OT girl help thread: serious stuff guyz

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#1 -RocBoys9489-
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Alright here's the story in a nutshell:

It's the 3rd of January, and the first day going back to school for second semester. Since I don't like to drive in the winter and walk up to school from the parking lot in the freezing, I elect to take the bus. So I begin walking to the bus with my huge winter coat, SUPER tired, when all of a sudden I hear the voice of a girl behind me say, "Is the bus stop around here?" It REALLY scared me lol, especially because I was so out of it! She laughed and I guided her to the bus stop. It was then I began to talk to her and I found out she is a new student and just moved into my neighborhood. So I welcomed her blablabla and I start to think to myself, I seem interested in this girl, is this god's gift for a new year? lol She than asked how old I was and I found out she was 2 classes below me haha. She then followed up by asking me if I thought she looked older than her age and I said yea bla bla :P

I've only seen her twice now and will only get 5 minute opportunities to talk to her everyday. Plus, we're the last stop so I can't sit with her as all the seats are full, especially in the winter. My question is, what should I do in this situation? Do you think she will like me or think I'm creepy cuz I'm an older guy? How should I talk to her more in the future, not at the bus stop? I'm not use to being in situations like this which is why I don't know what to do. I don't mean to brag either, but I'd say I'm a pretty attractive guy if that helps lol

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#2 MarioRPGer
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that her in ur sig?

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#3 -RocBoys9489-
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that her in ur sig?

MarioRPGer
Yea, in my freakin' DREAMS! :P
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#4 raynimrod
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[QUOTE="MarioRPGer"]

that her in ur sig?

-RocBoys9489-

Yea, in my freakin' DREAMS! :P

Well if this girl is just a figment of your imagination, I'd suggest forgetting about it. You certainly shouldn't be posting about it on Gamespot.

[spoiler] :P Keep talking to her, make a good impression early [/spoiler] .

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#5 _rock_
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pick her up in your car and drive her to school ;), that way she wont have to stand up on the bus and you to can chat and it could lead to other things.
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#6 XilePrincess
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I assume by 2 "classes" you mean 2 years. That seems perfectly acceptable, you're not expected to only date within the same birth year as yourself. I'd ask her if she'd like you to show her around a bit more, and if she says yes, take her for lunch to the best local restaurant you know of, show her things she might be interested in, etc. I'm sure she'll appreciate the tour, and you'll get a non-date-date out of it.
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#7 -RocBoys9489-
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pick her up in your car and drive her to school ;), that way she wont have to stand up on the bus and you to can chat and it could lead to other things._rock_
lol she lives like 10 yards away from the bus stop :P And I don't wanna walk up the trail to school, it's so freezing! I don't think she would like it either lol. Trust me, I would love to do that, maybe when it's warmer
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Touch her shoulder and off her some toast.

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[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]I assume by 2 "classes" you mean 2 years. That seems perfectly acceptable, you're not expected to only date within the same birth year as yourself. I'd ask her if she'd like you to show her around a bit more, and if she says yes, take her for lunch to the best local restaurant you know of, show her things she might be interested in, etc. I'm sure she'll appreciate the tour, and you'll get a non-date-date out of it.

I live really close to her too (obsiously), would it be creepy to ask her to come over to my place or vice versa?
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[QUOTE="-RocBoys9489-"][QUOTE="XilePrincess"]I assume by 2 "classes" you mean 2 years. That seems perfectly acceptable, you're not expected to only date within the same birth year as yourself. I'd ask her if she'd like you to show her around a bit more, and if she says yes, take her for lunch to the best local restaurant you know of, show her things she might be interested in, etc. I'm sure she'll appreciate the tour, and you'll get a non-date-date out of it.

I live really close to her too (obsiously), would it be creepy to ask her to come over to my place or vice versa?

