"Be Confident" to get a girl doesn't work

Confidence and arrogance are not the same thing.

Confidence and arrogance are not the same thing.

foxhound_fox

well being unconfident sure as hell won't work.

well being unconfident sure as hell won't work.

needled24-7

the truth is, you can be as confident as you want, but it's not gonna make a difference. you gotta strip "her" confidence in order for her to let her guard down. Cuz if you're confident and she's also confident, she'll just think you're egotistical.daftm0nk

Not at all true. By being confident it shows her you aren't intimidated. That has nothing to do with being egotistical.

[QUOTE="needled24-7"]

well being unconfident sure as hell won't work.

daftm0nk

[QUOTE="daftm0nk"]the truth is, you can be as confident as you want, but it's not gonna make a difference. you gotta strip "her" confidence in order for her to let her guard down. Cuz if you're confident and she's also confident, she'll just think you're egotistical.ragek1ll589

Not at all true. By being confident it shows her you aren't intimidated. That has nothing to do with being egotistical.

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[QUOTE="daftm0nk"]the truth is, you can be as confident as you want, but it's not gonna make a difference. you gotta strip "her" confidence in order for her to let her guard down. Cuz if you're confident and she's also confident, she'll just think you're egotistical.daftm0nk

Not at all true. By being confident it shows her you aren't intimidated. That has nothing to do with being egotistical.

But why would a girl be attracted to arrogance?

Sometimes you gotta tell her how big you are.

[QUOTE="daftm0nk"][QUOTE="ragek1ll589"]

Not at all true. By being confident it shows her you aren't intimidated. That has nothing to do with being egotistical.

ragek1ll589

But why would a girl be attracted to arrogance?

[QUOTE="ragek1ll589"]

[QUOTE="daftm0nk"]the truth is, you can be as confident as you want, but it's not gonna make a difference. you gotta strip "her" confidence in order for her to let her guard down. Cuz if you're confident and she's also confident, she'll just think you're egotistical.daftm0nk

Not at all true. By being confident it shows her you aren't intimidated. That has nothing to do with being egotistical.

[QUOTE="ragek1ll589"]

[QUOTE="daftm0nk"]the truth is, you can be as confident as you want, but it's not gonna make a difference. you gotta strip "her" confidence in order for her to let her guard down. Cuz if you're confident and she's also confident, she'll just think you're egotistical.daftm0nk

Not at all true. By being confident it shows her you aren't intimidated. That has nothing to do with being egotistical.

It's bascially based on evolution, usually the strong confident guys would survive longer and make stronger babies, so girls on a very basic level seeks that confidence.

female's are attracted to dominationdaftm0nk

100% BS

The fact that you're debating this on a gaming website speaks volumes. hahaha just kidding.

Confidence means taking a stand: someone butts their way infront of you two in the line, and you give them a firm talking down. No fighting, no swearing, no "showing off". Confidence means making decisions, not just sitting on the fence when the girl asks "what are we going to do?".

Confidence means being comfortable in your skin, to make her comfortable in hers; making good conversation, to make a connection; being friendly and charming, to make her want to do it again.

I'm assuming you were either rejected or had a bad date recently, and you might be hurting - don't worry about it. Nothing is complete without the "connection". And that requires the right person. And that comes with time.

[QUOTE="daftm0nk"]female's are attracted to dominationragek1ll589

100% BS

No, not really, once again this is based on evolution the strong, confident/dominant guys survived longer and therefore the girls were attracted to that.

Different women want different things. Period.

Sure, being confident is only part of getting the girl. However, let me speak from experience. If you don't think you can succeed, you won't. End of story.

Its pretty easy to mistake confidence for arrogance.

You have to be confident to a certain extent. However there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance which should not be crossed.

Confidence and arrogance are not the same thing.

foxhound_fox

agreed. reality is if a girl isn't into you it doesn't matter how confident you are, you are getting the girl, but that is just what I think on the whole advice of getting girls and confidence.

sometimes you have to be arrogant to show confidence. cuz if you don't have confidence to begin with, you can only force it.daftm0nk

This thread scares me...(Backs out Slowly)

Seriously though, If she likes you, she'll want to be with you. Showing Dominance or trying to become the OVerlord of someone I don't think will work. But Hey, I have no experience with girls so, my opinion doesn't really matter now does it :P.

well being unconfident sure as hell won't work.

You're doing it wrong.

You're doing it wrong.

DarthSatan

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[QUOTE="daftm0nk"]the truth is, you can be as confident as you want, but it's not gonna make a difference. you gotta strip "her" confidence in order for her to let her guard down. Cuz if you're confident and she's also confident, she'll just think you're egotistical.daftm0nk

Not at all true. By being confident it shows her you aren't intimidated. That has nothing to do with being egotistical.

Wouldn't "being yourself" be the most confident action?????

Wouldn't "being yourself" be the most confident action?????

T_Money420

Yeah, okay. Confidence is key in any endeavour, especially in dating.

Yeah, okay. Confidence is key in any endeavour, especially in dating.

fiscope

That's true. The only way to escape this "obligation" to be confident is to move to a different society and culture where there is less emphasis on confidence.

Confidence and arrogance are not the same thing.

foxhound_fox