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#1 mr__gameboy
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so i have this friend, and we have been friends for many, many years. but now i have a bit of a problem. i find myself extremely attracted to his wife. not just physically either. this girl could honestly be my soul mate. now i would never do anything behind my boys back. i am not a cheater. but i cant get thoughts out of my head when i am around her and i also feel bad for her. see my friend cheats on her and treats her pretty crappy. she told me she is only with him cause they have a child. i dont want to hurt my boy cause he is my boy, but i also cant get this girl off my mind. what would you do?

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#2 CBR600-RR
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Go for it, who knows, he might join in. :shock:

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#3 swiftkillz0
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if there is a kid involved i wouldnt do anything. you should let teh marrige dissolve on its own.
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so i have this friend, and we have been friends for many, many years. but now i have a bit of a problem. i find myself extremely attracted to his wife. not just physically either. this girl could honestly be my soul mate. now i would never do anything behind my boys back. i am not a cheater. but i cant get thoughts out of my head when i am around her and i also feel bad for her. see my friend cheats on her and treats her pretty crappy. she told me she is only with him cause they have a child. i dont want to hurt my boy cause he is my boy, but i also cant get this girl off my mind. what would you do?

mr__gameboy
If he cheats on her then he deserves having her taken away. The kid is irrelevant. I hate to see any kid get treated badly, but it sounds like is dad is a bit of a **** So if you are willing to treat her better than he is, then go for it.
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#5 GenTom
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so i have this friend, and we have been friends for many, many years. but now i have a bit of a problem. i find myself extremely attracted to his wife. not just physically either. this girl could honestly be my soul mate. now i would never do anything behind my boys back. i am not a cheater. but i cant get thoughts out of my head when i am around her and i also feel bad for her. see my friend cheats on her and treats her pretty crappy. she told me she is only with him cause they have a child. i dont want to hurt my boy cause he is my boy, but i also cant get this girl off my mind. what would you do?

mr__gameboy
Talk to her or just leave it alone.
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#6 horgen  Moderator
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I would do nothing... You can be there when the marriage dissolves ;)
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#7 Oleg_Huzwog
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Your boy? Does that mean she's like, your daughter-in-law or something? Gross!

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#8 Wilfred_Owen
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Sleep with him instead. Turn him gay and shes all yours.
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#9 deactivated-5e0e425ee91d8
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if he is being that bad to her, maybe push her in the right direction and wait for the marrige to dissolve on its own...then move it
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#10 Harry_Waters
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Sleep with him instead. Turn him gay and shes all yours.Wilfred_Owen
There's never any excuse to become a gayboy.
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Parents went away on a week's vacation?
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#12 Baranga
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Save her and the kid by marrying her.

Guy's a douchebag, doesn't really deserve your friendship.

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#13 Wilfred_Owen
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Parents went away on a week's vacation?xaos
His mother should have bought him those Adidias :(.
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#14 mr__gameboy
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you should have seen this girls bodily deminsions, i honked my horn just to get her attention

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With a kid involved thier really ain't much that you can do at all. Barring moving on of course, because from the looks of it, thats your best shot.

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#16 BobbyTurkalino
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Kidnap the child. That way she has to be with you because you have her kid.
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#17 Harry_Waters
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With a kid involved thier really ain't much that you can do at all. Barring moving on of course, because from the looks of it, thats your best shot.

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You should never move on. Never give up on the one you want, do whatever it takes. Especially in cases like this.
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#18 mr__gameboy
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half say yes, half say no..:|

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#19 dumbo_ink
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You live in Bville. It's normal to hook up with your boyz honey.

I say, tell her how you feel first. Feel out her response for a hot minute. Then move in, or away. If she takes it in offense in any way (without telling her about the cheating) make a joke out of it. She knows you that well I would assume. But if she says she feelz the same. I say, introduce her to your parents!!!

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#20 cyberdarkkid
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half say yes, half say no..:|

mr__gameboy

What do you think is the right choice? sometimes what's best for you isn't the right thing to do.

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#21 deadFalling
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is she hot enough to betray ur friend for.....if yes then go for it bro!

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#22 btaylor2404
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Leave her alone. Don't go over and see them if you have to. The fact that he cheats on her is irrelevant, they have a child and it's their marriage. Stay out until/if they are divorced.
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#23 AlmightyMax
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Is there a Seinfeld episode on this? There must be.

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#24 bobaban
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so i have this friend, and we have been friends for many, many years. but now i have a bit of a problem. i find myself extremely attracted to his wife. not just physically either. this girl could honestly be my soul mate. now i would never do anything behind my boys back. i am not a cheater. but i cant get thoughts out of my head when i am around her and i also feel bad for her. see my friend cheats on her and treats her pretty crappy. she told me she is only with him cause they have a child. i dont want to hurt my boy cause he is my boy, but i also cant get this girl off my mind. what would you do?

mr__gameboy
You got to do whats best for you. If you feel that she is really meant for you, you can easily break them up from the inside. If she's unhappy you really should start sleeping with her, especially if your friend is cheating on her. Honestly you'll be doing your friend a favor, but you'll probably lose him in the process, but gain your "soul mate",
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#25 LJS9502_basic
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They are married dude. Stay away....and don't try and justify it.