need some advice bout females

ok so i try talkign to my gf today and she says: please just dont talk, i need some space today and some peace. so i ask whats wrong etc and she says: just leave me the hell alone ok. so i continued on than she just went mental so i said: dw i wont talk to you anymore until you tell me to

turns out her friends tried talking to her also and they got blown up also :S

im thinking someone pissed her off bad and dont think its me or shes on the rag?

anyone with advice?

Man, this'll be happening for the rest of your life, and you already need outside help? Try harder!

Just don't sweat it. Wait for a while, and things will look better.

ok but my point is she was ON msn

if she doesnt want people to talk to her WHY THE F GET ON MSN. i asked her this and said just went nuts at me again :S

lol this is my 1st relationship so im new to the world of females

ok but my point is she was ON msn

if she doesnt want people to talk to her WHY THE F GET ON MSN. i asked her this and said just went nuts at me again :S

lol this is my 1st relationship so im new to the world of females

tiggers69699699

ok so i try talkign to my gf today and she says: please just dont talk, i need some space today and some peace. so i ask whats wrong etc and she says: just leave me the hell alone ok. so i continued on than she just went mental so i said: dw i wont talk to you anymore until you tell me to

turns out her friends tried talking to her also and they got blown up also :S

im thinking someone pissed her off bad and dont think its me or shes on the rag?

anyone with advice?

tiggers69699699

Dude, leave her alone.

Hey, sometimes I just plain don't want to ****ing talk to people either. It's normal. Give her some space.

[QUOTE="tiggers69699699"]

ok but my point is she was ON msn

if she doesnt want people to talk to her WHY THE F GET ON MSN. i asked her this and said just went nuts at me again :S

lol this is my 1st relationship so im new to the world of females

funkadelichika

i have it that all her friends got crapped on. i also have been told that most girls goto the bf for help etc and arent most couples meant to tell each other everything?

poor listening skills? nah just poor female knowledge skills

[QUOTE="tiggers69699699"]

ok so i try talkign to my gf today and she says: please just dont talk, i need some space today and some peace. so i ask whats wrong etc and she says: just leave me the hell alone ok. so i continued on than she just went mental so i said: dw i wont talk to you anymore until you tell me to

turns out her friends tried talking to her also and they got blown up also :S

im thinking someone pissed her off bad and dont think its me or shes on the rag?

anyone with advice?

MrGeezer

Dude, leave her alone.

Hey, sometimes I just plain don't want to ****ing talk to people either. It's normal. Give her some space.

thing is she was on msn and isnt the point of being on msn to talk

[QUOTE="funkadelichika"][QUOTE="tiggers69699699"]

ok but my point is she was ON msn

if she doesnt want people to talk to her WHY THE F GET ON MSN. i asked her this and said just went nuts at me again :S

lol this is my 1st relationship so im new to the world of females

tiggers69699699

i have it that all her friends got crapped on. i also have been told that most girls goto the bf for help etc and arent most couples meant to tell each other everything?

poor listening skills? nah just poor female knowledge skills

[QUOTE="tiggers69699699"][QUOTE="funkadelichika"][QUOTE="tiggers69699699"]

ok but my point is she was ON msn

if she doesnt want people to talk to her WHY THE F GET ON MSN. i asked her this and said just went nuts at me again :S

lol this is my 1st relationship so im new to the world of females

esb1118

i have it that all her friends got crapped on. i also have been told that most girls goto the bf for help etc and arent most couples meant to tell each other everything?

poor listening skills? nah just poor female knowledge skills

exactly

[QUOTE="tiggers69699699"]

ok but my point is she was ON msn

if she doesnt want people to talk to her WHY THE F GET ON MSN. i asked her this and said just went nuts at me again :S

lol this is my 1st relationship so im new to the world of females

funkadelichika

British swear alert!

But seriously leave her alone you numskull.

