Need Advice Regarding My Best Friend

First thing, i just want to say that i really suck at english. I am a Norwegian Native speaker, so if there are anything wrong, please correct or yell Stop Grammar Time.

Hi folks. This is my first time posting a help thread regarding something that is actually happening in Reality. So, my main problem is my bestfriend. We have known each other since we first met on elementary school (Kindergarden) till now High-School( 2nd year) not sure how school system works in USA but in Norway we have 3 full years at high School. Well well, since the start of 2nd year at high school my best-friend hasn't talked to me for awhile. He usually talks a lot on MSN, call me etcs (No we are not gays).

Yeah, he now has a girlfriend which i am very happy for. But when he is with my other friends he reacts more that he is having more fun hanging with them more than me. So he usually dump me or how i should spell it out. So yeah, my second friend which is hanging with my bestfriend are having much fun and stuff. Laughing and yelling, good times.. To them ofc..

So yeah, my 2 ''Friend'' who is hanging with my bestfriend somehow seems to have stolen something important from me. When we joke and **** he usually don't laugh any-longer. He tells me stuff like: No m8, that is not funny anymore. But when he jokes with my bestfriend or my bestfriend brings some inside-humor from me, they laugh like crazy monkeys.

This is something that i cannot look at, well i got many other friends to hang out but i can't miss out my bestfriend you know? Like, not the gay way but he is like a brother to me.

I don't know anylonger, it is getting hard for me, and my second friend who is hanging with my bestfriend have somehow, become my enemy... But i don't show the sign that i am his enemy..

I don't want this to end bad, or end we hate each other or rival whatever.. Please, i hope i can get some advice her, some good ones..

Basically, you are a closet homosexual. No questions asked.

something similar happened to me, im goona turn 15 soon and i had a good freind which was a freind since i was 4 -14, now hes become a total jerk ever since hes moved to australia, yea well i moved to australia to but a different part, hes become a piece of trash now, i told him off when he started to joke around with my friend on msn very rudly ( she was one of his friends to until this happened)(he made insults which i might get modded if i say and he was asking me like haha man dont you think so, shes such a .... and he said all that right in front of her etc) i think he was like drunk or something, i told him off and have tolereted much of what he has done but that was the last straw, there is a limit to what he should do.

we havent talked in about 2 -3 months and i hope i dont see him again unless he can accept that he is a idiot

something similar happened to me, im goona turn 15 soon and i had a good freind which was a freind since i was 4 -14, now hes become a total jerk ever since hes moved to australia, yea well i moved to australia to but a different part, hes become a piece of trash now, i told him off when he started to joke around with my friend on msn very rudly ( she was one of his friends to until this happened)(he made insults which i might get modded if i say and he was asking me like haha man dont you think so, shes such a .... and he said all that right in front of her etc) i think he was like drunk or something, i told him off and have tolereted much of what he has done but that was the last straw, there is a limit to what he should do.

we havent talked in about 2 -3 months and i hope i dont see him again unless he can accept that he is a idiot

WoW! I am suprised that i recieved some quick responses! Well, thanks for the compliment quiglythegreat. Well, but it doesn't help much but yeah, i'll wait and see what happens. And Tarunramesh, sucks to be in your position :(

And no, i am far from Homosexual. Is it that just i am a person with full of emotion.

GIRLY SOUNDING ADVICE ALERT:

It sounds like you hurt his feelings somehow, and the best way to heal this is to talk to him and just ask what is the problem. If he really is your best friend, then you should be able to feel comfortable about talking to him. Just try it when both of you are alone and if he doesn't want to answer you then walk away and avoid him for a few weeks. Either 2 things will happen: He finally tells you what is bothering him, or he will just leave your life forever (and if he really is treating you badly, then that may be the best option).

Thanks, I felt my testosterone level drop while writing this.

It sounds like you hurt his feelings somehow, and the best way to heal this is to talk to him and just ask what is the problem.

Basic_Instinct

when guys get girlfriends, they tend to alienate their long time friends to be with the girlblooddemon666

That's what lame friends do...I've had friends do that, and I've also had friends who never let that get in the way. It really depends on the person.

Guys, i know this is very girlish of me, and i accept it. But as a matter of fact... I'll play along. Problem is that we are not hating each other, it is just how he has changed completely. I don't like his ''New'' Fashion personality, cause it drives me mad. Most of our inside-Jokes are gone, and things are just getting worse.

And another problem is that, my second friend is rather ignorant than he are truly a friend. He somehow uses me to be with my bestfriend. It is hard to describe, very hard. He choose to be with me only if he don't have any other to be with. So i sat today on the bus, one seat infront of them. They were laughing and such, a lot of inside jokes that i've never heard, probarly geekish since they mentioned Kingdom Hearts. WoW, i could always write a story about this... Man i feel like a lady now.

But i thank everyone for their honest advice. I really am. :)

WoW! I am suprised that i recieved some quick responses! Well, thanks for the compliment quiglythegreat. Well, but it doesn't help much but yeah, i'll wait and see what happens. And Tarunramesh, sucks to be in your position :(

And no, i am far from Homosexual. Is it that just i am a person with full of emotion.

Welis

haha nahh, it doesnt suck to bad, id rather not be friends with an idiot even if hes a life long friend, just learn to accept things as they come at you and it should all turn out allright in the end :)

Basically, you are a closet homosexual. No questions asked.

MoonSpoon

[QUOTE="blooddemon666"]when guys get girlfriends, they tend to alienate their long time friends to be with the girlFortier

That's what lame friends do...I've had friends do that, and I've also had friends who never let that get in the way. It really depends on the person.