pregnant 7th grader by a senior.. ideas???

to start off, i'm 15 years old and my bestfemale friend is only 13 and in 7th grade. l ast night she told me that something was bothering her and there could be a huge problem, so of course i had to get involved and ask. she told me that her and her older sister's ex-boyfriend (yes, he is a senior) had sex like 3 months ago. i personally think this senior is a sick-f***, but whatever. (he wasn't 18 yet either so it's not considered rape) so i asked her what the huge problem is and she said she missed her period the last 3 months and she says she's always getting stomach aches and gets tired occasionally. these are some of the symptoms of pregnancy, so obviously i think she is pregnant, but she hasn't got tested yet...

i'm writing this to see what you would do in her position, this senior's position, or my position.. please send some thoughts this way.

Wait, 3 months?

And she doesn't look different? I don't know jackcrap about pregnancy(Except....yaknow)wouldn't it show by now?
I mean isn't that enough time for it to show? At least a little?
It could be guilt, or her being paranoid.

I can't explain the problem with her period, but as for the stomach ache, that could just be guilt. Maybe she's just sick?

You should get someone's help, dude.

Wait, 3 months?

And she doesn't look different? I don't know jackcrap about pregnancy(Except....yaknow)wouldn't it show by now?
I mean isn't that enough time for it to show? At least a little?
It could be guilt, or her being paranoid.

-TheSecondSign-

Wait, 3 months?

And she doesn't look different? I don't know jackcrap about pregnancy(Except....yaknow)wouldn't it show by now?
I mean isn't that enough time for it to show? At least a little?
It could be guilt, or her being paranoid.

-TheSecondSign-

I'm not sure how soon you should be able to see the baby, but my sister had a friend who was nine months pregnant and you would never know. I mean, seriosly. She's in really good shape, but it was still kind of weird.

[QUOTE="-TheSecondSign-"]

Wait, 3 months?

And she doesn't look different? I don't know jackcrap about pregnancy(Except....yaknow)wouldn't it show by now?
I mean isn't that enough time for it to show? At least a little?
It could be guilt, or her being paranoid.

Cerussite

Yeah, I know, but that seems like awhile.

I hope she's just sick, or you're joking, better yet, TC.

to start off, i'm 15 years old and my bestfemale friend is only 13 and in 7th grade. l ast night she told me that something was bothering her and there could be a huge problem, so of course i had to get involved and ask. she told me that her and her older sister's ex-boyfriend (yes, he is a senior) had sex like 3 months ago. i personally think this senior is a sick-f***, but whatever. (he wasn't 18 yet either so it's not considered rape) so i asked her what the huge problem is and she said she missed her period the last 3 months and she says she's always getting stomach aches and gets tired occasionally. these are some of the symptoms of pregnancy, so obviously i think she is pregnant, but she hasn't got tested yet...

i'm writing this to see what you would do in her position, this senior's position, or my position.. please send some thoughts this way.

shaw369

I can't explain the problem with her period, but as for the stomach ache, that could just be guilt. Maybe she's just sick?

You should get someone's help, dude.

-TheSecondSign-

No, she's pregnant. Unless she's using birth control and she doesn't realize that it decreases the frequency of periods.

[QUOTE="-TheSecondSign-"]

I can't explain the problem with her period, but as for the stomach ache, that could just be guilt. Maybe she's just sick?

You should get someone's help, dude.

IAteTheSoap

No, she's pregnant. Unless she's using birth control and she doesn't realize that it decreases the frequency of periods.

For her sake I hope it's the latter.

well in good ol gerogia thats stagatory and 10 years in fed prison(17 years old is adult down here). As for the situation tell some adults and maybe actually GET TESTED. her i meansomeguy

Yeah just get a parent in this.

Her position: Ask for help. Parents, teacher, planned parenthood.

His position: Get a job.

Your position: Support her emotionally, and maybe financially if she really needs it.

[QUOTE="someguy"]well in good ol gerogia thats stagatory and 10 years in fed prison(17 years old is adult down here). As for the situation tell some adults and maybe actually GET TESTED. her i meanDef_Jef88

Apparently you don't understand the law.. A person doesn't have the right to consent till they are a certain age..

