Oh Hai OT, Are You Well Connected?

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#1 Sajedene
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I've been recently helping one of my college friends get a job in the industry. Apart from the fact that I am helping her - I feel that it benefits me since more friends in my line of work means more connections / networking.

Which also got me thinking, and realizing this in past threads as well - that I have pretty good connections to certain things that I enjoy in life. I have family and friends in the gaming industry, myself and friends in the entertainment (TV/Movie industry), PR, tech stuff (MAC discounts - which is honestly useless to me and software stuff), and family in politics. I also have some connection to getting tickets to sporting events and concerts.

Now I wish I had more connections or I need to find connections to more hardware stuff when it comes to technology. Also wish I had connections to cars/dealerships like my boss - it seems pretty sweet. Oh and it would be cool to have more people who have vacation houses I can use.

What about you, OT? Connected?

Networking ftw.

ETA: I need to clarify. This is NOT ass kissing. No one gets far with that. We are talking about networking and having good personal and business contacts and relationships with people.

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#2 Bitter_Altmer
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Yes, I am, and am grateful.And as a result have the ability to disconnect those who don't choose their words so wisely.

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#4 gun-runner
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We have many networks. We can have an agent watching your house in minutes
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#5 Dark__Link
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And by networking, you mean kissing ass for trinkets, something with which you are familiar in both the metaphorical and literal senses.Darwin_Award
:o Oh no you di'int!
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#6 Sajedene
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And by networking, you mean kissing ass for trinkets, something with which you are familiar in both the metaphorical and literal senses.Darwin_Award
Yeah not what I meant at all but okay. If that is what you like to imagine me do - then imagine away.
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#7 Bitter_Altmer
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[QUOTE="Darwin_Award"]And by networking, you mean kissing ass for trinkets, something with which you are familiar in both the metaphorical and literal senses.Sajedene
Yeah not what I meant at all but okay. If that is what you like to imagine me do - then imagine away.

Imagination does not exist within our networks.Only reality.

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#8 xTheExploited
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Well the really rich kids at my school are all the sons and daughters of heads, CEOs, famous (to an extent) people but I would really say I'm well connected because I can't really go to these people for anything. :P EDIT: Mean't to say wouldn't. :evil:
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#9 Sajedene
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Well the really rich kids at my school are all the sons and daughters of heads, CEOs, famous (to an extent) people but I would really say I'm well connected because I can't really go to these people for anything. :PxTheExploited
Maybe someday you can be the really cool parent of one of "those" kids? :P
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#10 GazaAli
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And by networking, you mean kissing ass for trinkets, something with which you are familiar in both the metaphorical and literal senses.Darwin_Award
yea thats pretty much what i think of people with "connections", or at least 99% of them.
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#11 xTheExploited
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[QUOTE="xTheExploited"]Well the really rich kids at my school are all the sons and daughters of heads, CEOs, famous (to an extent) people but I would really say I'm well connected because I can't really go to these people for anything. :PSajedene
Maybe someday you can be the really cool parent of one of "those" kids? :P

Thats the dream. :')
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#12 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="Darwin_Award"]And by networking, you mean kissing ass for trinkets, something with which you are familiar in both the metaphorical and literal senses.GazaAli
yea thats pretty much what i think of people with "connections", or at least 99% of them.

It's more of - I scratch your back, you scratch mine. And I really don't see how I can kiss ass with family (which comprises majority of my connections) and friends. They know me too well to let stuff like that fly. In fact - its pretty weak to kiss ass since people see through that so easily and rarely will one get anything out of it apart from being used.
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I have always been somewhat short on power outlets.

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#15 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"]And I really don't see how I can kiss ass with family (which comprises majority of my connections) and friends. They know me too well to let stuff like that fly.Darwin_Award
I'm sorry of accusing you of being an ass-kisser. You're actually a nepotist.

Well I don't work with my family or have any immediate family in my line of work. But okay. And I can't stop my uncles from gifting the games the develop either.
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#16 GazaAli
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[QUOTE="GazaAli"][QUOTE="Darwin_Award"]And by networking, you mean kissing ass for trinkets, something with which you are familiar in both the metaphorical and literal senses.Sajedene
yea thats pretty much what i think of people with "connections", or at least 99% of them.

It's more of - I scratch your back, you scratch mine. And I really don't see how I can kiss ass with family (which comprises majority of my connections) and friends. They know me too well to let stuff like that fly. In fact - its pretty weak to kiss ass since people see through that so easily and rarely will one get anything out of it apart from being used.

