OT, give me relationship advice!

On Valentine's Day, my boss asked me out. I find her to be very attractice(I work in a video rental store) but I am unsure of the legality of going out with her because she is 45 and I am only a 16 year old...I am very mature, so I think I should be able to handle going out with her, but I don't know much about Oregon's age of consent laws. This is all complicated by the fact that my current girlfriend, who is my age, thinks I need to spend time with her. Why should I spend more time with her if I want another woman, and may have a different girlfriend? She also thinks I'm treating her badly because I made out with her best guy friend (He's Gay when I was experimenting a year or so ago. She just found about this, and was extremely angry. Now, apparently, she even has pictures from the incident. I don't want to be banned, so yeah.

How do you think I should save my current relationship, and if I go out with the other girl how should I end it?

On Valentine's Day, my boss asked me out. I find her to be very attractice(I work in a video rental store) but I am unsure of the legality of going out with her because she is 45 and I am only a 16 year old...I am very mature, so I think I should be able to handle going out with her, but I don't know much about Oregon's age of consent laws. This is all complicated by the fact that my current girlfriend, who is my age, thinks I need to spend time with her. Why should I spend more time with her if I want another woman, and may have a different girlfriend? She also thinks I'm treating her badly because I made out with her best guy friend (He's Gay when I was experimenting a year or so ago. She just found about this, and was extremely angry. Now, apparently, she even has pictures from the incident. I don't want to be banned, so yeah.

How do you think I should save my current relationship, and if I go out with the other girl how should I end it?

darkhadow

Go out with your boss. Sure she's old enough to be your mum but just imagine how good a woman of her experience must be when it comes to matters of the night ;)

um gross?

sell that story on to catch a predator :P

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2. Steal human brain

3. Insert brain into head

4. Use your newly owned brain to develope some common sense

1. Break into the nearest medical facility where they store human organs

2. Steal human brain

3. Insert brain into head

4. Use your newly owned brain to develope some common sense

elfimis

sum1 needs to DEVELOP some righting skilz sun.

[QUOTE="elfimis"]

1. Break into the nearest medical facility where they store human organs

2. Steal human brain

3. Insert brain into head

4. Use your newly owned brain to develope some common sense

DunderMifflin23

sum1 needs to DEVELOPsome righting skilz sun.

I've been had!!!!!:cry:

haha its funny because your boss is a cougar and most people on these boards are single (im not :D)

anyway, don't feel pressured but dont you think it would look kinda wierd saying you are going out with a 45 year old?

i mean, you were born when she was 29.

[QUOTE="elfimis"]

1. Break into the nearest medical facility where they store human organs

2. Steal human brain

3. Insert brain into head

4. Use your newly owned brain to develope some common sense

DunderMifflin23

sum1 needs to DEVELOP some righting skilz sun.

i agree with this, dude after reading that i either think this is a joke thread or you dont need to be dating anyone.

haha its funny because your boss is a cougar and most people on these boards are single (im not :D)

anyway, don't feel pressured but dont you think it would look kinda wierd saying you are going out with a 45 year old?

i mean, you were born when she was 29.

Bomberman10

and shes the same age as me

Both? :PxTheExploited

I owe you a beer.

Sure is not funny in here.

On Valentine's Day, my boss asked me out. I find her to be very attractice(I work in a video rental store) but I am unsure of the legality of going out with her because she is 45 and I am only a 16 year old...I am very mature, so I think I should be able to handle going out with her, but I don't know much about Oregon's age of consent laws. This is all complicated by the fact that my current girlfriend, who is my age, thinks I need to spend time with her. Why should I spend more time with her if I want another woman, and may have a different girlfriend? She also thinks I'm treating her badly because I made out with her best guy friend (He's Gay when I was experimenting a year or so ago. She just found about this, and was extremely angry. Now, apparently, she even has pictures from the incident. I don't want to be banned, so yeah.

How do you think I should save my current relationship, and if I go out with the other girl how should I end it?

darkhadow

What the ****..dude..seriously...bad idea...look at the long term here..by the time you're like...25 she'll be an old lady..

And stick with the girlfriend your age...and make her feel special and all...i can't even believe you'd give her up for a 45 year old...

In fact, if you're thinking of leaving her for a 45 year old woman then maybe your relationship isn't that strong to begin with...

