Open relationship - my girl is awesome

So my girl after 5 years finally wants an open relationship and gave me the go ahead to put the moves on my roommate who's super hot. At first I was all uptight cuz she'd be with other dudes but honestly I can't see going back to a "normal" relationship now, humans weren't meant to just be with one person it's in our nature to be with as many people as possible.

My question now is, does it make me a bad person? I dunno, just thought I'd ask.

Hot friends with benefits > Girlfriend

Unless your girlfriend is super hot and awesome.

She's probably done that because she has a lot of guys already in mind :PAnubisCraig

She's probably done that because she has a lot of guys already in mind :PAnubisCraig

She admitted she did, same with me admitting i had some women in mind. ;)

on paper it sounds great...until you realize so other guy is feeling up on her and kissing her

something tells me she already has a line of guys waiting

So my girl after 5 years finally wants an open relationship and gave me the go ahead to put the moves on my roommate who's super hot. At first I was all uptight cuz she'd be with other dudes but honestly I can't see going back to a "normal" relationship now, humans weren't meant to just be with one person it's in our nature to be with as many people as possible.

My question now is, does it make me a bad person? I dunno, just thought I'd ask.

MarineJcksn

then explain how we've lasted this long? how about your parents? are relationships even sacred anymore? my god, how moral values have plummeted. Well, i'm happy with my girl, and i'm sticking with only her.

so basically your just

**** buddies

To me, that just sounds ridiculous.SolidSnake35

[QUOTE="MarineJcksn"]

So my girl after 5 years finally wants an open relationship and gave me the go ahead to put the moves on my roommate who's super hot. At first I was all uptight cuz she'd be with other dudes but honestly I can't see going back to a "normal" relationship now, humans weren't meant to just be with one person it's in our nature to be with as many people as possible.

My question now is, does it make me a bad person? I dunno, just thought I'd ask.

icarus212001

then explain how we've lasted this long? how about your parents? are relationships even sacred anymore? my god, how moral values have plummeted. Well, i'm happy with my girl, and i'm sticking with only her.

I think relationships are sacred, my parents have been together 30 years. But to be able to share something that makes you both happy doesn't mean that your relationship isn't a good, strong thing. Different strokes to move the world I guess.

So my girl after 5 years finally wants an open relationship and gave me the go ahead to put the moves on my roommate who's super hot. At first I was all uptight cuz she'd be with other dudes but honestly I can't see going back to a "normal" relationship now, humans weren't meant to just be with one person it's in our nature to be with as many people as possible.

My question now is, does it make me a bad person? I dunno, just thought I'd ask.

MarineJcksn

a man was meant for one woman.

Why not just be single? I don't understand the concept of an open relatioship when being single is the better option...

She'll probably build relationships with other men and 'new ones' always seem better then a exsisting relationshipScarface_tm431

Like my girl Joni says, "Dont it always seem to go that you dont know what youve got till its gone"

If you're going to be in an open relationship, what's keeping it together besides that label still barely hanging onto the empty bottle your relationship has apprently become?

I see no point or logic in it. At all. Just be single or get together with that other girl. The whole point of being in a relationship is having certain intimate relations soley between you and that one other person. Otherwise it's not a real relationship. They require commitment or it just doesn't exist.

[QUOTE="icarus212001"][QUOTE="MarineJcksn"]

So my girl after 5 years finally wants an open relationship and gave me the go ahead to put the moves on my roommate who's super hot. At first I was all uptight cuz she'd be with other dudes but honestly I can't see going back to a "normal" relationship now, humans weren't meant to just be with one person it's in our nature to be with as many people as possible.

My question now is, does it make me a bad person? I dunno, just thought I'd ask.

MarineJcksn

then explain how we've lasted this long? how about your parents? are relationships even sacred anymore? my god, how moral values have plummeted. Well, i'm happy with my girl, and i'm sticking with only her.

I think relationships are sacred, my parents have been together 30 years. But to be able to share something that makes you both happy doesn't mean that your relationship isn't a good, strong thing. Different strokes to move the world I guess.

yeah that means your gonna have to man up when she tells you she loves some other guy, wheather you want to believe it or not...your relationship isn't going to last long

It doesn't make you a bad person.

Sex is different from love. Just be sure to separate the two.

If you're going to be in an open relationship, what's keeping it together besides that label still barely hanging onto the empty bottle your relationship has apprently become?

I see no point or logic in it. At all. Just be single or get together with that other girl. The whole point of being in a relationship is having certain intimate relations soley between you and that one other person. Otherwise it's not a real relationship. They require commitment or it just doesn't exist.

Hello_Skitty

So my girl after 5 years finally wants an open relationship and gave me the go ahead to put the moves on my roommate who's super hot. At first I was all uptight cuz she'd be with other dudes but honestly I can't see going back to a "normal" relationship now, humans weren't meant to just be with one person it's in our nature to be with as many people as possible.

