Now that I got her number...

...whats next? More specifically though, should I just be calling in order to try and set up a date or would it not be weird of me to just call her up to just talk?

Prank phone call! XD

Wait a year and then call her, it will creep her right out.

When did you get the number?Neon-Tiger

I got her number Monday night after walking up to work (Shes a coworker) and standing there and talking to her for over an hour while she was working and I was off. I think I have made it painfully obvious that I want to date her (especially that night. I had at least one guy working there who knew exactly what I was doing) and I asked for her number so we could "talk and hang out outside of work."

Post her number here, and we'll all call her to tell her what a swell guy you are.

Call her right now. Then if she asks why your calling you say "I just wanted to make sure you gave me the right number" You can go from therekakkarott23

Don't say that - if you like her, do you really want to start by making her think you didn't trust her? This just isn't a good way to kick things off in my opinion.

another thing, once you do call (after couple of days) and go hangout or w/e, dont call back. Wait for her to call. Leave her wondering why you havent called is a plus, really. Woman feel if you abusing the phone calling them all the time, they lose interest or feel you are their puppet. Tjeremiah1988

sigh...leaving her wondering why you haven't called is not a plus.

Dude you should totally make this little hook up into a series of topics on OTMr_Leonis

[QUOTE="Mr_Leonis"]Dude you should totally make this little hook up into a series of topics on OTMr_Leonis

lol why did you quote yourself?

i've got a lot of friends that are chicks and they all agree, don't wait the 3-4 days everybody says. i'd say call her the next day, in fact my chick friends say call her the same day (i'd disagree with that tho) call her the next day and chat with her, ask her how shes doing and basically make sure she knows yer interested. if she's interested in you she'll be glad you didnt wait 4 days, if she isn't interested you'll know pretty quick and you won't have wasted 4 days. remember, don't let on much about yourself. in fact get her to talk about herself if you can, no girl has ever said "god i hate this guy, all we talk about is me"

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[QUOTE="Mr_Leonis"]Dude you should totally make this little hook up into a series of topics on OTMr_Leonis

lol why did you quote yourself?

You know the sequence when you do something so horrid, so vile that they make up a new rule for it. This is one of those sequences. ;)

i've got a lot of friends that are chicks and they all agree, don't wait the 3-4 days everybody says. i'd say call her the next day, in fact my chick friends say call her the same day (i'd disagree with that tho) call her the next day and chat with her, ask her how shes doing and basically make sure she knows yer interested. if she's interested in you she'll be glad you didnt wait 4 days, if she isn't interested you'll know pretty quick and you won't have wasted 4 days. remember, don't let on much about yourself. in fact get her to talk about herself if you can, no girl has ever said "god i hate this guy, all we talk about is me"

z4twenny

Yeah I plan on calling her today which is why I made this topic. I am trying to prep myself for the call as I want to make sure all goes well.

This is the first time I have ever felt I had a real chance with a girl and on top of that this is the first time I have really had feelings for a girl keep growing and growing. It seems the more I talk to her and the more I learn about her the more I like.

I couldn't do a next day call seeing as yesterday I had to work from 11-6 and then she came in to work at 6.

Another thought is my car is broke ATM (Some people threw a party, got wasted, and then decided to bust out my car windows a week and a half ago)so if we go on a date I am either going to have to walk, ride a bike, or get picked up by her.

As for leonis, I still don't get what you are getting at. This is the only topic I have made about this and I plan on it being the only one. I have no idea whats so wrong with asking a question about like this on here considering ALOT of people on here are in relationships or even married.

[QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"]another thing, once you do call (after couple of days) and go hangout or w/e, dont call back. Wait for her to call. Leave her wondering why you havent called is a plus, really. Woman feel if you abusing the phone calling them all the time, they lose interest or feel you are their puppet. stepnkev

sigh...leaving her wondering why you haven't called is not a plus.

[QUOTE="stepnkev"]

[QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"]another thing, once you do call (after couple of days) and go hangout or w/e, dont call back. Wait for her to call. Leave her wondering why you havent called is a plus, really. Woman feel if you abusing the phone calling them all the time, they lose interest or feel you are their puppet. Tjeremiah1988

sigh...leaving her wondering why you haven't called is not a plus.

I see what you are saying honestly. You are more just suggessting to not push yourself onto them and let the other person put some effort in once in a while.

I don't see myself calling constantly or anything but I am not someone who plays hard to get.....

[QUOTE="stepnkev"]

[QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"]another thing, once you do call (after couple of days) and go hangout or w/e, dont call back. Wait for her to call. Leave her wondering why you havent called is a plus, really. Woman feel if you abusing the phone calling them all the time, they lose interest or feel you are their puppet. Tjeremiah1988

sigh...leaving her wondering why you haven't called is not a plus.

Sigh - I know what you stated and disagreed. Having a girl wait until she wonders why you haven't called is a quick way to make her believe you are not interested. Just call the girl - good grief, is it really so difficult. There is never a need to play these games. If you are interested then call her - it's that simple. I'm not saying call every 30 minutes, but waiting long enough for her to wonder why you haven't called is not good if you are really interested in her. Call her so she knows you are interested before she moves on.

Call her and talk... then set up a date. :|

[QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"][QUOTE="stepnkev"]

sigh...leaving her wondering why you haven't called is not a plus.

stepnkev

Sigh - I know what you stated and disagreed. Having a girl wait until she wonders why you haven't called is a quick way to make her believe you are not interested. Just call the girl - good grief, is it really so difficult. There is never a need to play these games. If you are interested then call her - it's that simple. I'm not saying call every 30 minutes, but waiting long enough for her to wonder why you haven't called is not good if you are really interested in her. Call her so she knows you are interested before she moves on.

Call her for phone sex. It's the safest kind.

Booty call

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[QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"] sigh... I say the opposite and already stated why. Though I already know most wont agree.. All im saying is, once you do date/hangout, dont keep calling. Its usually best for her to call once in awhile. Shows shes interested/thinking about you...Tjeremiah1988

Sigh - I know what you stated and disagreed. Having a girl wait until she wonders why you haven't called is a quick way to make her believe you are not interested. Just call the girl - good grief, is it really so difficult. There is never a need to play these games. If you are interested then call her - it's that simple. I'm not saying call every 30 minutes, but waiting long enough for her to wonder why you haven't called is not good if you are really interested in her. Call her so she knows you are interested before she moves on.

She won't know if you wait to call.

sigh- I dont agree. I feel its best for her to call after awhile. Im not saying completely, dont call her..By waiting, you probably think I mean a month or longer which is not the case .. It shows shes interested and is thinking about you. And she already knows your interrested, obviously..Tjeremiah1988

You're over-looking one major detail... girls can get emotionally attached to guys annoyingly fast. If the girl is really attractive and you wait too long to call her, then there's a great chance that another guy is gonna put some moves on her and she'll fall in love with him before you ever make that call.