she tells me shes a freaking SWINGER/PLAYER! All this time im starting to like her and bam, she comes out with this. I dont know if I can talk to her anymore. And yes, this is the same guy that created that thread "is it ok to talk to a girl everyday".
So just maintain a non-romantic friendship. Problem solved.pianist
yea i guess, but it wont be easy becasue the past couple of weeks i really started to like her becasue we share the same view, i mean EVERYTHING. N now this, this just sucks.
[QUOTE="pianist"]So just maintain a non-romantic friendship. Problem solved.Tjeremiah1988
yea i guess, but it wont be easy becasue the past couple of weeks i really started to like her becasue we share the same view, i mean EVERYTHING. N now this, this just sucks.
You've learned a valuable life lesson - you can't learn everything there is to know about a person in two weeks of conversing on the internet. That knowledge will be valuable to you in your future relationships.
I say go with it. Just be sure to use protection. If she has experience she's probably good in the bedroom. If she's not that good, then she ought to be able to teach you a few things that will make you better.
[QUOTE="pianist"]So just maintain a non-romantic friendship. Problem solved.pianist
yea i guess, but it wont be easy becasue the past couple of weeks i really started to like her becasue we share the same view, i mean EVERYTHING. N now this, this just sucks.
You've learned a valuable life lesson - you can't learn everything there is to know about a person in two weeks of conversing on the internet. That knowledge will be valuable to you in your future relationships.
na, i knew her. We had class together last semester. Just that since its break time we just have been talking a lot and I started to like her.
I say go with it. Just be sure to use protection. If she has experience she's probably good in the bedroom. If she's not that good, then she ought to be able to teach you a few things that will make you better. Poedon
Looks like you missed his sig. Maybe that would be a clue as to why this is an upsetting revelation.
na, i knew her. We had class together last semester. Just that since its break time we just have been talking a lot and I started to like her.
Tjeremiah1988
But you didn't know her. Something like this is something you need to know before you can say you know a person, and I doubt this is a development that just took place a week or so ago. If so, she's been busy. Being an acquaintance and being a friend are two very different things.
[QUOTE="Poedon"]I say go with it. Just be sure to use protection. If she has experience she's probably good in the bedroom. If she's not that good, then she ought to be able to teach you a few things that will make you better. pianist
Looks like you missed his sig. Maybe that would be a clue as to why this is an upsetting revelation.
Oh man... it must suck having some unproven, never-seen "spirit" I guess telling you that you can't do her. Haha she said she would too! Unlucky...
It looks like you have two options, bud. Ditch her or ditch God.
Tjeremiah1988
wow
Yeah, sucks to be you, eh?
[EDIT] Although, from your point of view, there is only one God and plenty of girls. So that should make it easy. You might really like the girl but don't you like your God better?
Don't date her, but stay friends if you like her. Nothing about her has changed other than your knowledge of what she does in her spare time. FlaminDeath
Im also a Christian, but I've had plenty of premarital sex. God isnt going to turn his back and send you to hell if you have sex with this girl. Im sure youve learned he's a forgiving God.....so strap up and give the girl what she wants. I hope youve enjoyed the peer pressure.
Well if she doesnt want to commit to a relationship and ony wants to go from one guy to the next...seems like a waste of time if you want more than sex with her :/
Haha cowboys89 has it! If you don't believe in him in the first place, God is very judgemental, but if you do believe in him then you can do whatever you want and he will forgive you! Seems to me like the TC is in a good position :lol:
[QUOTE="dooly420"][QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"]she even said if i want some , she would have no problem giving. Tjeremiah1988
so what's the problem?
im christan but then again, shes nasty. Why would I bother with a girl that sleeps around and proud of it?
If you're a Christian, then there's no question of what to do here. And your right, don't bother with a girl like that. You seem like the kind of guy who wants a strong healthy relationship. Get rid of her and don't worry, another girl will come along.
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