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#1 Kevlar101
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Is it weird for a 14 year old guy like me, to want to just (a hate using this word but i cant think of any other) cuddle with his GF? No sex or anything like that in mind at all....... just lying in each others arms........ no hoping for fooling around........ just want to (once again) 'cuddle'. Is this weird for a 14 year old guy?
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#2 jerk-o-tron2000
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Perfectly normal.....And if it cuts down on teen pregnancy, encouraged....

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#3 Pirate700
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Nothing wrong with that at all. It's hard to beat just cuddling together and watching TV or a movie. Now if you don't want to do anything sexual with this girl at all, that's a bit odd.

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#4 kingkong0124
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Perfectly normal.....And if it cuts down on teen pregnancy, encouraged....

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#5 Aquat1cF1sh
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I'm a guy and I prefer cuddling over sex. It seems normal.
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#6 muller39
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I love to cuddle. Nothing wrong at all.
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#7 l4dak47
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Nothing wrong with that at all. It's hard to beat just cuddling together and watching TV or a movie. Now if you don't want to do anything sexual with this girl at all, that's a bit odd.

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#8 Kevlar101
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Now if you don't want to do anything sexual with this girl at all, that's a bit odd.

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Of course I do :P just not in this situation
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#9 Bucked20
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tell her to suck your meat tho
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#10 leviathan91
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I believe cuddling would lead to sex eventually but there's nothing wrong with it. Besides, it's better to wait it out then make babies and **** up your life. ;)

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#11 Pirate700
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

Now if you don't want to do anything sexual with this girl at all, that's a bit odd.

Kevlar101

Of course I do :P just not in this situation

Then it's completely normal.

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#12 Kevlar101
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tell her to suck your meat tho Bucked20
No.
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#13 ninjastar
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Nothing wrong with that. Cuddling is the best! :P

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#14 GamerForca
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At your age, no. When you're 18 and tell a girl you just want to cuddle and not have sex, she'll probably think you're weird though.
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#15 Kevlar101
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At your age, no. When you're 18 and tell a girl you just want to cuddle and not have sex, she'll probably think you're weird though.GamerForca
Well.... what if said girls religion involves chastity? So when she's 18 sex is still probably not an option
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#16 GummiRaccoon
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It means you are gay.

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#17 Mario_Eater
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why would it be weird? I don't see a problem with just wanting to cuddle...
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#18 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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No. But in about a year or two, you'll suddenly want to do a lot more than that. And you may also find that your voice deepens and you grow hair in different places. lol.

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#19 VanHelsingBoA64
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Isn't that kind of hard if you've never met your gf irl
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#20 GamerForca
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[QUOTE="GamerForca"]At your age, no. When you're 18 and tell a girl you just want to cuddle and not have sex, she'll probably think you're weird though.Kevlar101
Well.... what if said girls religion involves chastity? So when she's 18 sex is still probably not an option

What do you mean "probably?" By the age of 18, more girls than not have had sex. And a guy who'd rather not have sex would be seen as weird, at least, that's certainly the case in my experience..
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#21 Darksonic666
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Sounds normal to me but do you want to have sex with her eventually ?

Anyways it's normal because sex is just one way you can show love to your girl.

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#22 Kevlar101
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[QUOTE="Kevlar101"][QUOTE="GamerForca"]At your age, no. When you're 18 and tell a girl you just want to cuddle and not have sex, she'll probably think you're weird though.GamerForca
Well.... what if said girls religion involves chastity? So when she's 18 sex is still probably not an option

What do you mean "probably?" By the age of 18, more girls than not have had sex. And a guy who'd rather not have sex would be seen as weird, at least, that's certainly the case in my experience..

She is Mormon. they believe in chastity. The very mentioning of sex pisses her off.
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#23 GamerForca
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[QUOTE="GamerForca"][QUOTE="Kevlar101"] Well.... what if said girls religion involves chastity? So when she's 18 sex is still probably not an option Kevlar101
What do you mean "probably?" By the age of 18, more girls than not have had sex. And a guy who'd rather not have sex would be seen as weird, at least, that's certainly the case in my experience..