[QUOTE="funkadelichika"][QUOTE="tiggers69699699"]

ok but my point is she was ON msn

if she doesnt want people to talk to her WHY THE F GET ON MSN. i asked her this and said just went nuts at me again :S

lol this is my 1st relationship so im new to the world of females

tiggers69699699

i have it that all her friends got crapped on. i also have been told that most girls goto the bf for help etc and arent most couples meant to tell each other everything?

poor listening skills? nah just poor female knowledge skills

Uh...no. If you're in a bad mood or something and just don't feel like talking about ****, wouldn't YOU want your girlfriend to not keep ****ing nagging you about it?

So extend the same courtesy. Whatever's wrong (there's probably NOTHING wrong), I'm sure she'll want to talk about it LATER. In the meantime, get off her back and give her some space.

Now, if she NEVER wants to talk about ANYTHING, then there might be a problem. But there's absolutely nothing wrong with her just plain not wanting to talk to you right now.

[QUOTE="funkadelichika"][QUOTE="tiggers69699699"]

ok but my point is she was ON msn

if she doesnt want people to talk to her WHY THE F GET ON MSN. i asked her this and said just went nuts at me again :S

lol this is my 1st relationship so im new to the world of females

tb254

British swear alert!

But seriously leave her alone you numskull.

exactly

tiggers69699699

[QUOTE="tb254"][QUOTE="funkadelichika"][QUOTE="tiggers69699699"]

ok but my point is she was ON msn

if she doesnt want people to talk to her WHY THE F GET ON MSN. i asked her this and said just went nuts at me again :S

lol this is my 1st relationship so im new to the world of females

funkadelichika

British swear alert!

But seriously leave her alone you numskull.

No but you did say bloody hell which is used commonly in Britain as a way to emphasize something such as in Bloody Hell that thing is ugly.

[QUOTE="tiggers69699699"][QUOTE="funkadelichika"][QUOTE="tiggers69699699"]

ok but my point is she was ON msn

if she doesnt want people to talk to her WHY THE F GET ON MSN. i asked her this and said just went nuts at me again :S

lol this is my 1st relationship so im new to the world of females

MrGeezer

i have it that all her friends got crapped on. i also have been told that most girls goto the bf for help etc and arent most couples meant to tell each other everything?

poor listening skills? nah just poor female knowledge skills

Uh...no. If you're in a bad mood or something and just don't feel like talking about ****, wouldn't YOU want your girlfriend to not keep ****ing nagging you about it?

So extend the same courtesy. Whatever's wrong (there's probably NOTHING wrong), I'm sure she'll want to talk about it LATER. In the meantime, get off her back and give her some space.

Now, if she NEVER wants to talk about ANYTHING, then there might be a problem. But there's absolutely nothing wrong with her just plain not wanting to talk to you right now.

not talkign to anyone else either. and again she was on msn and no she wasnt just leaving it on she never does that.

actually if there is something wrong i talk to everyone about it because they can all give me advice and all would have different perspectives on how to resolve the wrongness. so im usually the one nagging for help.

and i know she wasnt talking to anyone cause her msn name said: DONT TALK TO ME RIGHT NOW ANYONE.

Here's a tip there bucko. K you ready? Sure? Listen. To. What. She. Is. Saying. And leave her alone. I think it might work as others in this thread have said. Try it. KrunkMastaX

[QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="tiggers69699699"]

ok so i try talkign to my gf today and she says: please just dont talk, i need some space today and some peace. so i ask whats wrong etc and she says: just leave me the hell alone ok. so i continued on than she just went mental so i said: dw i wont talk to you anymore until you tell me to

turns out her friends tried talking to her also and they got blown up also :S

im thinking someone pissed her off bad and dont think its me or shes on the rag?

anyone with advice?

tiggers69699699

Dude, leave her alone.

Hey, sometimes I just plain don't want to ****ing talk to people either. It's normal. Give her some space.

thing is she was on msn and isnt the point of being on msn to talk

And sometimes going to work is a ****ing relief because I get to get away from my girlfriend for a few hours.

