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#1 iam2green
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do u go to club/ bars alone?

i turned 21 about a month ago haven't gone out to bar or anything. i don't have friends to go with (not old enough) (19) the closest club bar r like 20 min drive. i think i would feel Eward wondering around a city along drinking a lone.

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#2 duxup
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Nope. I don't see much use in it. Well I did once to catch a football game that they didn't have on TV locally, but that was it.
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Make new friends.

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#4 Cloud_Insurance
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I've gone to bars by myself when I'm already completely trashed for a drink, but I haven't stayed there for any length of time. Nor have I gone to a bar by myself, grabbed a seat and stayed there, attempting to make friends with people who are sitting next to me. Its not like the movies and tv shows, where a guy walks into a bar alone and starts hooking up with chicks...
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#5 iam2green
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I've gone to bars by myself when I'm already completely trashed for a drink, but I haven't stayed there for any length of time. Nor have I gone to a bar by myself, grabbed a seat and stayed there, attempting to make friends with people who are sitting next to me. Its not like the movies and tv shows, where a guy walks into a bar alone and starts hooking up with chicks...Cloud_Insurance

i knew i wouldn't just be like what up ladies...

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#6 Hungry_bunny
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No, clubbing is a thing I do to have fun with my friends... don't see any other point in it. Never gone alone.

But I have mixed feelings when it comes to bars, those places usually have some good food/coffee/beer and a big TV screen if you want to see a game.

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No, it's not fun without friends.
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#8 Shenmue_Jehuty
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If you are looking to get laid then no you shouldn't go by yourself, if you are looking to have fun, well then it is a 50/50 shot. If you just want to drink the save yourself the gas and stay home or go to a local pub.
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#9 Mafiree
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never been to a club or bar alone.....
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#10 Fredrick2003x
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I am almost 21 (this month) and I have not been "clubbin'" nor have I had any desire to "club".
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I usually go by myself and run into people I know there. I just go to have fun around people I don't know and watch some sports.
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#12 I_Am_Sexy
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bars are stupid

stay home and drink, much cheaper, plsu you can lay around in your underwear if you want and you make all the rules

always idiots in bars

I don't see the point, if you go to a bar, you're lame LOL what a waste of time and money

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#13 FragStains
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I don't go out to bars much...

And it isn't necessarily weird that you are wandering around a city drinking alone...it's just a sign that you have a problem.

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#14 Fredrick2003x
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I agree with this statement.
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#15 Cloud_Insurance
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bars are stupid

stay home and drink, much cheaper, plsu you can lay around in your underwear if you want and you make all the rules

always idiots in bars

I don't see the point, if you go to a bar, you're lame LOL what a waste of time and money

I_Am_Sexy

DOING THAT RIGHT NOW. FTW.

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#16 ElectronicMagic
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No, I don't. I did go to a bar to celebrate my 21st birthday, but I never go because I'm not a drinker.
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#17 FragStains
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[QUOTE="I_Am_Sexy"]

bars are stupid

stay home and drink, much cheaper, plsu you can lay around in your underwear if you want and you make all the rules

always idiots in bars

I don't see the point, if you go to a bar, you're lame LOL what a waste of time and money

Cloud_Insurance

DOING THAT RIGHT NOW. FTW.

Please put some pants on. Please.
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#18 kid_who_grew_up
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I go out to bars every Friday with friends, we always go to one of two bars and get a bunch of drinks and food. On Saturdays we head out to eat close to the Downtown area. Drinking by yourself sucks man, I see alot of losers at bars all the time and we make fun of them trying to hit on the bartender girls, it's really funny at times. These people are old, fat, or ugly, sorry if someone is offended I'm just telling you guys how it is where I live.
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#19 Cloud_Insurance
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[QUOTE="Cloud_Insurance"][QUOTE="I_Am_Sexy"]

bars are stupid

stay home and drink, much cheaper, plsu you can lay around in your underwear if you want and you make all the rules

always idiots in bars

I don't see the point, if you go to a bar, you're lame LOL what a waste of time and money

FragStains

DOING THAT RIGHT NOW. FTW.

Please put some pants on. Please.

Normally I would, but my dorm room is hot as balls. I am not in control of the heating or air conditioning, so its beyond my control. Its 30 degrees outside. I've got the window open. Two fans going. And I'm sweating.

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#20 Cloud_Insurance
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Drinking by yourself sucks man, I see alot of losers at bars all the time and we make fun of them trying to hit on the bartender girls, it's really funny at times. These people are old, fat, or ugly, sorry if someone is offended I'm just telling you guys how it is where I live.kid_who_grew_up

Thats what is weird though. When you see a movie or tv show, they make it seem normal for a guy to go out to a bar by himself and drink. In reality...its just awkward.

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#21 CJL182
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Nope. I'm a pretty shy person, so I have trouble meeting new people. It just doesn't interest me lol.
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#22 kid_who_grew_up
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[QUOTE="kid_who_grew_up"] Drinking by yourself sucks man, I see alot of losers at bars all the time and we make fun of them trying to hit on the bartender girls, it's really funny at times. These people are old, fat, or ugly, sorry if someone is offended I'm just telling you guys how it is where I live.Cloud_Insurance

Thats what is weird though. When you see a movie or tv show, they make it seem normal for a guy to go out to a bar by himself and drink. In reality...its just awkward.

