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#1 NINTENGOON
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Theres a girl I've gotten to know, and have grown to like. I haven't told her that I like her or anything. However, I'm leaving for a month and will be unable to talk to her. Do I tell her anything before I go?
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#2 iGaze
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telling her is alwasy the right answer I made the mistake of not telling many girls before... the worst she can do is not say the same thing back... then at least you will have the peace of mind to let her go...
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#3 -Sluggo-
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Yes. Go to her.
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#4 dracula_16
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Yes, you should. By the the time you get back, she might have already found someone else to be with.
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#5 Neptunian
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DON'T tell her that you have a crush on her or somethig along those lines. That makes things worse 99% of the time.

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#6 NINTENGOON
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It's not that serious.
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#7 NINTENGOON
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DON'T tell her that you have a crush on her or somethig along those lines. That makes things worse 99% of the time.

Neptunian

I've heard the same thing from other people, but I'm afraid she'll kind of forget me.

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DON'T tell her that you have a crush on her or somethig along those lines. That makes things worse 99% of the time.

Neptunian

100% bingo. Telling a girl how you feel only works in the movies. You lose power when you do that and it kills all foreplay and can potentially make things awkward. I don't know exactly what to tell you but do not tell her you like her or anything like that.

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#9 ElectronicMagic
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I wouldn't say anything, if you are gone for a month, that is a long time for a young person.
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#10 NINTENGOON
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[QUOTE="Neptunian"]

DON'T tell her that you have a crush on her or somethig along those lines. That makes things worse 99% of the time.

DA_B0MB

100% bingo. Telling a girl how you feel only works in the movies. You lose power when you do that and it kills all foreplay and can potentially make things awkward. I don't know exactly what to tell you but do not tell her you like her or anything like that.

alright, I'll go with that.

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#11 iGaze
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[QUOTE="DA_B0MB"][QUOTE="Neptunian"]

DON'T tell her that you have a crush on her or somethig along those lines. That makes things worse 99% of the time.

NINTENGOON

100% bingo. Telling a girl how you feel only works in the movies. You lose power when you do that and it kills all foreplay and can potentially make things awkward. I don't know exactly what to tell you but do not tell her you like her or anything like that.

alright, I'll go with that.

lol you only opened your mind to the answers that your mind was already leaning towards... I know you know that it would feel so much better for you to get your feelings out in the open... its always the best option... nothing will ever happen if you don't say anything...

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#12 Neptunian
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[QUOTE="Neptunian"]

DON'T tell her that you have a crush on her or somethig along those lines. That makes things worse 99% of the time.

NINTENGOON

I've heard the same thing from other people, but I'm afraid she'll kind of forget me.

Sorry if my message doesn't space or something. It's a glitch with my browser that sometimes occures.

It's okay to lett a girl know that you like her, however, saying "I sort of have a crush on you" rarely works.

I have one friend (we're just friends), and she knows that I would love to have intercourse with her, and I sort of told her that, however she isn't weirded out by it because of the way I told her. I didn't say "I really would love to have intercourse with you".

So maybe say that you'd like to hang out with her when you get back, (basically a date). This lets her know you're interested in a relationship with her, without making things awkward.

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#13 NINTENGOON
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[QUOTE="NINTENGOON"][QUOTE="Neptunian"]

DON'T tell her that you have a crush on her or somethig along those lines. That makes things worse 99% of the time.

Neptunian

I've heard the same thing from other people, but I'm afraid she'll kind of forget me.

Sorry if my message doesn't space or something. It's a glitch with my browser that sometimes occures.

It's okay to lett a girl know that you like her, however, saying "I sort of have a crush on you" rarely works.

I have one friend (we're just friends), and she knows that I would love to have intercourse with her, and I sort of told her that, however she isn't weirded out by it because of the way I told her. I didn't say "I really would love to have intercourse with you".

So maybe say that you'd like to hang out with her when you get back, (basically a date). This lets her know you're interested in a relationship with her, without making things awkward.

Perfect. You are a wise, wise man.