Big deal. She wants some space right now, so give it to her. She doesn't have to talk to YOU ALL THE TIME. If my girlfriend doesn't feel like hanging out with me tonight, and would rather spend tonight with her girl friends, that's FINE.

Dude, just chill out. This doesn't mean anything.

Clearly your still not listening so I give up. Maybe her world just doesn't revolve around you.Yeah yeah you have it good knowing all her friends got crapped on too. Cause you know each and everyone of her friends right? You know sometimes I am on msn and don't talk...I just happen to keep it on all the time just in case someone really needs to get a hold of me. funkadelichika

Um thats his girlfriend not just some female friend. I can understand how he's feeling...even if it makes more sense to just listen to her. If your boyfriend was acting this way Would you so easily do what you're telling him to? Think about that.

[QUOTE="funkadelichika"][QUOTE="tb254"][QUOTE="funkadelichika"][QUOTE="tiggers69699699"]

ok but my point is she was ON msn

if she doesnt want people to talk to her WHY THE F GET ON MSN. i asked her this and said just went nuts at me again :S

lol this is my 1st relationship so im new to the world of females

tb254

British swear alert!

But seriously leave her alone you numskull.

No but you did say bloody hell which is used commonly in Britain as a way to emphasize something such as in Bloody Hell that thing is ugly.

[QUOTE="tiggers69699699"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="tiggers69699699"]

ok so i try talkign to my gf today and she says: please just dont talk, i need some space today and some peace. so i ask whats wrong etc and she says: just leave me the hell alone ok. so i continued on than she just went mental so i said: dw i wont talk to you anymore until you tell me to

turns out her friends tried talking to her also and they got blown up also :S

im thinking someone pissed her off bad and dont think its me or shes on the rag?

anyone with advice?

MrGeezer

Dude, leave her alone.

Hey, sometimes I just plain don't want to ****ing talk to people either. It's normal. Give her some space.

thing is she was on msn and isnt the point of being on msn to talk

And sometimes going to work is a ****ing relief because I get to get away from my girlfriend for a few hours.

Big deal. She wants some space right now, so give it to her. She doesn't have to talk to YOU ALL THE TIME. If my girlfriend doesn't feel like hanging out with me tonight, and would rather spend tonight with her girl friends, that's FINE.

Dude, just chill out. This doesn't mean anything.

we dont talk all the time.

[QUOTE="KrunkMastaX"]Here's a tip there bucko. K you ready? Sure? Listen. To. What. She. Is. Saying. And leave her alone. I think it might work as others in this thread have said. Try it. esb1118

Funny. I just wanna hit it and quit it. I kid I kid I'm not like that. :P But I would definitely date her if I could. Ohh yeahhhh!

[QUOTE="tb254"][QUOTE="funkadelichika"][QUOTE="tb254"][QUOTE="funkadelichika"][QUOTE="tiggers69699699"]

ok but my point is she was ON msn

if she doesnt want people to talk to her WHY THE F GET ON MSN. i asked her this and said just went nuts at me again :S

lol this is my 1st relationship so im new to the world of females

funkadelichika

British swear alert!

But seriously leave her alone you numskull.

No but you did say bloody hell which is used commonly in Britain as a way to emphasize something such as in Bloody Hell that thing is ugly.

Wanker is, hijacked thread woot woot.

[QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="tiggers69699699"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="tiggers69699699"]

ok so i try talkign to my gf today and she says: please just dont talk, i need some space today and some peace. so i ask whats wrong etc and she says: just leave me the hell alone ok. so i continued on than she just went mental so i said: dw i wont talk to you anymore until you tell me to

turns out her friends tried talking to her also and they got blown up also :S

im thinking someone pissed her off bad and dont think its me or shes on the rag?

anyone with advice?

tiggers69699699

Dude, leave her alone.