Well some places it might seem normal, I bet it is normal and no one really cares, just like Bill Murray in

Lost in Translation type of thing, but where I live there are a bunch of weirdos.

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#23 kid_who_grew_up
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But it gets boring fast man, I just got a call from a friend to come party with a bunch of girls at a bar, I told him maybe, it's really cold outside and I just rather post on here. I bet some people would call that weird lol.
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#24 iam2green
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But it gets boring fast man, I just got a call from a friend to come party with a bunch of girls at a bar, I told him maybe, it's really cold outside and I just rather post on here. I bet some people would call that weird lol.kid_who_grew_up

i feel kind of weird here not being at my friends house. i was a close to going out finding a bar, but i'm alone.

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#25 Taegukki
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I never go to pubs/bars alone, and I never go clubbing because its lame.
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#26 kid_who_grew_up
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[QUOTE="kid_who_grew_up"]But it gets boring fast man, I just got a call from a friend to come party with a bunch of girls at a bar, I told him maybe, it's really cold outside and I just rather post on here. I bet some people would call that weird lol.iam2green

i feel kind of weird here not being at my friends house. i was a close to going out finding a bar, but i'm alone.

You don't have to focus on bars, you can go to house parties, once you know where one is you just go right in and everyone is to wasted to care who you are, grab a drink, talk to a girl and boom you're set for the night, best do it with a friend because I'm a chicken by myself, you need alot of confidence to walk into a random party where you don't know anyone.

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#27 Cloud_Insurance
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But it gets boring fast man, I just got a call from a friend to come party with a bunch of girls at a bar, I told him maybe, it's really cold outside and I just rather post on here. I bet some people would call that weird lol.kid_who_grew_up

yeah, thats no good. Girls > GS.

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#28 StrawberryHill
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I don't go out to clubs. Once in a while I go to a microbrewery to visit with friends, but it's rare. I like peace and quiet and fresh air better than musty bars.
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#29 btaylor2404
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No, I think I went to a bar at my hotel when I was in Miami on business once, but that's probably the only time I've ever gone alone.
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#30 Cloud_Insurance
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No, I think I went to a bar at my hotel when I was in Miami on business once, but that's probably the only time I've ever gone alone.btaylor2404

If I was on business somewhere, I would always go to the hotel bar...but then again, I'm still in college.

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#31 -starman-
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[QUOTE="Cloud_Insurance"][QUOTE="I_Am_Sexy"]

bars are stupid

stay home and drink, much cheaper, plsu you can lay around in your underwear if you want and you make all the rules

always idiots in bars

I don't see the point, if you go to a bar, you're lame LOL what a waste of time and money

FragStains

DOING THAT RIGHT NOW. FTW.

Please put some pants on. Please.

don't listen to him. you just go on being your non-pants-wearing self.

back to the topic... never been to a bar/club on my own, but i have gone to concerts on my own. as long as there is some way to distract yourself while you're there, then it can be fun.

are you any good at pool? you could do that while chilling at a bar on your own.

if you like to play cards, you could go to the casino instead.

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#32 loco145
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No, I don't drink.
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#33 -starman-
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But it gets boring fast man, I just got a call from a friend to come party with a bunch of girls at a bar, I told him maybe, it's really cold outside and I just rather post on here. I bet some people would call that weird lol.kid_who_grew_up

i don't see how that could possibly be boring.

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#34 kingdre
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Nope. Bar-hopping/clubbing is more fun with friends imo.
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#35 N8A
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Make new friends.

-TheSecondSign-
this sounds like a good plan.
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#36 Sabin55
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There are different types of bars.. "clubbing" is not really the place to go alone I would think. I don't go to a busy club/music bar by myself.

I do however go to a "towny" bar or a lodge like the elks club by myself. These are places where you walk in and more than likley know the people that are patrons and know the bartender. The place where the regulars are always there. For example a happy hour bar where people stop after work.

I get enough of the club scene when I am at work, I don't go to them.

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#37 wizard90
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Guys you need to be more outgoing, im no party animal but going clubbing or to bars once and a while is a good and really fun thing to do, im sure youd all enjoy it if you gave it a chance
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#38 _Classic_Gamer_
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Supposedly women like confidence more than anything. But if you ask me, all they care about is how much money you make and how big your penis is.
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#39 btaylor2404
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[QUOTE="btaylor2404"]No, I think I went to a bar at my hotel when I was in Miami on business once, but that's probably the only time I've ever gone alone.Cloud_Insurance

If I was on business somewhere, I would always go to the hotel bar...but then again, I'm still in college.

Yeah I would have too back then. Now it's just a great quiet brief escape from day to day life to be in a silent hotel room.

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#40 -starman-
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Supposedly women like confidence more than anything. But if you ask me, all they care about is how much money you make and how big your penis is._Classic_Gamer_

ah, but if you're in a position where they can assess the size of your penis then you can't be doing all that badly.

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#41 comp_atkins
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nah. go with friends