Owies! Almost lost girlfriend and left me feeling hauntingly depressed.

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#1 Evil_Saluki
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Typical topic.

She was worried because I didn't reply to her last three texts asking me to phone her up regarding something she wanted to discuss between us. I wasn't able to answer because I was sleeping then. Didn't check to see if I had any messages until I received a phone call from her. Was saying how she was worried of losing me and so she just wanted to be friends (not sure what sense that makes) that she kept worrying herself sick of me leaving her, so just wanted to relax. Then she started getting all teary eyed.

I explained to her what she already knew, the corney bits of, she's my only girl, the only one there ever will be, but also how i'm shy, you can count my true friends on one hand, others are only aquintences, there is no one else for her to worry about, nor would I want her to.

It made me realise how I don't want to ever be single again, I can't get back into that game, not anymore, I seriously don't want it. If I go single again now i'll probably be like that for the rest of my life, it made me think of losing her was going to make me live quite a lonley existence, it made me start to want to be with her more then ever. We live quite a distance apart so we don't get to see each other that often, but our fondess grows with it, we have plenty to talk about and do when we eventually meet up.

We kept together, but i'm left shaken now. I don't want to go work, don't want to go out and surf, I want to stay out of the eyes of people for a while.

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#2 Ikouze
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Calm down. You know even if she breaks up with you Not saying she would, there are other girls out there for you. It'll probably be painful for you to be single but all I can tell is keep searching.

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#3 D-RS
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Typical topic.

She was worried because I didn't reply to her last three texts asking me to phone her up regarding something she wanted to discuss between us. I wasn't able to answer because I was sleeping then. Didn't check to see if I had any messages until I received a phone call from her. Was saying how she was worried of losing me and so she just wanted to be friends (not sure what sense that makes) that she kept worrying herself sick of me leaving her, so just wanted to relax. Then she started getting all teary eyed.

I explained to her what she already knew, the corney bits of, she's my only girl, the only one there ever will be, but also how i'm shy, you can count my true friends on one hand, others are only aquintences, there is no one else for her to worry about, nor would I want her to.

It made me realise how I don't want to ever be single again, I can't get back into that game, not anymore, I seriously don't want it. If I go single again now i'll probably be like that for the rest of my life, it made me think of losing her was going to make me live quite a lonley existence, it made me start to want to be with her more then ever. We live quite a distance apart so we don't get to see each other that often, but our fondess grows with it, we have plenty to talk about and do when we eventually meet up.

We kept together, but i'm left shaken now. I don't want to go work, don't want to go out and surf, I want to stay out of the eyes of people for a while.

Evil_Saluki
If u are that afraid of breaking up , just get married to her . :P
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#4 XilePrincess
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Spend some good quality time with her. She probably feels lonely, so she thinks youve stopped caring. So do take that day off work, and spend it with her. Make sure it's all about you and her for the day, and show her you won't leave.
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#5 supamasta
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I know ur pain brotha, last time I tried to get it on with this sista she just turns karate on me and calls the poh-lice man, that sucked and I felt really bad for having to go through all the crap paperwork down in central. They released me the same day cause they couldn't prove no nothing, though, so not that bad. But the point is, I dig your pre-o-cupations brotha and my thoughts are with you man. Have you tried offering some flowers toher, that usually works cause most chicks have this weird thing going on for dead plants with cute colors and they almost always bite it and forget about the crap lol.
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#6 Kenny789
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If you're afraid of breaking up then keep the relationship going strong! Let her know you care a lot about her and she means so much to know. Spending more time with her would also be nice.
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#7 Freebird8877
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Buy her some chocolate.
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#8 Jackboot343
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Well from my own experiences, girls will flip out if they don't hear from you everyday. It's like a parent not knowing where there child is. Parents will believe their child has been kidnapped, like your girlfriend thinking you're with another woman. And that's usually not the case. I'm not sure why they jump to such hasty conclusions, but I suppose it shows they worry and care for you greatly. They never want to lose you.

It's either that, or she thinks you'll leave her, because she has a guilty conscience. My advice would be to spend more time with her, and don't go AWOL. Good luck~~

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#9 twilightpanda
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If u are that afraid of breaking up , just get married to her . :PD-RS

hahahaha typical lebanese ideology :roll:

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#10 clembo1990
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Dang that's really bad. I rarely even reply to texts. My friends know this but not everyone realises I do that. I usually assume the person is intelligent enough to assume what my reaction will be until I see them next.
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#11 rowzzr
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lawl, tc. sounds like youre more worried about being alone than actually losing your girl. :P
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#12 D-RS
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[QUOTE="D-RS"]If u are that afraid of breaking up , just get married to her . :Ptwilightpanda

hahahaha typical lebanese ideology :roll:

Well , kinda what happens here in Lebanon , they get married then they get divorced and the guy gets screwed :P
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#13 Avistann
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Just calm down man. She cares a lot about you. Go spend a day with her. Give her a special day she can always remember. Take her to dinner, movies, mini-golf, the beach(I assume you are near one since you surf), buy her some ice cream, and then just lay under the stars. Make her feel that she is truly your one and only.
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#14 MrPraline
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You should be happy, you obviously have someone who cares about you. Not everyone can say that about their girlfriends.
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#15 awesompossum
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Poor guy....

Buy her some flowers and take her for a walk in the park...

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#16 LostProphetFLCL
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Dude just be happy you have a GF that is that concerned about keeping you.

My girl situation sucks. The girl I was going after is now going out with my roomate. They had feelings for eachother before (my roomate had met her before I met her) but did nothing about it because he was her manager and manager employee relationships aren't allowed.

Now this would be so much easier to get over if it wasn't for the fact that she cares about me and feels horrible about the situation. I find myself unable to hate her like previous girls who had hurt me which is making this so much harder to get over, especially since I could honestly see her being someone I could be in a lasting relationship with down the road if certain things change.....

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#17 twilightpanda
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[QUOTE="twilightpanda"]

[QUOTE="D-RS"]If u are that afraid of breaking up , just get married to her . :PD-RS

hahahaha typical lebanese ideology :roll:

Well , kinda what happens here in Lebanon , they get married then they get divorced and the guy gets screwed :P

lol hahahaha :lol:

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#18 horgen  Moderator
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Take a day off from work and spend some time with her. Like the whole day
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#19 SSBFan12
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Join the club I don't want to be seen my people or anything. And I have been like this for months.