you cat. I'm pretty sure you'll feel better.
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Why did you say the color of your cat? Why white cat?
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#40 SorasGhost009
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aww man im sorry dude thats gotta suck
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#41 SIack3r
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Sorry to hear that. I have had my cat since I was 8.

RIP Marley

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#42 D9-THC
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Why did you say the color of your cat? Why white cat? Disturbed_Dude

Maybe there was a thread called "My cat died" already...

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#43 Honenheim
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Im sorry for your loss dude......:(
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#44 moptopskate
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that sucks. My cat is a little older than me and has been with us my whole life. I am dreading the day when it dies.
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#45 moptopskate
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heres a picture of my cat. hes real old. http://flickr.com/photos/21864391@N05/2112460041/
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#46 MasterChief4249
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One of my dogs recently died a few weeks ago, i share your pain.

I'm sorry, and good luck to you!

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#47 bluezy
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Sorry for your loss... i had a cat that had to get put down recently, he was 20.
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#48 blackldragon
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Man why did you have to say you were a loner. I was going to make a joke like give it to some chinese food store they'll find some use for it. But seriusly sorry I know what its like.... my whole life actually living every day never feeling like your part of anygroups even though I stand near them and talk a little I still don't feel like I connect with anyone. Hell if I didn't have a 2nd mind that talks to (im serius it really won't shut up sometimes.) then I would probably just end't it a long time ago.

Yes I'm sligthly screwed in the head, but without it I could never do some of the stuff I'm able to do. This is actually one of the good types of crazy thats done me more good than harm. And to the people who say see a psychiatrist you have no idea what its like.