Hey, sometimes I just plain don't want to ****ing talk to people either. It's normal. Give her some space.

thing is she was on msn and isnt the point of being on msn to talk

And sometimes going to work is a ****ing relief because I get to get away from my girlfriend for a few hours.

Big deal. She wants some space right now, so give it to her. She doesn't have to talk to YOU ALL THE TIME. If my girlfriend doesn't feel like hanging out with me tonight, and would rather spend tonight with her girl friends, that's FINE.

Dude, just chill out. This doesn't mean anything.

we dont talk all the time.

Then you don't have to talk now.

[QUOTE="funkadelichika"]Clearly your still not listening so I give up. Maybe her world just doesn't revolve around you.Yeah yeah you have it good knowing all her friends got crapped on too. Cause you know each and everyone of her friends right? You know sometimes I am on msn and don't talk...I just happen to keep it on all the time just in case someone really needs to get a hold of me. KrunkMastaX

Um thats his girlfriend not just some female friend. I can understand how he's feeling...even if it makes more sense to just listen to her. If your boyfriend was acting this way Would you so easily do what you're telling him to? Think about that.

And sometimes going to work is a ****ing relief because I get to get away from my girlfriend for a few hours.

Big deal. She wants some space right now, so give it to her. She doesn't have to talk to YOU ALL THE TIME. If my girlfriend doesn't feel like hanging out with me tonight, and would rather spend tonight with her girl friends, that's FINE.

Dude, just chill out. This doesn't mean anything.

MrGeezer

What if she wants to spend it with her guy friends? ;)

If my bf was telling me to leave him alone? Yeah I would leave him alone...:| It's not that hard of a concept...:|funkadelichika

Right. So you wouldn't ask him whats wrong or anything? Just say "okay babe" and walk off? :| I highly doubt that. I'm not saying he should keep bugging her. But asking once or maybe twice is NOT a crime and you're acting like it is.

just DO A BARREL ROLL!americahellyeah

and touch her Shoulder, then every little thing will be all right.

oh and as said, she didnt want to talk to anyone else at the time. so the point of being on msn and saying in your msn name: DONT TALK TO ME RIGHT NOW ANYONE.
? whats the point? wouldnt it be better to be off msn and than no one could ask why you dont want anyone talking to you. imo having that as an msn name is a cry for people to ask whats the problem. and than when we do ask she goes nuts :s. shes offline now thank god so whatever ill just leave her alone till she talks to me tiggers69699699

[QUOTE="MrGeezer"]

And sometimes going to work is a ****ing relief because I get to get away from my girlfriend for a few hours.

Big deal. She wants some space right now, so give it to her. She doesn't have to talk to YOU ALL THE TIME. If my girlfriend doesn't feel like hanging out with me tonight, and would rather spend tonight with her girl friends, that's FINE.

Dude, just chill out. This doesn't mean anything.

KrunkMastaX

What if she wants to spend it with her guy friends? ;)

I still don't see the big deal.

So yeah, she has some friends who happen to be guys. That doesn't mean that she's ****ing all of them, and it doesn't mean that she has to stop having friends as soon as she's in a relationship with me. For me to even think that would require a HUGE lack of trust on my part, and she can't really be blamed for that.

oh and as said, she didnt want to talk to anyone else at the time. so the point of being on msn and saying in your msn name: DONT TALK TO ME RIGHT NOW ANYONE.
? whats the point? wouldnt it be better to be off msn and than no one could ask why you dont want anyone talking to you. imo having that as an msn name is a cry for people to ask whats the problem. and than when we do ask she goes nuts :s. shes offline now thank god so whatever ill just leave her alone till she talks to me tiggers69699699

Dude. Calm down. Its not the end of the world trust me. It just seems like it is.