She is Mormon. they believe in chastity. The very mentioning of sex pisses her off.

Who is Mormon? The TC said nothing about his girlfriend being Mormon.
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[QUOTE="GamerForca"][QUOTE="Kevlar101"][QUOTE="GamerForca"] What do you mean "probably?" By the age of 18, more girls than not have had sex. And a guy who'd rather not have sex would be seen as weird, at least, that's certainly the case in my experience..

She is Mormon. they believe in chastity. The very mentioning of sex pisses her off.

Who is Mormon? The TC said nothing about his girlfriend being Mormon.

I am the TC...... its my Girlfriend....... she is Mormon........ jeez man
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#25 Sajo7
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Unless your killing small animals or staring lustfully at children, do whatever you want man.
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#26 GamerForca
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[QUOTE="GamerForca"][QUOTE="Kevlar101"] She is Mormon. they believe in chastity. The very mentioning of sex pisses her off.Kevlar101
Who is Mormon? The TC said nothing about his girlfriend being Mormon.

I am the TC...... its my Girlfriend....... she is Mormon........ jeez man

Oops, looking at too many threads at once. Anyway, my original comment was more in the assumption that you'd be with or looking for a different girl in a few years, as relationships at the age of 14 typically don't last very long. Though if you're still with the Mormon, then sure.. cuddle away.
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#27 sonofsmeagle
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haha obviously no offence intended it just matches the situation.

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#28 Kevlar101
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haha obviously no offence intended it just matches the situation.

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[QUOTE="GamerForca"][QUOTE="Kevlar101"][QUOTE="GamerForca"] Who is Mormon? The TC said nothing about his girlfriend being Mormon.

I am the TC...... its my Girlfriend....... she is Mormon........ jeez man

Oops, looking at too many threads at once. Anyway, my original comment was more in the assumption that you'd be with or looking for a different girl in a few years, as relationships at the age of 14 typically don't last very long. Though if you're still with the Mormon, then sure.. cuddle away.

We have been together for 5 months now....... so there is hope
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#30 Blake135
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Your 14 enjoy the cuddles, sex and all that serious stuff is too hard, enjoy the younger days as much as you can.

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#31 poptart
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It always starts with a few couch cuddles, but within 5 mins you'll be aggresively dry humping like a monkey on amphetemines.

That's usually the case with a 14 year boy with more testosterone pumping through his veins than the riders of the Tour De France combined.

Then again maybe you're just one of them 'cuddlers'

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#32 Kevlar101
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It always starts with a few couch cuddles, but within 5 mins you'll be aggresively dry humping like a monkey on amphetemines.

That's usually the case with a 14 year boy with more testosterone pumping through his veins than the riders of the Tour De France combined.

Then again maybe you're just one of them 'cuddlers'

poptart
Coming into any kind of physical contact with a girl (ANY at all) makes my pants rise.
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#33 IdioticIcarus
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Even if your girlfriend weren't Mormon, there's nothing wrong with cuddling.

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#34 XilePrincess
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Cuddling is fine and not weird.
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#35 soulless4now
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Nope, especially for your age.

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#36 TopTierHustler
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No, it just means you probably have low Testosterone.

See a doctor if it's bad.

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#37 Kevlar101
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No, it just means you probably have low Testosterone.

See a doctor if it's bad.

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BELIEVE ME...... its not that...... I would say how I know this, but you would probably report me.........
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#38 TopTierHustler
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[QUOTE="TopTierHustler"]

No, it just means you probably have low Testosterone.

See a doctor if it's bad.

Kevlar101

BELIEVE ME...... its not that...... I would say how I know this, but you would probably report me.........

no offence, but that's my guess.

Sounds text book tbh.

