Probably dumb of me to be worried about this, but I cant help it...

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#1 octagonman
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So my GF tells me today that she has a lump on her back, and apparently its pushing her rib cage up. She didnt tell me whether or not it hurt or how long its been there. I havent seen it. so I dont know. She told someone she knows who asked her doctor, and the doctor said it could be a tumor. I honestly dont know the first thing about tumors, aside from the fact that if they're malignant, then it could be cancer and that really has me worried.

I need to know how it got there, how to get rid of it, or if it's even possible to get rid of it (just waiting till it goes away or some sort of surgery), if its even a tumor, and how to know if it's dangerous. Im seriously worried here, and it just hit me really hard that this could be something bad.

I dont want to be worried over nothing, but I cant help it. Anyone have some words of advice or some knowlegde on this sort of subject? I would appreciate it so much more than you know.

And please, no joking around about this sort of thing. Im really worried here.

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Can you take her to the doctors and get a definitive answer?

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So my GF tells me today that she has a lump on her back, and apparently its pushing her rib cage up. She didnt tell me whether or not it hurt or how long its been there. I havent seen it. so I dont know. She told someone she knows who asked her doctor, and the doctor said it could be a tumor. I honestly dont know the first thing about tumors, aside from the fact that if they're malignant, then it could be cancer and that really has me worried.

I need to know how it got there, how to get rid of it, or if it's even possible to get rid of it (just waiting till it goes away or some sort of surgery), if its even a tumor, and how to know if it's dangerous. Im seriously worried here, and it just hit me really hard that this could be something bad.

I dont want to be worried over nothing, but I cant help it. Anyone have some words of advice or some knowlegde on this sort of subject? I would appreciate it so much more than you know.

And please, no joking around about this sort of thing. Im really worried here.

octagonman

See a doctor about surgery. Only safe, reliable way I would assume, that is if its even a tumor. Ask the doctor if theres some sort of specialist she can go see to get it further diagnosed if needed.

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i do not know anything thing else about tumors other than what you have just said. But i hope your gf gets better and i wish her a speedy recovery if she does have to have surgery. God Bless!

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this could be pretty bad. definitely get her to the doctor. it could easily be a tumor or a cancer or something like that.
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Obviously get her to see a doctor about it.

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#7 Toriko42
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You won't get help on a tumor from anyone but a Doctor man.
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#8 67gt500
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While it's quite natural for you to be concerned, honestly, I wouldn't worry about it... at this point, you are not even sure what it is. She just needs to get checked out, and chances are that she'll be just fine...
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Get a CT scan and an X-ray scan. If she's got a tumour, then she would need surgery if it's malignant. Don't worry too much though. The sooner it is found, the better.
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Is it a baby?

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#11 octagonman
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i do not know anything thing else about tumors other than what you have just said. But i hope your gf gets better and i wish her a speedy recovery if she does have to have surgery. God Bless!

muller39

Thank you very much. I really appreciate you saying that. Im gunna have to get her to the doctor ASAP before this gets out of hand. Even if its nothing bad, I need to know for sure what it is. I was hoping someone here would know of something to dis-prove it as a tumor. Some sort of common mistake. Im actually really scared, and Im gunna try to get her to the doctor as soon as I can. Hopefully, the doctor can ease my worries by telling me its nothing to worry about. And if it is, then I hope it can be removed somehow. Im praying for her and for us.

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you need to call a Doctor ASAP
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#13 Gaming-Planet
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She probably has lymphoma.

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#14 octagonman
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While it's quite natural for you to be concerned, honestly, I wouldn't worry about it... at this point, you are not even sure what it is. She just needs to get checked out, and chances are that she'll be just fine...67gt500
I really, really hope so. At first I wasnt worried too much, but now Im really concerned. I have to get her to the doctor as soon as I can.
Get a CT scan and an X-ray scan. If she's got a tumour, then she would need surgery if it's malignant. Don't worry too much though. The sooner it is found, the better.paul939
So even if it is, I dont have to worry too much? Thats really a relief. Hopefully, whatever it is, its still early so they can get rid of it without any problems. Im glad she told me about it so soon. I'll talk to her about seeing a doctor.

