oh damn, whats my next move?

alright, so i got pissed off at this one guy for something on Xbox live, i muted him and went along playing while calling him names for his actions such as giving away my location in gears of war, later on he starts talking crap about me because he knew i coulden't hear him, and one of my best friends of many years laughs along with it :| of course i get pissed because of all the times i've stood up for her.

a day or so later i leave a party because she joined it and i tell a friend i don't want to talk to her because of some crap the other night. she cons me back into the party to ask what she was apologising for, so i told her her behaviour was discusting. she starts preaching on how she diden't agree with me being pissed off at the other guy or how i was treating him (when he couldn't hear me :?)

Later another friend steps in, and all that acomplished was her saying she would do what she things is right and if i were in a similer situation she hopes i would "tell" her...

i see the irony in that and post on facebook, in nothing that can be linked to her unless you knew what was going on. "Ironic, we try to do the right thing and end up doing it the wrong way"

Later she posts "looks like somebodys knickers are still in a bunch, i hope they get straightened soon"

and well, it devolved from there

Me:it still appears your going to keep preaching your rightiousness for awhile, and refusing to hear any other side of the story. you have no right to judge me :|

Her: cut it out. No one is preaching at you. This is so over, and this really isn't the place to do this. If you wanna talk to me, just talk. But posting messages here and making a big deal out of this isn't cool. I've already let this thing go, and I wish you'd do the same.

Me: And give me one good reason why i should let this go. this will be "so over" when i have some idea of who the hell you are again. i've tried "just" talking to you, but you won't hear it. this is the only way your going to give a damn.

And then just now, her mother logs onto her MSN and threatens me to stop bullying her...seriously?

i want to hear some ideas other than my own, what should be my next move OT?

Switch to silver account...I mean..Things are taken way too seriously here.

Your next move should be unbunch your knickers and stop bullying her.

Switch to silver account...I mean..Things are taken way too seriously here.

Lto_thaG

Actually leave her alone. Firstly, don't insult somebody on Xbox live. Especially in front of your real-life friends. Secondly, wow, you continued a fight on FACEBOOK? You don't do that in any situation; make it private. I'm siding with the girl on this one. You're being very childish, in my opinion.super_mario_128

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Switch to silver account...I mean..Things are taken way too seriously here.

darkspineslayer

but i'm not just going to drop it, i've been betrayed by one of the last people i could trustdarkspineslayer

She betrayed you by... laughing?

i think you need to calm down. It happened over Xbox live i mean come on

Wow dude, you probably don't want to hear this but... let it go. You're actually letting that one guy get in the way of your friendship with this girl?Hungry_bunny

[QUOTE="super_mario_128"]Actually leave her alone. Firstly, don't insult somebody on Xbox live. Especially in front of your real-life friends. Secondly, wow, you continued a fight on FACEBOOK? You don't do that in any situation; make it private. I'm siding with the girl on this one. You're being very childish, in my opinion.darkspineslayer

[QUOTE="Hungry_bunny"]Wow dude, you probably don't want to hear this but... let it go. You're actually letting that one guy get in the way of your friendship with this girl?darkspineslayer

just ignore her for a week or two and see what happens...

[QUOTE="darkspineslayer"]but i'm not just going to drop it, i've been betrayed by one of the last people i could trustOleg_Huzwog

She betrayed you by... laughing?

Good friends can have a good laugh at eachothers expense and still be friends. I bet that dude's insult was friggen hilarious, and she couldn't help but laugh. Just drop it man.

[QUOTE="super_mario_128"]Actually leave her alone. Firstly, don't insult somebody on Xbox live. Especially in front of your real-life friends. Secondly, wow, you continued a fight on FACEBOOK? You don't do that in any situation; make it private. I'm siding with the girl on this one. You're being very childish, in my opinion.darkspineslayer

she just called you out for being an immature jerk and now yer pissed at her for it. grow up dude, i was past that stuff before i even got into jr. high.

The only thing more boring than participating in internet drama is reading it.AirGuitarist87

Boring? No way, dude. I'm on the edge of my seat.

Seriously? Looks like you need to report to the office...

Fighting on Xbox Live and Facebook is teh lolz.

I thought this was going to be a girl topic, but apparently, it was worse.

I think your next move(s) are to:

1) Go outside.
2) If you fight with people online, that's okay. Just don't overreact about it; It's the internet. It doesn't matter, it's not like they can beat you up or anything.
3) Find a better game. =)

Ok....is this for real? :lol: I mean, really? :?

TC, just let it go. JUST LET IT GO. Some random idiot on XBL is not worth losing a friend over.

If she is as terrible as you say why are you bothering with her?

Wait, so let me get this straight: you're annoyed at her for laughing when someone insulted you over Xbox Live? And then you 'demanded' an apology?! :lol:

My advice to you would be to drop this minor, minor, minor situation and apologise to your friend. Your friend sounds really nice (she's constantly giving you second chances^^), and you don't want to lose such a good friend over a non-issue like this. If you want our honest opinions, I'll say that your rage over Xbox Live, regardless of the provocation, regardless of the fact that he couldn't hear you, was childish, and your friend didn't like that - I fully support her opinion in this.

You've blown this way out of proportion, and if you keep this up you're going to lose a friend (who didn't even realise she was "hurting your pride", or whatever you want to call it). I'm surprised she didn't ditch you sooner, since you haven't treated her very well at all.

Man up, apologise for getting carried away, and pray that she forgives you. Although I honestly wouldn't blame her if she never talks to you again. :/

This thread gave me a good laugh. Your first mistake was insulting someone because you see him as being a poor player. I'm sure if he in fact is playing poorly, he is trying, yet you feel the need to verbally insult him. Then the guy is raging about you. Naturally your friend finds this funny. Apparently she is not allowed to laugh because you're too easily offended. That's mistake two. Then you bring the argument to Facebook, instead of dropping it, and even though she is willing to drop it when you're obviously the one in the wrong, you refuse to let it go, and may even lose a friend because of it. That's like four things you've done wrong, three towards your friend. You should be grateful if she accepts your apology. But of course you're not going to apologize because it should be her apologizing to you, right? :roll:

your next move is to apologize and hope for make up sexy time

Simple .....if a tree falls in a forest with kno one around to hear it does it still make a sound.....

I'll be sitting in the same room and laugh at you if the guy is ripping on you pretty good, even if we're good friends. If anything you first thought shouldn't be "betrayal", it should be "Am I the only one taking this seriously?", to which the answer would be yes and you would then need to get over it. theharlemshake

This brightened my day a little. :lol:

I wish this thread had a poll. I think it would be a little one-sided.