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#39 poptart
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[QUOTE="poptart"]

It always starts with a few couch cuddles, but within 5 mins you'll be aggresively dry humping like a monkey on amphetemines.

That's usually the case with a 14 year boy with more testosterone pumping through his veins than the riders of the Tour De France combined.

Then again maybe you're just one of them 'cuddlers'

Kevlar101

Coming into any kind of physical contact with a girl (ANY at all) makes my pants rise.

Could lead to some awkward explanations to your parents when your sister brushes past you.

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[QUOTE="Kevlar101"][QUOTE="poptart"]

It always starts with a few couch cuddles, but within 5 mins you'll be aggresively dry humping like a monkey on amphetemines.

That's usually the case with a 14 year boy with more testosterone pumping through his veins than the riders of the Tour De France combined.

Then again maybe you're just one of them 'cuddlers'

poptart

Coming into any kind of physical contact with a girl (ANY at all) makes my pants rise.

Could lead to some awkward explanations to your parents when your sister brushes past you.

:lol: It does not happen with my sister :lol: any girl OUTSIDE of my family
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#41 Kevlar101
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[QUOTE="Kevlar101"][QUOTE="TopTierHustler"]

No, it just means you probably have low Testosterone.

See a doctor if it's bad.

TopTierHustler

BELIEVE ME...... its not that...... I would say how I know this, but you would probably report me.........

no offence, but that's my guess.

Sounds text book tbh.

Please dont report me, i am just clearing this up: I whack off if i even see a fully clothed hot girl on TV.
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#42 XilePrincess
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[QUOTE="TopTierHustler"]

[QUOTE="Kevlar101"] BELIEVE ME...... its not that...... I would say how I know this, but you would probably report me.........Kevlar101

no offence, but that's my guess.

Sounds text book tbh.

Please dont report me, i am just clearing this up: I whack off if i even see a fully clothed hot girl on TV.

How does watching your mom vacuum make you feel then? You know, getting all under the couches and stuff. I think you might need church camp to beat the devil out of you.
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#43 Kevlar101
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[QUOTE="Kevlar101"][QUOTE="TopTierHustler"]no offence, but that's my guess.

Sounds text book tbh.

XilePrincess
Please dont report me, i am just clearing this up: I whack off if i even see a fully clothed hot girl on TV.

How does watching your mom vacuum make you feel then? You know, getting all under the couches and stuff. I think you might need church camp to beat the devil out of you.

I mean OUTSIDE of my family. Jeez.
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[QUOTE="GamerForca"][QUOTE="Kevlar101"] I am the TC...... its my Girlfriend....... she is Mormon........ jeez man Kevlar101
Oops, looking at too many threads at once. Anyway, my original comment was more in the assumption that you'd be with or looking for a different girl in a few years, as relationships at the age of 14 typically don't last very long. Though if you're still with the Mormon, then sure.. cuddle away.

We have been together for 5 months now....... so there is hope

No, you have not been together for five months. You have not been together at all. You've never even met your "girlfriend". Wait until you have an actual girlfriend that you have real actual physical contact with, then you can talk about how you only want to cuddle or about how long your relationship has lasted.

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#45 ghoklebutter
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No, that's something all couples should do. If I had a romantic partner, I'd definitely want to cuddle.
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And if it cuts down on teen pregnancy, encouraged....jerk-o-tron2000
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#47 poptart
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[QUOTE="jerk-o-tron2000"]And if it cuts down on teen pregnancy, encouraged....sandlot76

a million thumbs up

Thumbs up to encouraging cuddling?

Fuucking hell.

It's like the 1950s in here.

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#48 SteverXIII
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Yeah, thats cool and all. But first you actually need to get a gf.
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#49 FMAB_GTO
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In these times i can say that it is better than.....taking things too far. how old is she again?
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#50 Krelian-co
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well i find it kinda weird, at that age i was already trying to get into girls pants, maybe you are slow to hit puberty, and no matter what the politically correct answer these guys give, a kid who is in his puberty will want to have sex.