I don't think so, if you guys are sort of friends now, that seems fine. I'd extend the invitation for her to come to my house rather than asking to go to hers, though.
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#11 Lethargika
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For now, give her a little attention, help her with her books, etc. Be a perfect gentleman. Make her laugh, make her feel good. Then ask her if she would like to grab some dinner one night. Show her a great time all around. A girl appreciates a guy who takes their time to get to know her for who she is, and does things right. This shows her your sincere side, and that you are genuinely interested in getting to know her as a person. Trust me on this one.

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lol she lives like 10 yards away from the bus stop :P -RocBoys9489-
You know where she lives? The stalking potential is strong, here.
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[QUOTE="XilePrincess"][QUOTE="-RocBoys9489-"][QUOTE="XilePrincess"]I assume by 2 "classes" you mean 2 years. That seems perfectly acceptable, you're not expected to only date within the same birth year as yourself. I'd ask her if she'd like you to show her around a bit more, and if she says yes, take her for lunch to the best local restaurant you know of, show her things she might be interested in, etc. I'm sure she'll appreciate the tour, and you'll get a non-date-date out of it.

I live really close to her too (obsiously), would it be creepy to ask her to come over to my place or vice versa?

I don't think so, if you guys are sort of friends now, that seems fine. I'd extend the invitation for her to come to my house rather than asking to go to hers, though.

Alright, I think I'm going to try by asking her if she has made any new friends yet. Hopefully when she says no or a similar answer, I'll extend my friendship hand out to her. Facebook a good idea? Hopefully that'll lead to something :)
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[QUOTE="-RocBoys9489-"] lol she lives like 10 yards away from the bus stop :P fidosim
You know where she lives? The stalking potential is strong, here.

haha very funny Mr. ;)
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#15 xLFTMx
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Grow some balls and ask her out.

If shes not already interested she never will be.

Or she is, and you'll live happily ever after. Either way just get it over with.

If she is interested she might get turned off by how long it takes you to ask her out. Girls don't like cowards.

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just ask her "so since we take the bus together, how about we go out to the movies together too?"

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#17 -RocBoys9489-
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Grow some balls and ask her out.

If shes not already interested she never will be.

Or she is, and you'll live happily ever after. Either way just get it over with.

If she is interested she might get turned off by how long it takes you to ask her out. Girls don't like cowards.

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I think you're right, I got my game plan set now and hopefully can update this topic in the next week or two ;) She is new, doesn't know many people, I was probably the first person she met here, and I am 2 years older so I hope this is easy! lol

I dunno if this helps, but when I first asked her what her name was, she said ashlyn and mine is ashton! She lol'd at that

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Ask her out withing the month before someone else does.

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1. 2 years is nothing. Don't even worry about it. When you're 30 you'll be dating girls that are in their early 20s (if you're still dating).

2. Always make a move. You'll regret it if you don't. Unless you're worried about messing up a 10 year+ friendship don't sweat this one either. Too manyguys whine about this girl they could have gone out with. Remember what super pimp Sean Connery said in The Rock- "Losers always whine about their best. Winners go home and **** the prom queen." Not that I'm suggesting you do that but you get the point.

Which brings me to 3. Ask her to go someplace else first. After you've hung out together then invite her over, or go to her place, if you're worried about her thinking you're creepy...you're not creepy, right?

Anyway good luck.

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#20 darron504
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1. 2 years is nothing. Don't even worry about it. When you're 30 you'll be dating girls that are in their early 20s (if you're still dating).

2. Always make a move. You'll regret it if you don't. Unless you're worried about messing up a 10 year+ friendship don't sweat this one either. Too manyguys whine about this girl they could have gone out with. Remember what super pimp Sean Connery said in The Rock- "Losers always whine about their best. Winners go home and **** the prom queen." Not that I'm suggesting you do that but you get the point.

Which brings me to 3. Ask her to go someplace else first. After you've hung out together then invite her over, or go to her place, if you're worried about her thinking you're creepy...you're not creepy, right?

Anyway good luck.

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