Need some advice OT

hey OT

Heres the deal. At the start of this month, I got ditched by my girlfriend claiming she couldnt take the long distance. I later found out that she was getting close to someone in her cla-ss This made me very sad then angry, but now I'm starting to push her out of my life.

It was all going well untill I get a text from a friend asking me if I was going to her campout. Now I knew for a fact that my ex would be there so I tried to side step it. I then get a text later on that evening from this friend that she has spoken to my ex and I find out that my ex also wants me to go to "talk" to me.

This has made me rage as she hasnt bothered to speak to since she dumped me over text, but I'm dont want to dissapoint my friend as it is her 18th birthday.

I dont know what to do.

Just go. What do you have to lose?aaronmullan

since its your friends 18th birthday.. i personally would go.. and if you don't feel like talking to your ex, then just avoid her.. seeing as she dumped you through text and hasn't talked to you since, i'd just hang out with other friends

Revenge sex. Can't go wrong with revenge sex.

Chances are (from what I understand from your post) you got dumped because she wanted some other guy, he rejected her, and now she's running back to you. In which case DO NOT take her back. But if that "talk" is about something else... Well, you might want to listen.

and PS - You probably shouldn't listen to my advise...:P Wait for some more...

You don't go anywhere if you run away. Go to the b-day thing and move on with your life. Your ex- won't be mentially there.

I personally wouldn't go, but its up to you. Just remember to remain the bigger person and stay respectful and calm.

Revenge sex. Can't go wrong with revenge sex.

XanderKage

STD begs to differ:P

just go and enjoy yourself and if the ex wants tp talk you tell her this is not the time or place, if she wants to talk tell her to call you after and then block her calls

Revenge sex. Can't go wrong with revenge sex.

Chances are (from what I understand from your post) you got dumped because she wanted some other guy, he rejected her, and now she's running back to you. In which case DO NOT take her back. But if that "talk" is about something else... Well, you might want to listen.

and PS - You probably shouldn't listen to my advise...:P Wait for some more...

XanderKage

[QUOTE="XanderKage"]

Revenge sex. Can't go wrong with revenge sex.

shinian

STD begs to differ:P

[QUOTE="aaronmullan"]Just go. What do you have to lose?clyde46

There is problem with trying to avoid her. Theres only about 5-6 people going so its impossible for me to avoid her.

There is problem with trying to avoid her. Theres only about 5-6 people going so its impossible for me to avoid her.

clyde46

hey OT

Heres the deal. At the start of this month, I got ditched by my girlfriend claiming she couldnt take the long distance. I later found out that she was getting close to someone in her cla-ss This made me very sad then angry, but now I'm starting to push her out of my life.

It was all going well untill I get a text from a friend asking me if I was going to her campout. Now I knew for a fact that my ex would be there so I tried to side step it. I then get a text later on that evening from this friend that she has spoken to my ex and I find out that my ex also wants me to go to "talk" to me.

This has made me rage as she hasnt bothered to speak to since she dumped me over text, but I'm dont want to dissapoint my friend as it is her 18th birthday.

I dont know what to do.

clyde46

[QUOTE="clyde46"]

hey OT

Heres the deal. At the start of this month, I got ditched by my girlfriend claiming she couldnt take the long distance. I later found out that she was getting close to someone in her cla-ss This made me very sad then angry, but now I'm starting to push her out of my life.

It was all going well untill I get a text from a friend asking me if I was going to her campout. Now I knew for a fact that my ex would be there so I tried to side step it. I then get a text later on that evening from this friend that she has spoken to my ex and I find out that my ex also wants me to go to "talk" to me.

This has made me rage as she hasnt bothered to speak to since she dumped me over text, but I'm dont want to dissapoint my friend as it is her 18th birthday.

I dont know what to do.

mike_me

[QUOTE="clyde46"]

There is problem with trying to avoid her. Theres only about 5-6 people going so its impossible for me to avoid her.

kamikaze_pigmy

Well then just go and ignore her. I don't think you should just miss out on a possible good time just because she's there. I mean, you can't just avoid every place she might be. Though, as I said, it might make things better if you actually /do/ talk to her instead of just ignoring her. In fact, if you talk with her it's possible you may end up with a situation where you don't have to worry about seeing her anymore.hokies1313

The excuse she gave me was she hated the long distance, but not once did she make the effort to come see me. I'm at uni in Southampton while she's back home 5 hours away. I wouldnt have any trouble not seeing her anymore. It was always me going back to see her.clyde46

[QUOTE="clyde46"]The excuse she gave me was she hated the long distance, but not once did she make the effort to come see me. I'm at uni in Southampton while she's back home 5 hours away. I wouldnt have any trouble not seeing her anymore. It was always me going back to see her.hokies1313

go and then hook up with your friend. This will make your ex jealous, make your friend happy, and give you an excuse for not getting your friend a present.

It works in all ways

Quit raging and go....

And if she wants to talk and talk and tell her if you want/dont want to start things going again.

A girl/man should never have to block your fun. :|

Here s what you do. You go, I partially understand where you're coming from,so if she wants to talk, talk and then just stay away from her and act civilized and try not to let her presence ruin your friends 18th. Dont let your ex ruin the evening and create drama. Just put up with your as long as you can stay on the other side of punch bowl of you know what i mean. Just plan out minimal contact and if you bump into each other dont freak.

just go and don't talk to her. and if she tries to suck up to you, tell her you don't want contact with her and you're only there for your friend.XilePrincess

Id say go, Why not? Go to a camp out maybe get some closure on your ex. (or maybe if you want get back with her) or stay home. Pretty easy choice IMO.