OT, Help me out here a bit, please

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#1 GHlegend77
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Ok, well I go to school with this girl I like. Well, It turns out that I'm moving to the house right next to hers. I was going to give it a little while, build up a friendship, then ask her out.

But here's the problem.

Two of my best friends like her as well, and I'm pretty sure they'd be mad at me. But she's my ideal girl, we just get along on a lot of stuff and are both musicians, and.... I don't want to go into to much detail.

I could probably get her if I wanted to, but the main problem is that I might lose two of my best friends.

So, I'm asking you, OT. Get my perfect girl and lose two of my best friends, OR, just be friends with her and keep those two best friends?

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#2 McJugga
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Better hurry up before they beat you to it. =]
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#3 fmacraze
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get with yur boys and explain tha situation. inb4brosbeforehoes
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#4 Solid_Tango
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Talk to your friends, tell em what you feel besides is up to her to chose not to them.
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#5 horizontal_pole
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Go for her man. If your friends don't like it just explain to them thats just the way she goes. Sometimes she goes, sometimes she doesn't. That's just the way she goes
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#6 kidsmelly
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Well if you don't try to get with her one of your friends will I don't see the big deal.

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#7 Dylan_11
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Well if you don't try to get with her one of your friends will i don't see the big deal.

kidsmelly
This. Do you think they will take you feelings into consideration while they make their move? Just go for her.
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#8 Agent-Zero
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Usually bros before hoes is the way to go. But I think there is one girl for everyone that nullifies that mantra. Is she that girl? Could she be the love of your life? Doubt it.
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#9 gugler990
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best to least

1. Fistfight

2. Threat at gunpoint

3. Mexican Stand off complete with revolvers and winchester rifles

4. play poker

5. pay them

6. the one who wins her heart first gets her

7. Talk about it

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#10 entropyecho
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Girls are better than boys.

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#11 DJ-Lafleur
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fight for her against your friends in a pokemon battle.

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#12 markop2003
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Just go for it
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#13 XilePrincess
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You live right next door to her. If there is a higher power it is literally screaming at you to go for it, it's giving you an "in". How sucky would it be if one of your friends got to her first? you'd have to see every single time he went to her house? You're not going to lose your friends. They'll get over it and find somebody else. You can't all date the same girl and if they have any common sense they'll realize that, and find somebody of their own.
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#14 Dgalmun
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I'm not sure if this is the right place to ask... Maybe you can ask your dad over this stuff?
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#15 chrisrooR
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Talk to your buddies about it man, if you two are really that compatible, your buddies will let you have her.
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#16 auron_16
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Go for the girl, if your friends are really your friends, then they won't let a girl get them mad over somthing petty like that.
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#17 tsduv21
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I'd say go for it.
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#18 mjf249
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If they are really good friends to you, or "best" friends, and there feelings are strong for her too, don't lose your friendship just for a girl. Many woman out there, and when you get older, you'll notice you'll meet some really great woman(and some bad ones). Don't ruin your friendship for some girl, if your two friends extremely like her like you do.

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#19 weezyfb
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jump on that. every man for himself.
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#20 DEVILinIRON
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jump on that. every man for himself.weezyfb
That's right. Don't let your friends pull you down. If you do, none of you will get her.
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#21 UnknownElement4
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Do it, go for it.

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#22 muller39
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I'd ask her out if they are friends I think they can forgive you.

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#23 Murj
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If two of your best friends already like her and they would go for her, then what's stopping you from doing it if you like her?

If the other two wouldn't hold it against eachother if one of them didn't get the girl, then they shouldn't with you.

Just let them know how you feel about the girl as well. Otherwise they could then be angry if they feel you went behind their backs.

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#24 xhellcatx
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Go for it! Your friends will get over it. If they dont then they arent your real friends. They should be happy for you if you do end up with her.
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#25 II_Seraphim_II
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Dude, guy friends know the rules "He who sees her first has dibs" and if you all see her at the same time, she is fair game.
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#26 fatcat13sep
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she probably will only say yes to one of you guys atmost so best man wins >:D

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#27 -Iconoclast-
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ideal girls usually turn into somthing nonideal.

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#28 Bluestorm-Kalas
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Just go for it, you like her and so does both of your best friends, if any one of you three dates her the other two will be jealous, might as well reap the benefits. ;)