I'd personally break it off, and call off the wedding.
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I would break it off.
This girl in my grade (When we were sophmores in highschool) was at a batchelor party, and guy he was getting married the next day. She ended up making out with him... she was 15, and he was 24.
Other. when he came home I'd pretend to want him, then knock him out and cut off his balls. Pretty sure I've told everyone here I'd do that. Then go to the wedding alone, take my presents and my cake and go live my life.
plz to not take that too serious. I would just dump him and make him look/feel like crap forever.
End the relationship on the spot. Whether you were married or not, you were still in a relationship and your partner was unfaithful. The having one last fling argument is garbage in my opinion.
It would depend on the situation, EG were they drunk beyond reason.
dan-rofl-copter
That's even more of a reason to break things off. "Oh great, my wife/husband will do anything that walks after drinking.
Some people can keep control while incredibly intoxicated. It is not a valid excuse. It's simple stupidity
Other. when he came home I'd pretend to want him, then knock him out and cut off his balls. Pretty sure I've told everyone here I'd do that. Then go to the wedding alone, take my presents and my cake and go live my life.
plz to not take that too serious. I would just dump him and make him look/feel like crap forever.
XilePrincess
I guess you have seen this video then?
I'd be out of there so fast. Life is too short to waste it on a woman who can't take a committment seriously. If she wanted to swing, she shouldn't have decided to get married. I don't think I'd be able to respect her ever again after that. Cheating is a breach of trust, without trust there is no relationship.
I would definetely stop the wedding, and afterwards I may try to work things out with her, or maybe not, depending on what the whole situation was like at the bachalorette party.
[QUOTE="th3warr1or"]I'd break it off. Especially since i love this girl so much, I actually want to marry her now.. Akawoa
Off topic but you ask her out yet?
yes, she's having Exams on monday for the whole week, then a life changing(literally, O levels) in 5weeks.. or maybe 6.. so i asked her out after.. and she said yes.. I don't know whether she's actually bothered or trying to politely decline and hope i'll forget in 6weeks.[QUOTE="Akawoa"][QUOTE="th3warr1or"]I'd break it off. Especially since i love this girl so much, I actually want to marry her now.. th3warr1or
Off topic but you ask her out yet?
yes, she's having Exams on monday for the whole week, then a life changing(literally, O levels) in 5weeks.. or maybe 6.. so i asked her out after.. and she said yes.. I don't know whether she's actually bothered or trying to politely decline and hope i'll forget in 6weeks.Awesome, keep us posted man! Good to hear you went through with it!
I'd be out of there so fast. Life is too short to waste it on a woman who can't take a committment seriously. If she wanted to swing, she shouldn't have decided to get married. I don't think I'd be able to respect her ever again after that. Cheating is a breach of trust, without trust there is no relationship.
Akawoa
Werd. I think faithfulness and trust are the most important things in a relationship, to completely trust someone with your heart is a huge deal, to me at least.
That's seriously f'ed up..[QUOTE="awssk8er716"]
I would break it off.
This girl in my grade (When we were sophmores in highschool) was at a batchelor party, and guy he was getting married the next day. She ended up making out with him... she was 15, and he was 24.
p00zer
I know. It's even more wierd because at the beginning of the year, she never even made out with a guy... then she was making out with random waiters and then this happened. :?
That's seriously f'ed up..[QUOTE="p00zer"]
[QUOTE="awssk8er716"]
I would break it off.
This girl in my grade (When we were sophmores in highschool) was at a batchelor party, and guy he was getting married the next day. She ended up making out with him... she was 15, and he was 24.
awssk8er716
I know. It's even more wierd because at the beginning of the year, she never even made out with a guy... then she was making out with random waiters and then this happened. :?
Does she look 15? And hormones are crazy, I hope I never have daughters :P
It depends if he man up and makes note that it's a possibility ahead of time or atleast allow me to do the same afterwards. I totally understand that a bachelor party can get freakin wild--and the temptation to cheat is going to be there. Mistakes can happen--I'd definitely forgive him and happily continue getting married(if he goes with one of those two options). If he didn't make note of it and wouldn't allow me to do the same--then I'd simply call off the wedding until we can work things out or break it off all together with him and move on.
Simple: That's why there is no bachelor party. But if I were to answer with the poll then obviously option #1.Dystopian-X
I've been to two "bachelor parties" and a real one in Vegas, the first was a dinner at a restaurant (had one beer), the second one we drank beer (lots of it) and built a potato cannon, and the third one was your typical Vegas bachelor party. In the end I don't think I will have a crazy Vegas one, it's not my style, and I hope to find a good woman who feels the same way.
[QUOTE="Dystopian-X"]Simple: That's why there is no bachelor party. But if I were to answer with the poll then obviously option #1.10thwonder
I've been to two "bachelor parties" and a real one in Vegas, the first was a dinner at a restaurant (had one beer), the second one we drank beer (lots of it) and built a potato cannon, and the third one was your typical Vegas bachelor party. In the end I don't think I will have a crazy Vegas one, it's not my style, and I hope to find a good woman who feels the same way.
Yeah that doesn't sound like some wild thing, well either this or a woman that doesn't really think one is all that relevant.Yeah that doesn't sound like some wild thing, well either this or a woman that doesn't really think one is all that relevant.Dystopian-X
Or a woman who doesn't feel it is relevant because she completely trusts you, whatever your choice may be.
I remember being at a bar once and seeing a drunk chick with all her girlfriends, she had the veil and sash that said "Bachelorette", she started dancing with some Army dude, and the next thing you know he has his tongue down her throat and her friends are cheering her on, they made out the whole time they were on the dance floor, it wasn't a 5 second frencher, it was a full on make-out session. I remember thinking that was so messed up and disrespectful, I know it isn't sleeping with someone (they might have later, I don't know), but still, letting some strange man stick his tongue down your throat while you grind up on him a few days before you marry a man you say you love is messed up IMO.
My girlfriend and I have an agreement. If either one of us cheats on the other, there are no second chances. There are two things everyone needs to remember about cheaters. 1) Once a cheater, always a cheater and 2) once you lose a person's trust, you can't get it back again. I personally don't understand how anyone can "forgive" a cheater.
My girlfriend and I have an agreement. If either one of us cheats on the other, there are no second chances. There are two things everyone needs to remember about cheaters. 1) Once a cheater, always a cheater and 2) once you lose a person's trust, you can't get it back again. I personally don't understand how anyone can "forgive" a cheater.
foxhound_fox
THIS ^ also besides the "Once a cheater, always a cheater" saying I have heard that "The first time is the hardest when it comes to cheating, it only gets easier after that".
moral of the story... DON'T INVITE WOMEN TO YOUR BACHELOR PARTY.I would break it off.
This girl in my grade (When we were sophmores in highschool) was at a batchelor party, and guy he was getting married the next day. She ended up making out with him... she was 15, and he was 24.
awssk8er716
EDIT: Strippers are acceptable though
Well the person I want to marry, I love very very much, so I honestly would just forgive her and move on.69ANT69
But does she love you as much as you love her, if she went ahead and cheated on you a week before you were to be married?
Ram my hand down her throat, and rip out that receipt for thatexpensive ass tiffany wedding ring. That is only the beginning.I'll be posting somecute pictures online too
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