[QUOTE="Def_Jef88"][QUOTE="someguy"]well in good ol gerogia thats stagatory and 10 years in fed prison(17 years old is adult down here). As for the situation tell some adults and maybe actually GET TESTED. her i meansSubZerOo

Apparently you don't understand the law.. A person doesn't have the right to consent till they are a certain age..

First off, I don't think a 7th grader should be with a Senior in the first place. Second, both of their parents should know about this, they'll know what to do. Lastly, give the girl a pregnancy test to see if she's really pregnant.KHfanboy2

it was a secret relationship actually.. i forgot to mention that.

[QUOTE="KHfanboy2"]First off, I don't think a 7th grader should be with a Senior in the first place. Second, both of their parents should know about this, they'll know what to do. Lastly, give the girl a pregnancy test to see if she's really pregnant.shaw369

it was a secret relationship actually.. i forgot to mention that.

Not anymore.

Recommend that she watches Juno.. maybe then she'll approach her parents. TheMadGamer

Lol. I saw that movie yesterday. It was great, Juno has the right idea though.

well she and this other dude are waiting until her parents go out of town or something so they can take a pregnacy test and if it comes back positive, she really has no choice but to tell parents. also this is kinda humorous in a twisted way, but her dad thinks this girl is like the most innocent and perfect girl ever because besides this whole sex thing, i think she would be flawless.shaw369

[QUOTE="TheMadGamer"]Recommend that she watches Juno.. maybe then she'll approach her parents. Guybrush_3

Lol. I saw that movie yesterday. It was great, Juno has the right idea though.

[QUOTE="TheMadGamer"]Recommend that she watches Juno.. maybe then she'll approach her parents. Guybrush_3

Lol. I saw that movie yesterday. It was great, Juno has the right idea though.

haha right after she told me this last night (we were on the phone), a preview for juno showed up on tv and all i could do was stare and kinda laugh.

sounds like a classy situation, how about getting some adults involved???g-unit248

Wait, 3 months?

And she doesn't look different? I don't know jackcrap about pregnancy(Except....yaknow)wouldn't it show by now?
I mean isn't that enough time for it to show? At least a little?
It could be guilt, or her being paranoid.

-TheSecondSign-

Seriously...I'd go for an abortion before it's too late to do so

[QUOTE="-TheSecondSign-"]

Wait, 3 months?

And she doesn't look different? I don't know jackcrap about pregnancy(Except....yaknow)wouldn't it show by now?
I mean isn't that enough time for it to show? At least a little?
It could be guilt, or her being paranoid.

_Marisa_

Thanks for the info.

[QUOTE="-TheSecondSign-"]

Wait, 3 months?

And she doesn't look different? I don't know jackcrap about pregnancy(Except....yaknow)wouldn't it show by now?
I mean isn't that enough time for it to show? At least a little?
It could be guilt, or her being paranoid.

_Marisa_

when does it start to show?

[QUOTE="sSubZerOo"]

[QUOTE="Def_Jef88"][QUOTE="someguy"]well in good ol gerogia thats stagatory and 10 years in fed prison(17 years old is adult down here). As for the situation tell some adults and maybe actually GET TESTED. her i meanDef_Jef88

Apparently you don't understand the law.. A person doesn't have the right to consent till they are a certain age..

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="-TheSecondSign-"]

Wait, 3 months?

And she doesn't look different? I don't know jackcrap about pregnancy(Except....yaknow)wouldn't it show by now?
I mean isn't that enough time for it to show? At least a little?
It could be guilt, or her being paranoid.

shaw369

when does it start to show?

What would I do in your position? Kick back, grab some popcorn and watch the drama play out.Dark__Link

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="-TheSecondSign-"]

Wait, 3 months?

And she doesn't look different? I don't know jackcrap about pregnancy(Except....yaknow)wouldn't it show by now?
I mean isn't that enough time for it to show? At least a little?
It could be guilt, or her being paranoid.

shaw369

when does it start to show?