[QUOTE="funkadelichika"]If my bf was telling me to leave him alone? Yeah I would leave him alone...:| It's not that hard of a concept...:|KrunkMastaX

Right. So you wouldn't ask him whats wrong or anything? Just say "okay babe" and walk off? :| I hardly doubt that. I'm not saying he should keep bugging her. But asking once or maybe twice is NOT a crime and you're acting like it is.

[QUOTE="funkadelichika"]If my bf was telling me to leave him alone? Yeah I would leave him alone...:| It's not that hard of a concept...:|KrunkMastaX

Right. So you wouldn't ask him whats wrong or anything? Just say "okay babe" and walk off? :| I highly doubt that. I'm not saying he should keep bugging her. But asking once or maybe twice is NOT a crime and you're acting like it is.

yep asked her once she went nuts. twice even more than ive given up

[QUOTE="tiggers69699699"]oh and as said, she didnt want to talk to anyone else at the time. so the point of being on msn and saying in your msn name: DONT TALK TO ME RIGHT NOW ANYONE.
? whats the point? wouldnt it be better to be off msn and than no one could ask why you dont want anyone talking to you. imo having that as an msn name is a cry for people to ask whats the problem. and than when we do ask she goes nuts :s. shes offline now thank god so whatever ill just leave her alone till she talks to me esb1118

shes showing it big blowing me up like that

I still don't see the big deal.

So yeah, she has some friends who happen to be guys. That doesn't mean that she's ****ing all of them, and it doesn't mean that she has to stop having friends as soon as she's in a relationship with me. For me to even think that would require a HUGE lack of trust on my part, and she can't really be blamed for that.

MrGeezer

Yeah too much "trust" allows them to screw you over in the end. And unless you really truly know this girl (and I'm not saying you don't so please don't go off on me) then your trust in her should not so easily be placed.

Uh asking the once and getting the response "leave me the hell alone" Would be enough for me to leave him alone yes. . He just clearly has poor listening skills. Clearly he has asked whats wrong more than once or twice was told to piss off and yet continued to bug. funkadelichika

Well yeah you're right. But I mean damn if he's her boyfriend she should at least be a little nicer about it. It seems to me like she snapped too much too soon. And again I'm not pardoning what he's doing I'm just saying.

[QUOTE="americahellyeah"]just DO A BARREL ROLL!tb254

and touch her Shoulder, then every little thing will be all right.

exactly, i see you understand "the art, of seduction"

[QUOTE="MrGeezer"]

I still don't see the big deal.

So yeah, she has some friends who happen to be guys. That doesn't mean that she's ****ing all of them, and it doesn't mean that she has to stop having friends as soon as she's in a relationship with me. For me to even think that would require a HUGE lack of trust on my part, and she can't really be blamed for that.

KrunkMastaX

Yeah too much "trust" allows them to screw you over in the end. And unless you really truly know this girl (and I'm not saying you don't so please don't go off on me) then your trust in her should not so easily be placed.

Sorry, but no one's girlfriend or boyfriend should ever have to EARN your trust in order to be allowed to have friends.

Everyone has friends, and they're gonna meet new friends. If you're gonna freak the **** out just because because your girlfriend's friend happens to have a penis or if you expect your girlfriend to dump all of her old friends just because they have penises, then it's YOU who is being overly demanding, and any failing in the relationship is your fault.

Sorry, but no one's girlfriend or boyfriend should ever have to EARN your trust in order to be allowed to have friends.

Everyone has friends, and they're gonna meet new friends. If you're gonna freak the **** out just because because your girlfriend's friend happens to have a penis or if you expect your girlfriend to dump all of her old friends just because they have penises, then it's YOU who is being overly demanding, and any failing in the relationship is your fault.

MrGeezer

Humans are humans. We are sexual beings and act on impulse most of the time. What about people who have put all their trust into a relationship only to find out that they were played all along? It seems as if you think everyone is pure hearted and have never heard of the word "cheating". Like I said if you trust this girl that well you better have a damn good reason other than "no need to be overprotective".