Is it a baby?

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Is this some sort of joke?
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[QUOTE="67gt500"] I really, really hope so. At first I wasnt worried too much, but now Im really concerned. I have to get her to the doctor as soon as I can. [QUOTE="paul939"]Get a CT scan and an X-ray scan. If she's got a tumour, then she would need surgery if it's malignant. Don't worry too much though. The sooner it is found, the better.octagonman
So even if it is, I dont have to worry too much? Thats really a relief. Hopefully, whatever it is, its still early so they can get rid of it without any problems. Im glad she told me about it so soon. I'll talk to her about seeing a doctor.

Is it a baby?

Gaming-Planet

Is this some sort of joke?

No, I'm actually serious and curious on what it is. She probably has lymphomaI think I have this on my neck (I have a lump inside my neck that sometimes gives me pain) But I wouldn't worry about it.

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[QUOTE="octagonman"]

[QUOTE="muller39"]

i do not know anything thing else about tumors other than what you have just said. But i hope your gf gets better and i wish her a speedy recovery if she does have to have surgery. God Bless!

Thank you very much. I really appreciate you saying that. Im gunna have to get her to the doctor ASAP before this gets out of hand. Even if its nothing bad, I need to know for sure what it is. I was hoping someone here would know of something to dis-prove it as a tumor. Some sort of common mistake. Im actually really scared, and Im gunna try to get her to the doctor as soon as I can. Hopefully, the doctor can ease my worries by telling me its nothing to worry about. And if it is, then I hope it can be removed somehow. Im praying for her and for us.

no problem at all. it is really hard when a family member or close ones health is not doing so well. my dad at 40 had a quadruple bipase surgery and luckily he survived and is still with us now it was a really tough time for me and my family. all you can do is hope and pray that everything will turn out ok. so your best bet is to go to the doctors asap and find out what it is so it can be treated.
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Well, your girlfriend should be fine, just please go to the doctor soon, they will most likely sort it all out and nothing will go wrong.

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Can you take her to the doctors and get a definitive answer?

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I say get a proper answer off a doctor mate.
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Get to the doctor. Xray, CT Scan, even Biopsy will give an answer. No offense, but did OT really have to answer that for you?

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[QUOTE="octagonman"][QUOTE="67gt500"] I really, really hope so. At first I wasnt worried too much, but now Im really concerned. I have to get her to the doctor as soon as I can.
Get a CT scan and an X-ray scan. If she's got a tumour, then she would need surgery if it's malignant. Don't worry too much though. The sooner it is found, the better.paul939
So even if it is, I dont have to worry too much? Thats really a relief. Hopefully, whatever it is, its still early so they can get rid of it without any problems. Im glad she told me about it so soon. I'll talk to her about seeing a doctor.

Is it a baby?

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Is this some sort of joke?

You DO still have to worry even if it's cancer. It may have spread to lymph nodes and could be in other parts of the body by now. Any time wasted in getting her to the doctor makes this scenario more likely if it is cancer. If it's not a tumor, I would say it sounds like a cyst. Cysts are easily removed with an outpatient procedure.
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It could be a hernia. My brother had some weird type of hernia above his kidneys that pushed on his ribs........
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So my GF tells me today that she has a lump on her back, and apparently its pushing her rib cage up. She didnt tell me whether or not it hurt or how long its been there. I havent seen it. so I dont know. She told someone she knows who asked her doctor, and the doctor said it could be a tumor. I honestly dont know the first thing about tumors, aside from the fact that if they're malignant, then it could be cancer and that really has me worried.

I need to know how it got there, how to get rid of it, or if it's even possible to get rid of it (just waiting till it goes away or some sort of surgery), if its even a tumor, and how to know if it's dangerous. Im seriously worried here, and it just hit me really hard that this could be something bad.

I dont want to be worried over nothing, but I cant help it. Anyone have some words of advice or some knowlegde on this sort of subject? I would appreciate it so much more than you know.