Im being called rigid and rough most of the times, but anyway i know it makes people more secured and assured, but i dont approve of it for myself.
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#17 McJugga
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I don't connect to important people. They connect to me. 8)
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#18 Jackboot343
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I know people who know people. :P

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#19 Sajedene
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I know people who know people. :P

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Your cousin's friend's uncle's cousin twice removed?
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#20 Bloodseeker23
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I know people who know people. :P

Jackboot343

What luck, me too! Maybe you're one of them eh? ;)

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#21 GazaAli
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[QUOTE="Jackboot343"]

I know people who know people. :P

Bloodseeker23

What luck, me too! Maybe you're one of them eh? ;)

the world is small village :lol:
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#22 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="Bloodseeker23"]

[QUOTE="Jackboot343"]

I know people who know people. :P

GazaAli

What luck, me too! Maybe you're one of them eh? ;)

the world is small village :lol:

Communal - lets have a ceremony and share the peace pipe and dip.
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#23 krunkmastax
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Im not lucky enough to have such "connections". I swear Sajedene you make some of the most interesting topics.
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#24 Bedizen
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"]And I really don't see how I can kiss ass with family (which comprises majority of my connections) and friends. They know me too well to let stuff like that fly.Darwin_Award
I'm sorry of accusing you of being an ass-kisser. You're actually a nepotist.

I don't think you understand the concept of having a professional network.

It is about having professional relationships which can be beneficial to both parties. If your network is based of ass kissing then you may wish to change your style.

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#25 Sajedene
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Im not lucky enough to have such "connections". I swear Sajedene you make some of the most interesting topics.KrunkMastaX
See I truly believe we all have great connections - we just need to learn more about the people around us and meet more people and all that. And eh... I've had some people make fun of the topics I make - when I rarely do. I only do the ones that I know, I try to not do repeats, and I try to make it fun and simple.
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#26 rawsavon
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I don't think you understand the concept of having a professional network.

It is about having professional relationships which can be beneficial to both parties. If your network is based of ass kissing then you may wish to change your style.

Bedizen

I fail to understand why the thread has taken the turn it has, but the above post best describes what the TC is talking about...
Having friends and 'connections' in many industries is a GOOD thing

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[QUOTE="KrunkMastaX"]Im not lucky enough to have such "connections". I swear Sajedene you make some of the most interesting topics.Sajedene
See I truly believe we all have great connections - we just need to learn more about the people around us and meet more people and all that. And eh... I've had some people make fun of the topics I make - when I rarely do. I only do the ones that I know, I try to not do repeats, and I try to make it fun and simple.

You're....different is all I'll say. Lol Im not sure what to make of my thoughts on you. I guess its better than being "normal" though.
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#28 Bloodseeker23
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[QUOTE="GazaAli"][QUOTE="Bloodseeker23"] What luck, me too! Maybe you're one of them eh? ;)

Sajedene

the world is small village :lol:

Communal - lets have a ceremony and share the peace pipe and dip.

Absolutely!, who will lead the ceremony though? :P

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Yeah,not so much for practical use,like car dealerships and such,but they keep a good eye out for me.

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#30 Bedizen
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[QUOTE="Bedizen"]

I don't think you understand the concept of having a professional network.

It is about having professional relationships which can be beneficial to both parties. If your network is based of ass kissing then you may wish to change your style.

rawsavon

I fail to understand why the thread has taken the turn it has, but the above post best describes what the TC is talking about...
Having friends and 'connections' in many industries is a GOOD thing

That was not at the TC

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#31 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="GazaAli"] the world is small village :lol:Bloodseeker23

Communal - lets have a ceremony and share the peace pipe and dip.

Absolutely!, who will lead the ceremony though? :P

I nominate you.
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#32 Sajedene
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Yeah,not so much for practical use,like car dealerships and such,but they keep a good eye out for me.

Lto_thaG
But but but I want a car dealership connection :cry: hook me up!
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#33 Bloodseeker23
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[QUOTE="Bloodseeker23"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"] Communal - lets have a ceremony and share the peace pipe and dip. Sajedene

Absolutely!, who will lead the ceremony though? :P

I nominate you.

No way, I do not know the right procedure :o

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#34 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Bloodseeker23"] Absolutely!, who will lead the ceremony though? :P

Bloodseeker23

I nominate you.

No way, I do not know the right procedure :o

Make it up! You're the village elder now. We blindly follow your lead.
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#35 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"]

[QUOTE="Bedizen"]

I don't think you understand the concept of having a professional network.

It is about having professional relationships which can be beneficial to both parties. If your network is based of ass kissing then you may wish to change your style.

Bedizen

I fail to understand why the thread has taken the turn it has, but the above post best describes what the TC is talking about...
Having friends and 'connections' in many industries is a GOOD thing

That was not at the TC

Wait...what :?