My question now is, does it make me a bad person? I dunno, just thought I'd ask.

MarineJcksn

this means your girlfriend already has another guy(s) that she has been hooking up with for awhile. She isn't going to stay around much longer, probably just enjoying all the free meals and gifts. Dump her.

And even if this isn't the case what are the odds your roomate wants to be with you while you are seeing another girl?

And since your girlfriend seems to enjoy sleeping around, she probably already has or likely will contract an STD...which means you will be getting one.

So, yeah, enjoy all that.

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If you're going to be in an open relationship, what's keeping it together besides that label still barely hanging onto the empty bottle your relationship has apprently become?

I see no point or logic in it. At all. Just be single or get together with that other girl. The whole point of being in a relationship is having certain intimate relations soley between you and that one other person. Otherwise it's not a real relationship. They require commitment or it just doesn't exist.

xaos

He is saying the sky is blue, yet you insist it is green. Sex may not be important to you, but part of a relationship is doing things like that with someone special and reserving it for that one special person. If you have to have your fix from someone else, either you honestly don't love her (which you don't, so you should just break up with her), or you just flat out don't understand what it means to be in a relationship.

I dunno, my partner and I have had an open relationship for almost 5 years and it hasn't been a source of problems for usxaos

Good to see someone who understands.

[QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="Hello_Skitty"]

If you're going to be in an open relationship, what's keeping it together besides that label still barely hanging onto the empty bottle your relationship has apprently become?

I see no point or logic in it. At all. Just be single or get together with that other girl. The whole point of being in a relationship is having certain intimate relations soley between you and that one other person. Otherwise it's not a real relationship. They require commitment or it just doesn't exist.

icarus212001

He is saying the sky is blue, yet you insist it is green. Sex may not be important to you, but part of a relationship is doing things like that with someone special and reserving it for that one special person. If you have to have your fix from someone else, either you honestly don't love her (which you don't, so you should just break up with her), or you just flat out don't understand what it means to be in a relationship.

EDIT: but w/e makes you happy. Just take what NAVIGATORGHOST said into consideration. It sucks when your girlfriend (YOUR girlfriend) got something from someone else. thats why its crucial and important and meaningful to keep it just at 2 people.

Do people have values still or are we all as souless as the tc?SuperVegeta518

i agree. i don't believe in a multi-partnered relationship, unless all you want is rigorous sex.

[QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="Hello_Skitty"]

If you're going to be in an open relationship, what's keeping it together besides that label still barely hanging onto the empty bottle your relationship has apprently become?

I see no point or logic in it. At all. Just be single or get together with that other girl. The whole point of being in a relationship is having certain intimate relations soley between you and that one other person. Otherwise it's not a real relationship. They require commitment or it just doesn't exist.

icarus212001

He is saying the sky is blue, yet you insist it is green. Sex may not be important to you, but part of a relationship is doing things like that with someone special and reserving it for that one special person. If you have to have your fix from someone else, either you honestly don't love her (which you don't, so you should just break up with her), or you just flat out don't understand what it means to be in a relationship.

That's what I meant, more or less with the intimacy thing. Because basically the only thing (generally) that seperates a friendship from a relationship is the intimacy. Because otherwise it seems you're just two very good friends.

It doesn't necessarily make you a bad person, but it also doesn't necessarily make it a "relationship."IAteTheSoap

Yar, this is no "relationship."

[QUOTE="AnubisCraig"]She's probably done that because she has a lot of guys already in mind :PMarineJcksn

She admitted she did, same with me admitting i had some women in mind. ;)

well that's good now i won't feel bad when i tell you i banged your girlfriend.

[QUOTE="MarineJcksn"]

[QUOTE="AnubisCraig"]She's probably done that because she has a lot of guys already in mind :PSeanUD1

She admitted she did, same with me admitting i had some women in mind. ;)

well that's good now i won't feel bad when i tell you i banged your girlfriend.

Lol...xD

Hmm, well the term "bad" is subjective. You steal if you're starving, you kill if it's necessary. But that realates to self-preservation not swinging in your case, so I digress.

If you feel you need to ask, then what do you think? Oh, and don't forget it works both ways. Careful what you ask for or you might just end up seeing your chick doin the deed with one of your friends. I think you're walking into a mine field with a blindfold on my friend, my honest opinion.

Do people have values still or are we all as souless as the tc?SuperVegeta518

What I do might not seem right in your eyes but I think "soul-less" is a little much. I love my girl with all my heart, it's just something we enjoy doing together once in a while....why should that make us soulless?

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[QUOTE="AnubisCraig"]She's probably done that because she has a lot of guys already in mind :PHello_Skitty

She admitted she did, same with me admitting i had some women in mind. ;)

well that's good now i won't feel bad when i tell you i banged your girlfriend.

Lol...xD

I'll admit, that's pretty funny. :lol:
We don't do stuff without each other there though, so I doubt it. Still, pretty funny.