And please, no joking around about this sort of thing. Im really worried here.

octagonman

I've had a tumor in my chest since I was twenty, so I'll tell you what I know. Now I'm not a doctor; this is from first hand experience and from what I've been told from numerous physicians.

  • The first step the doctors will take is to give her a general examination (blood tests, etc) and determine if she needs to have an X-RAY, CAT scan, or MRI. Different tissues sometimes do not show up on particular imaging, so she may have to go through multiple scans.
  • If a mass is found, a biopsy will be ordered. I had two needle and two surgical biopsies. Depending on where the tumor is located and how large it is, it will be either just one or both. If they are unable to obtain a good sample through needle, surgery may be required.
  • The outcome of the biopsy will determine the course of treatment. There are MANY, MANY different types of cancers, how they react, if they are resectable (removable), what type of treatment has been proven to be effective in the past against it (if it is found to be cancer...or even if it's not.)

I have a benign lemon sized mass in my chest and get weekly infusions (chemo injections) to attempt to shrink it, even though it's not 'technically' cancer. Cancer is defined by malignancy (the ability of the cell's ability to break off from the main tumor and travel around the body to begin a new growth.) If it's not resectable because of close proximity to organs etc, alternate options must be considered, and usually it's always chemo. Not always, but in most cases.

I don't know what other advice or info I can offer until further unformation is given, except to get her seen ASAP. Do not hesitate, I'm talking like within a few days. It could be a harmless cyst (let's hope so) but any lump is not to be ignored. I hope this helps.

Here's hoping forthe best for you and her, good luck.

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[QUOTE="muller39"]

i do not know anything thing else about tumors other than what you have just said. But i hope your gf gets better and i wish her a speedy recovery if she does have to have surgery. God Bless!

octagonman

Thank you very much. I really appreciate you saying that. Im gunna have to get her to the doctor ASAP before this gets out of hand. Even if its nothing bad, I need to know for sure what it is. I was hoping someone here would know of something to dis-prove it as a tumor. Some sort of common mistake. Im actually really scared, and Im gunna try to get her to the doctor as soon as I can. Hopefully, the doctor can ease my worries by telling me its nothing to worry about. And if it is, then I hope it can be removed somehow. Im praying for her and for us.

I'll pray for you as well, but its more important for both of you to trust in Guidece and help from the Lord. Obviously go to the doctor, but i tell you now no matter how bad it could possibly get, the Voice of Truth says its gonna be "ok". This i promise, your in my prayers and have faith everything will be ok, GOD BLESS!!!!

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[QUOTE="octagonman"]

[QUOTE="muller39"]

i do not know anything thing else about tumors other than what you have just said. But i hope your gf gets better and i wish her a speedy recovery if she does have to have surgery. God Bless!

DMUNY22

Thank you very much. I really appreciate you saying that. Im gunna have to get her to the doctor ASAP before this gets out of hand. Even if its nothing bad, I need to know for sure what it is. I was hoping someone here would know of something to dis-prove it as a tumor. Some sort of common mistake. Im actually really scared, and Im gunna try to get her to the doctor as soon as I can. Hopefully, the doctor can ease my worries by telling me its nothing to worry about. And if it is, then I hope it can be removed somehow. Im praying for her and for us.

I'll pray for you as well, but its more important for both of you to trust in Guidece and help from the Lord. Obviously go to the doctor, but i tell you now no matter how bad it could possibly get, the Voice of Truth says its gonna be "ok". This i promise, your in my prayers and have faith everything will be ok, GOD BLESS!!!!

Thank you very much for this. Im already praying and I ask that everyone could include her and us in your prayers/hopes if you can. It could make a difference. Ive found out more details today. It turns out, its around her upper/middle area of her right shoulder, shes a small girl, but she tells me its bigger than her fist. Now even if shes small, thats pretty big, she also told me it only hurts sometimes, which may or may not be a good sign. She also told me she wants to go to a doctor as well. Hope this small bit of info helps a little. I also asked a friend who told me it could be a cyst(sp?), so maybe we're in the clear. Thanks again.