I was agreeing with you on your definition of 'having connections'
I was also saying that (IMO) it was the TC's thoughts on it as well

I was disagreeing with those that have posted in here about it being nothing more than kissing ass to get stuff

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#36 Lto_thaG
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[QUOTE="Lto_thaG"]

Yeah,not so much for practical use,like car dealerships and such,but they keep a good eye out for me.

Sajedene

But but but I want a car dealership connection :cry: hook me up!

What do you need a car for?Good luck riding your car when a Zapocalypse is coming. Anyway,maybe my father,but he's all the way in Belgium and I haven't had contact with him in over 6 years :P

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#37 Bloodseeker23
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[QUOTE="Bloodseeker23"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"] I nominate you.Sajedene

No way, I do not know the right procedure :o

Make it up! You're the village elder now. We blindly follow your lead.

AAh.. Okay, well , let there be beer!, everyone likes beer right? :P
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#38 Sajedene
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it was the TC's thoughts on it as well I was disagreeing with those that have posted in here about it being nothing more than kissing ass to get stuffLto_thaG
It was. Glad some people got my message :(

What do you need a car for?Good luck riding your car when a Zapocalypse is coming. Anyway,maybe my father,but he's all the way in Belgium and I haven't had contact with him in over 6 years :P

Lto_thaG

To run them over with? Someone in the car industry needs to invent a crossbreed between a Hummer and a Prius - need me a fortified tank that runs on water or something.

And oh :p

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#39 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Bloodseeker23"] No way, I do not know the right procedure :o

Bloodseeker23

Make it up! You're the village elder now. We blindly follow your lead.

AAh.. Okay, well , let there be beer!, everyone likes beer right? :P

I dont :cry: But I think its because I have yet to be educated with the good kinds.

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#40 Lto_thaG
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To run them over with? Someone in the car industry needs to invent a crossbreed between a Hummer and a Prius - need me a fortified tank that runs on water or something.

And oh :p

Sajedene


Oh,no...Have you read your Zombie Survival Guide?

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[QUOTE="Bloodseeker23"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] Make it up! You're the village elder now. We blindly follow your lead.Sajedene

AAh.. Okay, well , let there be beer!, everyone likes beer right? :P

I dont :cry: But I think its because I have yet to be educated with the good kinds.

Uh oh, beer is the real holy grail in this world! :lol:
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#42 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"]

To run them over with? Someone in the car industry needs to invent a crossbreed between a Hummer and a Prius - need me a fortified tank that runs on water or something.

And oh :p

Lto_thaG


Oh,no...Have you read your Zombie Survival Guide?

Yeah - I don't fully agree with everything on it but its great. I want to have access to everything. Being prepared is having everything at your disposal and hoping you never have to use it.

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#43 Bedizen
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[QUOTE="Bedizen"]

That was not at the TC

rawsavon

Wait...what :?

I was agreeing with you on your definition of 'having connections'
I was also saying that (IMO) it was the TC's thoughts on it as well

I was disagreeing with those that have posted in here about it being nothing more than kissing ass to get stuff

No worries :)

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#44 Blitz_Nemesis
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I wish i had connections. Cant even get a job :(
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#45 Sajedene
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I wish i had connections. Cant even get a job :(Blitz_Nemesis
I read on Yahoo the other day that 80something percent or whatever of jobs are not posted. That it is all through word of mouth and networking. I wish you luck in finding something suitable for you.
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#46 comp_atkins
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no, i make a point to earn things on my own without kissing --- and stroking egos. even if it limits me in some respects. i don't play that game
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no, i make a point to earn things on my own without kissing --- and stroking egos. even if it limits me in some respects. i don't play that gamecomp_atkins
That's not what I meant :( Gahh I need to edit my post or something. Geez.
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#48 comp_atkins
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[QUOTE="comp_atkins"]no, i make a point to earn things on my own without kissing --- and stroking egos. even if it limits me in some respects. i don't play that gameSajedene
That's not what I meant :( Gahh I need to edit my post or something. Geez.

my response remains the same.
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#49 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="comp_atkins"]no, i make a point to earn things on my own without kissing --- and stroking egos. even if it limits me in some respects. i don't play that gamecomp_atkins
That's not what I meant :( Gahh I need to edit my post or something. Geez.

my response remains the same.

Well okay - so you still haven't answered my question then. Are you well connected?
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#50 comp_atkins
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="comp_atkins"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] That's not what I meant :( Gahh I need to edit my post or something. Geez.

my response remains the same.

Well okay - so you still haven't answered my question then. Are you well connected?

no.