If she was like 30 or younger I could say yes to that, but 45 is weird. If it were a 45yr old man asking a 16yr old girl that'd be creepy on a bunch of different levels so I don't see why there's a double standard there. I've tried older women (but no where near that old), you just gotta have a age range of how much older they can be. That's waaay too old for you. A lot of guys would say yes out of sympathy though. I say you tell her you wanna keep things professional. And if you're thinkin of easy sex, don't do it lol.

On Valentine's Day, my boss asked me out. I find her to be very attractice(I work in a video rental store) but I am unsure of the legality of going out with her because she is 45 and I am only a 16 year old...I am very mature, so I think I should be able to handle going out with her, but I don't know much about Oregon's age of consent laws. This is all complicated by the fact that my current girlfriend, who is my age, thinks I need to spend time with her. Why should I spend more time with her if I want another woman, and may have a different girlfriend? She also thinks I'm treating her badly because I made out with her best guy friend (He's Gay when I was experimenting a year or so ago. She just found about this, and was extremely angry. Now, apparently, she even has pictures from the incident. I don't want to be banned, so yeah.

How do you think I should save my current relationship, and if I go out with the other girl how should I end it?

darkhadow

Er.. Sorry if I come a bit confrontational, but you're asking us to save your current relationship, when you don't want to be in a relationship with her? :?

I'm a 16 year old like yourself and I would never date a woman who was like nearly 30 years my elder. I mean sure, it's your decision.. But ask yourself would you be happy with your current girlfriend in 5 years time or with your boss in 5 years time? She'll be 50, and you'll be 21. Morally, I don't think its right for your boss to ask you out. She should know that to her, you are still a kid. It may be different as you get older, but still.. Think twice about it.

[QUOTE="Bomberman10"]

haha its funny because your boss is a cougar and most people on these boards are single (im not :D)

anyway, don't feel pressured but dont you think it would look kinda wierd saying you are going out with a 45 year old?

i mean, you were born when she was 29.

mirriorman

and shes the same age as me

[QUOTE="XilePrincess"] T. Dating a 45 year old woman is disgusting, and personally, being a girl not too far off your age, if i found out a guy dated a woman old enough to be my mother I would lose all interest in them on the spot.LJS9502_basic

ETA: yes i realize I didn't specify that "a 16 year old dating a 45 year old is disgusting" but i assumed that was a given, due to that being a focal point in the discussion.

Your post history leads me even further to think your making it all up.

http://uk.gamespot.com/pages/forums/show_msgs.php?topic_id=26939258
http://uk.gamespot.com/pages/forums/show_msgs.php?topic_id=26935046
http://uk.gamespot.com/pages/forums/show_msgs.php?topic_id=26935102

Your post history leads me even further to think your making it all up.

http://uk.gamespot.com/pages/forums/show_msgs.php?topic_id=26939258
http://uk.gamespot.com/pages/forums/show_msgs.php?topic_id=26935046
http://uk.gamespot.com/pages/forums/show_msgs.php?topic_id=26935102

RiseAgainst12

don't do it. she'll end up going to jail.auron_16

Then he can become boss! :lol:

1. Break into the nearest medical facility where they store human organs

2. Steal human brain

3. Insert brain into head

4. Use your newly owned brain to develope some common sense

elfimis

dude you are ludicrous there i said it.

No offense, but I think dating a 45 year old at 16 is a bit weird.th3warr1or

a bit weird?

Interesting predicament

Let us know how it all went down will you?

I don't believe this for some reason....LJS9502_basic

[QUOTE="th3warr1or"]No offense, but I think dating a 45 year old at 16 is a bit weird.DanteSuikoden

a bit weird?

[QUOTE="RiseAgainst12"]

Your post history leads me even further to think your making it all up.

http://uk.gamespot.com/pages/forums/show_msgs.php?topic_id=26939258
http://uk.gamespot.com/pages/forums/show_msgs.php?topic_id=26935046
http://uk.gamespot.com/pages/forums/show_msgs.php?topic_id=26935102

mirriorman

Make room for one more to row this boat please. I think they are all made up for attention.

Wait mods.. What makes this topic any different from this topic? just lock this crap already.

No! You give us relationship advice!

After reading the TC's post, I had to check the username to make sure it wasn't Batboy lol. Even so, there's no way this is legit.